Who SHOULD Pay For the Date? (Page 5)

[TonightYouu]

Whoever is the slowest

[Asksomeonelse]

I see... Dine and dash. Makes sense I guess.

[Idkiiii]

The one who initiated the date has to pay for it. Regardless of their gender. The inviter pays.

[Lookingforthetruth]

So 90% of the time it is men.

[Majjidkhan]

I think the person who wants to sleep with you should pay for the date. Thats becasue he or she approcehd you and he/she wants somthing from you !

[Orange85]

Exactly why I pay so idiotic men don’t think I owe them anything

[thatgirl013]

i think that whoever asked the other person on the date should pay

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

I thought that until reading this post but I can't remember why I thought that way in the first place. Men are the ones doing most of the asking so it seems not very random.

[TacosRAwesome]

I prefer paying for what I have, unless they really insist to pay for it all.

[jengeorge26]

If a guy wants to take me out, then he should have to pay

[msc545]

How many guys have you asked out and paid for?

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

Will you say yes to McDonald's? or staying in? If that is a no then you're not thinking and operating solely from a belief.

[msc545]

Yet another good reason why nobody wants to take you out.

[genericname85]

each for their own. we don't live in the 50s anymore where women can't earn money themselves.

[KostasKouvalis]

Whoever made the invite, which is usually the guy

[Lookingforthetruth]

which means net loss of money on the man's part.

[KostasKouvalis]

@Lookingforthetruth I honestly don't mind paying for her

[convo_king89]

I’m preety sure some women just go a date get a free meal and say it didn’t work out.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I rather if we both just split the bill, I don't believe in one person paying for everything.

[Guardian45]

If I ask her out on a first date, I pay. If she asks me out, she pays. After the first date, it should alternate or 'go Dutch'.

[Lookingforthetruth]

good luck losing your money foolishly.

[Guardian45]

In my experience, it wasn't foolish.

[Gangactivities911]

How did we get to where the man has to pay but the woman doesn’t have to save herself? Who came up with this shit? Can I ask that

[Anonymous]

Most women have two rules for this:

1. Whoever asks for a date should pay

2. Men should always do the asking

[Bubbles16]

I still believe that there are gentlemen out there so I say the guy should pay for dinner

[boobliker]

it all depends on who ask and who chose the place

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

I usually think like that but what happens when the guy is always expected to ask and if a girl says yes then she wanted to go so I don't know anymore. Personally I really dont give a fuck who pays. I won't sit there sweating the small stuff.

[blondfrog]

The waiter or waitress cause toy two are so important.

[Luopio27]

In the name fairness, in the name of equal rights. both should pay each others meals.

[loveslongnails]

Dating is not a "right", it's a social custom, and there's nothing "equal" about it when you analyze it.

[Luopio27]

The world of dating will never, ever be fair. For some its nothing but heaven on earth and for others its nothing more than a lifetime of lonelyness. For the rest its between the two extremes.

[Anonymous]

When women talk about feminism and equal right share the meal or pay for the meal.

[richgentlem4n]

as a gentleman I would love to pay for the girl I like

[KrakenAttackin]

The first date should not cost more than a cup of coffee.