How To Get a Man To Reply Faster

[Anonymous]

I asked an artificial intelligence chat bot how to get a man to reply faster for jokes, here's how it responded:

There are a few things you can try to get a man to reply faster:

- Keep your messages brief and to the point. Long, rambling messages can be overwhelming and may not hold someone's attention as well.

- Avoid sending multiple messages in a row. This can come across as pushy or desperate and may make the other person feel pressured to reply right away.

- Be respectful of their time and schedule. If you know they are busy or have a lot going on, give them some space and try not to expect an immediate response.

- Consider the medium of communication. Some people are more responsive to certain forms of communication than others. For example, some people may prefer to text while others prefer phone calls or email.

- Be clear about what you are asking for. If you need a quick response to a specific question or request, make sure to clearly state it in your message.

Ultimately, it's important to remember that everyone has different communication styles and schedules. It's not always possible to get an immediate response, and it's important to respect the other person's boundaries and needs.

What do you guys think of this?

[Guy13]

This well thought out and common sense. It is amazing how much more can get done if people think before they do. Basic politeness and consideration of other folks differences is imperative in any form of communication. We have to give people the benefit of the doubt as we all engage differently. It does not mean that anyone is bad.

[Ryfyle]

You can fuck off with that "Constructive Advice" Bullshit here. Take that helpful attitude outside, people come here to bitch and get mad.

[Guy13]

@Ryfyle what was that rain sprinkling landing on my arms... Surely, you got something more, that can at least "prick" my tough skin?

[Ryfyle]

@guy13
Are you so dull that you cannot comprehend internet sarcasm? Your brusque Autismo chafes my delicate patience.

[Guy13]

@Ryfyle ouch 😢. 😭

[Mewzinc]

I appreciate this comment and I agree with you @guy13

[AviatorTom]

Someone has taught that AI bot very well, at least for this topic. But it dodn't give you the best answer...

The best way to get a man to reply faster is to ask him... in person.

[myTake Owner]

Won’t that push him away?

[AviatorTom]

Why would you think that? Most guys like person-to-person contact and communications.

[Adaeva]

The best way is to be beautiful and above his league so he thinks he is doing well. That way he will do everything he can to keep you. If you think you are doing well and he doesn't, answering you will be a low priority.

[Juxtapose]

This is so wrong.

[Adaeva]

@Juxtapose You don't like it because it is not politically correct but it is as I described it.

[Juxtapose]

You're a child, you're not even half my age. Don't act like you know more than me when clearly you don't.

[Juxtapose]

Leagues are a myth and only weak minded people allow such a concept to restrict who they end up with.

[Adaeva]

@Juxtapose Age is only partly correlated with intelligence and knowledge. Not one adult in 50 would win a spelling bee if competing with under age 12 contestants. Now one adult in 30 can do what this 6 year old Cameron Voorhees did. www.youtube.com/watch

Therefore, don't claim that your age means you know more than I do because clearly you don't.

[Juxtapose]

Yeah I thought I knew everything when I was 14 as well, and so does every other 14-year-old. Your brain is not fully developed until your mid to late 20's.

Life is a lot more than memorizing how to spell things.

[Juxtapose]

There is a reason why you cannot legally consent to have sex with an adult, you cannot consent to get a tattoo, you cannot join the military, you cannot drink alcohol and so on.

If you're so smart then why don't adults let you into congress? It's because you do not have the wisdom and experience to lead or know what you're really talking about.

[Adaeva]

@Juxtapose I agree there is such a thing as wisdom that comes with experience but we are discussing something that can be observed; that is facts, not wisdom. I also agree, people do keep learning past their early teen years, but that doesn't mean that some teens are not smarter than all except a few adults.

Bobby Fisher became a master chess player at age 12. Certainly Bobby Fisher was better at age 25. However, there are less than 4,000 master chess players (less than 1 in 1 million). It is estimated there are 800 million chess players. That's about 1 master chess player per 200,000 chess players. I know I am not 1 in 200,000 (not even 1 in 100). Perhaps I don’t have as much wisdom as you and likely I don’t know as many facts. However, I believe I know more than you about the subject of this post.

[Juxtapose]

I am a man and you think you know how to get men to reply better than I? That's awfully bold of you to assume.

[Adaeva]

@Juxtapose Yes, I do because I date a lot of boys and I know boys are attracted to good looking girls. You don't date boys nor to you try to so you don't give it much thought. Instead you would give more thought to what it takes to attract girls.

[Juxtapose]

I am bi so you're wrong.

[Juxtapose]

Guys like people that are easy going and approachable.

[Juxtapose]

Well, adults anyway. Teens are different.

[Adaeva]

@Juxtapose I must admit. You have been my age. Therefore, you have the experience know what boys and girls my age do. I have never been you age. Therefore, I don't know what men and women your age do except for for what I can see and what I read. Nevertheless, I'm not convinced that you are right but I I'm not confident that I'm right. Perhaps I should Google more.

[Juxtapose]

I find the best way to learn about human behavior is to experience it for yourself. My experiences can differ from yours because of my environment, the type of people I prefer to hang around and so on.

People differ a lot as well. I am the type that likes to be emotionally intimate while other men essentially want a harem of sex buddies they don't really bond with all that much.

[VanillaSalt]

The thoughts right but the thinkings wrong. You shouldn’t look at yourself as above him or the lack of respect you show will push him away. But being a good woman that he wants will cause him to try harder to keep you.

[Juxtapose]

@VanillaSalt yes, I spend definitely desire respect keenly.

[Juxtapose]

*us men desire respect

Don't ask how that typo happened.

[VanillaSalt]

Haha I was trying to read it but my mind stopped processing the sentence 2 words in.

[Ryfyle]

Your ignorance is down right fucking painful. Kids these days are astoundingly retarded.

[Ryfyle]

@Juxtapose Hate to break it to you sir, but you've been arguing with a failed Disney Product that escaped the lab.

[itsalyssaagain]

In my experience that makes them take longer to reply in an attempt to get you attached.

[Anonymous]

Tell him that “suck my cock”

[OlderAndWiser]

Why does your generation judge people on the basis of how quickly they respond to text messages? Is it THAT important?

[Mewzinc]

Sadly... Yes...

[Angelo75]

"Consider the medium of communication" <--- AMEN!!!

Well... somehow the world we live in has pushed us into a notion that text-messages should be almost real-time communication (audio/video). Where fast-responses can be expected from the other side.

When you call or talk in person, the other person will drop everything and put attention to you so he/she can give you quick responses during the whole conversation.
After that, they pick up their lives and start "sharing attention" between the multiple things that they have to deal with.

But somehow it has become a normal thing that we expect "messages" to be reacted to in a relatively short time. (the definition of "short time" is a discussion in its whole).
By thinking in this way, it means that everyone is expected to have a lot of short interruptions during their activities to put short attention to answering the messages.

The effect is that the person trying to respond quickly to messages will be constantly having to interrupt their attention on whatever they're doing to answer. This will just mess up with the attention span of a person and lower his productivity in whatever he's doing.

If we want faster responses, I'd say, use real-time-communication ways.
Either meet up or do a phone/video call.

My honest opinion.

[EmyyWolf]

Some people are just pure demonic & entitled. They won’t respond.. because that’s how they feel about you.

LEAVE. MOVE ON.

I’ve have B—TY CALLS, FRIENDS W/ BENEFITS. Who answered in the same day, or a day after max. As soon as I see some degenerate brain-dead shT like this from a guy. THATS IT. 🖕

CUT YOUR LOSSES. GIRL.

Im telling you.. not once did it happen that My F—K BOY.. has done this. Not once. Been chilling with him for over 3 years.

[Lynx122]

Personally I like long messages if it's someone I only know online and lives in a different country. When someone only responds to things if I specifically ask for every single thing I want to know, it's a huge chore to get to know someone that way. It's a lot more fun if both people write a lot. When you're planning to meet up then keeping it short is better. I do agree with the other points.

[vetociw626]

These are decent points. Most important thing is to get the guy to like you a lot and feel excited by you. It helps if you show interest in him and reply faster too!

Some people are busy and don’t check their phones often for anyone. Keep that in mind.

[lightbulb27]

baloney.

give him a time line for response!

Tell him there's a "special prize" in it if he responds quickly enough.

[SnowedIn]

This is actually pretty good. Particularly the last paragraph beginning with "ultimately". This is all really good advice.

[CA4444]

Are you using ChatGPT? I started using it too recently…

[integrale77]

Bow down to our robot overlords they know us too well

[aaron210419]

These are good suggestions but the truth is if he's interested he'll reply in a reasonable amount of time.

[John_Doesnt]

Tell him you're having trouble taking off your bra.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nah, If I like a girl, the only reason I won't reply fast, is I didn't see the message.

[Hipshot]

text less - try not to be immature - do not use sex as the main attraction - men are hunters by nature 99% of dating is the hunt for them - don't be easy game - but do be exciting game to hunt

[sunflower44]

Ignore him , then he starts getting worried n texts you 😅

[blueonblack22]

Be careful about overdoing that.

[sunflower44]

Tht was actually sarcasm lol I don't have any advice for anyone I just had to answer some questions so I could message people 😬😏

[blueonblack22]

Nah there is a thing about “being a challenge” and being mysterious. But in my observations women naturally do this (often overdo) compared to most guys.

But you can overdo it.

[Ryfyle]

The real joke here is women taking any initiative.

[Anonymous]

All great answers. One more I'd add:

Send noods!

[Jmmmfi4]

WHY ARE WE SEEING THIS QUESTION FROM 11 MONTHS AGO

[Christcloud85]

How does a constanty forget to text me back?

[TJones96t]

really like to have free time as much as possible while earning these days

[princesschey]

send a bikini pic lol