anyone doing any of tjis ignorant and stupid shit is not mentaly mature enough for a damed kids play date and should be excluded from ALL dating pools till they grow up.
Agreed. If i detect a girl is testing me, i go silent or say very little. I won't feed her ego in this way. I won't be tested, or controlled. She can move on if she wants
Means i dont have to put up with her bullshit. I deserve better.
I do number 5 all the time but not to that degree... but if someone doesn't message me I don't message them because obviously the guy doesn't want to hear from me or finds me annoying so I just message if they message..
Lol because everyone always talks about being needing, clingy and annoying to men.. so I rather they talk if they want to talk.. plus so many guys don't answer my calls but I always would answer theirs so.. its just how much they like me it is easy to see by doing that.
I will gladly fail tests 5,4, and 2, ten times out of ten.
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I'm fine with all of these except effort. I don't want a half assed lazy man. If he's lazy at the start then that means by the time I fully get to know him he's just a step away from a street bum.
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anyone doing any of tjis ignorant and stupid shit is not mentaly mature enough for a damed kids play date and should be excluded from ALL dating pools till they grow up.
Not initiating contact.
Not answering texts/phone calls on purpose.
Silent treatment.
Gaslighting.
Also known as Narcissism
@Nemesis2k7 everyone is categorized as a Narcissist nowadays anyways.
I've dated quite a few women. The ones who exhibited a majority of the traits above ended up being dumped. So there is some merit to this take.
Agreed. If i detect a girl is testing me, i go silent or say very little. I won't feed her ego in this way. I won't be tested, or controlled. She can move on if she wants
Means i dont have to put up with her bullshit. I deserve better.
A fantastic MyTake and very good advice. Women that do these things are just immature and sexist
If she tests me, she failed and I’m out.
especially choosing my kids over anyone. Until my kids are adults.
I never do a dinner date as a first meeting. I'll spring for a coffee and a pastry, but I'm not throwing down $100+ on a stranger.
This is offensive to me, I've never done any of these things, yet I'm being accused of them by a complete stranger (who doesn't even write well).
He never said ALL women do this.
Guilty? No one acused you. Why so defensive
I've never put up with any of that garbage.
Good mytake though. 👍
With pretty much all of these, to me, it just starts the relationship off with a lack of trust so there's really no point in entertaining any of it.
Well said. When women do this shit just "next" them.
All of these are relatively true. The texting one is a judgment call, but the rest are true.
@worldscolide I'd rather be alone than deal with 5 tests that women use on men.
I do number 5 all the time but not to that degree... but if someone doesn't message me I don't message them because obviously the guy doesn't want to hear from me or finds me annoying so I just message if they message..
why the heck would you do number 5, that one is basically a deal breaker for most men.
Lol because everyone always talks about being needing, clingy and annoying to men.. so I rather they talk if they want to talk.. plus so many guys don't answer my calls but I always would answer theirs so.. its just how much they like me it is easy to see by doing that.
I will gladly fail tests 5,4, and 2, ten times out of ten.
I'm fine with all of these except effort. I don't want a half assed lazy man. If he's lazy at the start then that means by the time I fully get to know him he's just a step away from a street bum.
Dating is fucking exhausting lol
Agreed, I'm glad I'm not doing it anymore
Cause people put a lot of bs on top of it all. They self sabotage to the moon and back.
It's all about control.
Facts
i enjoyed reading this one.
we need to stop the Choosing her test.