Who SHOULD Pay For the Date? (Page 4)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Pay for your own meals, tickets etc. Also the best date is staying at home gaming with her, so meh.

[TroyDT]

If I ask I pay. If she asks and I say "yes" I offer to pay. Why? Because I usually choose. the venue and I do not know what her budget is.

[MangoBob]

I wouldn’t go out with a woman that serial dates, there are ways to tell, especially with dating sites and social media. I don’t want the town pump, i want a decent woman.

[MysteriousDarkness]

On a first date each person pays for their self. To me if you expect the other person to pay for you then you are saying your time is worth more than theirs is which is ridiculous.

[monkeynutts]

Negotiate that, and you might find dating easier. Tells you a lot about a person who thinks others should pay for them all the time.

[myTake Owner]

There are those people who think and get that just like there are those people who will pay every time. It's all about the individuals in the relationship. It's only a crap fest when the two don't feel that there is some type of reciprocity.

[AsaKyo]

I mean, you could always just split the bill

[andreasderjuengere]

The moment you wonder about this question:

you better DON'T date :)

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

So true!!!

[andreasderjuengere]

@The_Shadow_Dweller Thanks, mate.
And really: to spend time with someone we like is not a business transaction :)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Both partners should decide who wants to pay for a date.

[HighValue]

Each person should pay their own way so nobody feels obligated OR used.

[es20490446e]

Who pays for the date it's my least concern. I would say split it and make the money irrelevant.

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

same. I'm never sour im just smoking something much louder.

[Anonymous]

My attitude is if that's your main concern you probably shouldn't be dating.

I'm always going to pay I don't care what people personal opinions or arguments on the matter is. The only way I wouldn't pay is if she insisted on it.

[Sparklegirl1616]

It shouldn’t matter but guys would feel happier if a girl pays some times so that they don’t feel they are doing all the work all the time☺️

[Hairylegs222]

Doesn't matter who asks. Just be equal about it. Each pay half or take turns paying for dates. Someone shouldn't be always paying.

[SolitarySolace]

Whoever brought up going in the first place should be the one to pay. Either that or both should pay separately for their own individual meals.

[Anonymous]

Before anyone waste their time going on a date. You should let the person you are going out with know you want to split the bill 50/ 50.

[Anonymous]

What is all this nonsense about who SHOULD pay? Just split the bill girl.

[MCheetah]

But then that would involve gender equality and being responsible for her own life. And how many women want that nowadays? (Not very many.)

[Koalamate]

Whoever invited the person on the date. 50 cent

[karin1985]

If I'm willing to date a guy, it means that I approve of him. Then money is not an issue

[Literalbillionaire17]

I think the person who asked the other person on the date should always pay since they initiated it.

[msc545]

How many guys have you asked out and paid for?

[Literalbillionaire17]

I’ve never asked a guy on a date lol

[Juxtapose]

When I go out to eat with my friends we each pay for our own meals. I don't see why a girlfriend should be different.