Reasons men should date military women

[Anonymous]

1. Strength and resilience: Women in the military undergo intense physical and mental training, making them strong and resilient partners. They can handle challenging situations and provide support during difficult times.

2. Shared values and purpose: Dating a woman in the military means being with someone who understands the importance of dedication, discipline, and service to their country. This shared purpose can create a strong bond between partners.

3. Adventurous lifestyle: Women in the military often have exciting and adventurous experiences, which can add excitement and diversity to the relationship. They may have traveled to different parts of the world, allowing for new and unique experiences as a couple.

4. Independence and confidence: Military women have a sense of self-reliance and confidence that can be extremely attractive to a partner. They are accustomed to making independent decisions and can offer a mature perspective on various matters.

5. Honorable and trustworthy: The military instills a sense of honor and integrity in its members. Dating a military woman means being with someone who values honesty, loyalty, and trust in both personal and professional aspects.

6. Multicultural exposure: With military deployments and overseas assignments, women in the military often experience and appreciate diverse cultures. This multicultural exposure can broaden horizons and enrich the relationship with new perspectives and experiences.

7. Strong support system: The military community offers a strong support system to its members, including spouses. Dating a woman in the military means having access to a supportive network of friends and resources, making it easier to navigate the challenges that come with military life

8. Adaptability and flexibility: Constant changes and unexpected situations are part of military life. Dating a military woman means being with someone who is adaptable and flexible, making it easier to handle uncertainties and transitions together.

9. Career-driven and goal-oriented: Military women are often ambitious and driven in their careers. They strive for success and personal growth, which can inspire and motivate their partners to pursue their own goals.

10. Dedication to family and relationships: Women in the military understand the importance of family and maintaining strong relationships. Despite the challenges of military life, they prioritize their loved ones, making them committed and loving partners.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

Great positives, but you should also highlight somethings for consideration. Deployments for example - extended periods of time in a foreign space with 95%+ deployed population being male and majority of base workers, other country nationals, are also usually be male. Compound that with the idea that she will be gone for months and 9 times outta 10 it will be unaccompanied orders.

But yeah, not saying she would cheat on you, but military marriages are entirely known for infidelity.

[myTake Owner]

That is all true. These are just reasons why you should.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah. You have to find the right one

[BoopBoopBeep]

non military marriages aren't exactly known for fidelity either. I deployed 9 times. I'm not going to be a hypocrite. Other country nationals are usually poor Indians and Nepalese, by the way. Not a lot of competition..

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

@BoopBoopBeep Sometimes the allure of having sex with a foreigner is knowing its entirely short-term as well as getting the pleasure of something you're unaccustomed to. Besides, with everyone on base being male, who do you believe the military men would pursue if all OCNs were poor Indian dudes?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@deus_ex_sisyphus
where did you deploy? I've been on over 4 dozen bases in Iraq and Afghanistan and 90% of OCNs are poor indian and nepalese. I know, because I had the alpha rosters for every base.

Did you see a lot of military women getting wet over the laundry guy when they are surrounded by fit men who have jobs that pay more in a month than those guys make in a quarter working 12 hour days?

I don't know a single military woman who would read your comment up there in context of this conversation and be like "facts... that dfac guy could dick me down any day... you see how he served that rice? Scoop ME"

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

@BoopBoopBeep Not every job entails working 12-hours days, some work the standard 8, others even get days off for things like crew rest. With that said - sex is a very basic need for everyone and not everyone chooses to abstain from satisfying that need over the deployment window

[BoopBoopBeep]

@deus_ex_sisyphus
No we're banging it out regularly, just not with third country nationals. You watch too many RomComs.

There's literally nobody in a war zone working 8 hour days. Nobody. Not a one. Certainly not contractors. Now I know you've never deployed if you think there's ever been a contract written for Iraq or Afghanistan that had a 40 hour work week involved.

Again, where did you deploy to?

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

@BoopBoopBeep I keep my personal life separate from my online one - stop prying; I have no interest in merging the two.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@deus_ex_sisyphus
yep so do I, because all the stuff I did overseas on those 8 hour shifts

have a great one chief

[Jor-El_Star]

I've been in the military and deployed three times. What I'm going to say doesn't mean all military women, but from my experience, most military women are very promiscuous. Mostly due to time apart. Not saying men are innocent either, but I've personally witness "good marriages" fall apart due to infidelity by the wives.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I didn't even think about the infidelity risk... the massive amount of time spent apart, the personality differences, and the risk of death while on duty were so huge in my mind that I spaced it on that one.

[BoopBoopBeep]

They stay in shape and believe in work hard/play hard. They relate to me better, plus less whiny BS that I don't care about like whatever your "frienemy" did this past weekend. I've had a wonderful time with the service members and vets I dated.

[myTake Owner]

My gosh they’re a million times better aren’t they. Not the same drama that comes with a lot of women. Not that all women are that way. Just a lot less of them.

Unless it’s a military woman whose only worked behind a desk and cried for a uniform she never earned. The badass military women can’t stand those women either.

Not that working behind a desk is bad. It’s just when they bitch and cry sexism

[BoopBoopBeep]

Thanks for MHO

[Oliverlogan263]

Cffffggg

[Avicenna]

I'm a veteran and did date some female servicemembers when I was in the military. It's generally a bad idea unless you get married and get stationed/deployed together. Even in the unlikely event there is no cheating on either side, you're going to spend a lot of time separated from each other if one is a civilian and the other military.

[Avicenna]

by the way, an not-insignificant number of women in the military are single moms (although a lower percentage than in the civilian world). That is definitely a situation you don't want to get anywhere near.

[catsmemoir]

They also tend to have zero personality beyond LARPing as ridiculous caricatures of what they think men are.

[SherriMarieValentine]

First and foremost military women are human first. Yes, they have training and experience civilian women will NEVER see or understand.

1. True

2. Shared values and purpose: Dating a woman in the military means being with someone who understands the importance of dedication, discipline, and service to their country. This shared purpose can create a strong bond between partners.

(ONLY IF THE GUY IS HAS HONORABLY SERVED or RETIRED FROM THE MILITARY TOO. FULL STOP.)

3. Adventurous lifestyle: Women in the military often have exciting and adventurous experiences, which can add excitement and diversity to the relationship. They may have traveled to different parts of the world, allowing for new and unique experiences as a couple.

(This depends on the job or career they have. They could be a supply clerk in the States.)

4. Independence and confidence: Military women have a sense of self-reliance and confidence that can be extremely attractive to a partner. They are accustomed to making independent decisions and can offer a mature perspective on various matters.

(All well trained Military & Domestic Defenders have a sense of self-reliance/Confidence & are accustomed to being in command. They know their limitation and qualification. Therefore they know when to lead, follow, or learn.)

5. (Again, human first. As humans we are NOT infallible. I've known military personnel that have cheated on their spouse. So, this one is not even close to 100%)

6. (I repeat, not all military people deploy. Some are desk jockeys right here in the States.)

7. (Mostly true. But it's attached to pay grade and subculture folkways and mores. It ain't the movies.)

8. (Yes, we are trained to transfer, and deploy, it does NOT mean we like it or are good at it. Most of us are, but we all long for the stability of home life, after deployment. Remember the true warrior prays for peace.)

9. (I do NOT want my significant others motivation and success dependent and looking to me for motivation. They should have their own. What we have should be synergistic, not dependent.)

10. (Those that actually have Honor, Courage, and Commitment do. As I started out, "Human first." There are military personnel that have families and cheat on them.)

[myTake Owner]

You’re right. Others have pointed out. Some are good and some are bad. They’re human and you shouldn’t worship a human being.

I think people who are cheated on it’s a sad situation. Who I HATE the most are stay at home moms. Who are unambitious BUMS. There are stay at home mothers who are GREAT. But I’m talking about ones
That chest on their husbands and make
them absolutely miserable

[myTake Owner]

Yeah. The desk military personnel. Some are good and humble, they do their job. They aren’t trying to be something they’re not and they work hard to serve this county.

Some of them also cry for shit they never earned

[myTake Owner]

And k think military personnel and civilians can date. Ir depends on the people. Some may not be interested and that’s fine. Others may be.

As long as both people are good. Don’t cheat. And are happy with one another ir can work

[TheSpaceGnome]

"I do NOT want my significant others motivation and success dependent and looking to me for motivation. They should have their own. What we have should be synergistic, not dependent."

Interesting perspective, thats not how I use the term dependent.
I see synergy between partners as a form of co-dependence, for example co-heading a business, or collaberating on creative works, or drawing inspiration from eachother that leads to more motivation, or comforting eachother, or being dependant on eachother for fun and good company thats always available.

[TheSpaceGnome]

1. All humans are frail, even the strongest ones. The road to longevity is paved by avoiding danger, not jumping headfirst into it. Plus I don't find muscular women physically attractive.

2. I don't share those values aside from dedication (dicipline is inferior to education, critical thinking, and practice, and I'm more the "one earth no countries - hippie - make love not war - artistic - gamer - science nerd" type).

3. I prefer my adventures and excitement be done in the safe confines of a video game, high risk ventures are a "no no", and I'd want any woman I marry to be just as risk averse.

4. Independence and confidence are not important to relationships for me, I'd rather she have co-dependance with me, and lots of talent/skill. I want a woman who thinks like me, shares my hobbies, interests and goals, and wants to work from home with me doing fun creative stuff, not being away for long periods or risking death... Also my idea of mature is not killing people just because they disagree with you...

5. We can agree to disagree on this one. Honorable would be helping people in this and other countries thrive so that they aren't feeling desperate, and wars never happen to begin with. And I've yet to see a military action by any country's army that "rescues people from needing to go to war". And yes, I genuinely think thats realistic in most cases.

6. I prefer individualism.

7. A support system that repeatedly puts my wife in lethal danger is NOT a support system, its a hazard.

8. This is half true, half false, she would have better survival skill knowledge, which increases survival chances, but it would be negated by putting herself in constant danger, which reduces survival chances much more than the former increases it.

9. I'd prefer she has a drive for an art, science, and tech career.

10. I value my family enough to want to not lose them in a war that didn't need to happen.

Sorry but hard pass, I respect anyone who is out there genuinely protecting others, but thats not the way I'd go about it, and I prefer to not become a widower, plus I'm a nerd/geek, I don't date jocks.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I also prefer the sweet, bubbly personality types, do there's that.

[TheSpaceGnome]

meant "so" not "do"

[SherriMarieValentine]

Your answer is DULY noted and given its due course.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@SherriMarieValentine As someone in the miltary, what, if anything, would/could you do as a wife to negate these problems from occuring?

[SherriMarieValentine]

Depends on the problem. I do NOT have all the answers. But some are basic. Keep lines of communication as open as possible. As one who had a very high security clearance I may not know everything my man will do mission wise. My support will relieve stress knowing our home is taken care of. We will have a support network that WE can depend on together. Having good people around you can hold you accountable. But, as all military people I've been around, that are accountable to themselves, that's called integrity, we all know to have the COURAGE to HONOR our COMMITMENTs, to ourselves, and each other.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@SherriMarieValentine The biggest problem is the high risk of death that comes with military jobs.
I don't want to ever receive a phone call telling me my wife is dead.

The second biggest problem is time spent apart, I'm the "spend all my time with my wife doing shared hobbies" type of person.

I genuinely think its impossible to be in the military and still avoid those problems.

[hahahmm]

1. Strength and resilience - But I don't need a woman to be strong like that. It's like if I went to look for a new car and someone tells me about a car that can grow trees out of the trunk.

2. Shared values and purpose... "service to their country." - For thousands of years men fought & women kept the home ready for his return. I see no reason to change that for *my* woman. Although feminists who say they don't need men are encouraged to go to the front lines. Fine with me.

3. Adventurous lifestyle: "Women in the military often have exciting and adventurous experiences" - I take my woman on trips in & out of the country. I got it covered. Don't need Uncle Sam showing her a 'good' time. After all, she might start to think that she's married to Uncle Sam instead of me.

4. Independence and confidence. Oh, NO. Being in a relationship is not about being independent. Being married is 100x more not about that. If she wants to be independent she can be with the other 5,000 dudes & leave me alone.

5. Honorable and trustworthy. And here I thought these were character traits you can learn & practice without being in the military. It's kind of like saying you should date a cop because cops learn how to use flashlights and run in shoes at Police Academy.

6. Multicultural exposure: See point #3.

7. Strong support system. Maybe but personally, I am a strong enough individual that I provide the support & keep myself and my woman in check.

8. Adaptability and flexibility: My observation is that if a woman is really into you they adapt. Even if they say they don't want to be flexible, they are. So...

9. Career-driven and goal-oriented. Never mattered to me if my woman had zero career because I didn't get with her for her career/money. Also if she's working as hard as a dude, stressed by all of that & always busy doing what her boss tells her to do, I don't see how she'd have time to be there for me. One of the problems with the modern world.

10. Dedication to family and relationships. Women already do this stuff. The question is if she is dedicated to YOUR relationship or the other dude (s) she knows.

[BCA6010]

Yeah here's the problem: I've actually been in the military and the reality is that the significant majority of servicewomen are neither attractive or wholesome, and typically the ones who are at least the latter are already married. Sure there are exceptions, but they are very few and far between. Without exceptions, every dual military marriage that someone I knew got into resulted in the woman taking her ETS, and then 50% were divorced within a year. Anyway, to your arguments:

1. Relative to the rest of the female population, this is generally true, though the overwhelming majority of women in the service are not doing the most physically or mentally demanding jobs; they are doing jobs with direct civilian side parallels with organized workouts in the early mornings five times a week. Frankly, due to medical profiles, many don't even do that.

2. LOL! Right...

3. See #1. Furthermore, the "seeing the world" most people actually experience consists of very little to the point it's a running joke across all branches.

4. Sort of, but only negligibly moreso than any other woman who has been living on her own for a bit.

5. Every Creed and ethos you can imagine likes to say something to this effect, but memorizing them for the next promotion board doesn't mean they actually live it.

6. This is even funnier than #2. Honestly best case scenario here is she realizes how much worse things could be than they are at home. Time spent in foreign countries is either in a third world craphole, a US garrison transplanted to a different landscape, or receiving the guest treatment.

7. This is definitely true, or at least it was as recently as 2018, though such benefits are reserved exclusively for married couples. A date can get invited to some parties but that's about it.

8. Actually, military people want stability at home. Making one "adapt" is not going to be a healthy relationship.

9. See my original statement on how most quit their careers whenever things appear to be becoming stable and permanent. Furthermore, men generally prefer women who will take care of the household and start a family together over what "career-driven" tends to insinuate. Sometimes it takes a failed relationship or two, but almost all men come to realize this eventually.

10. You cannot "always prioritize loved ones" while also being "career-minded" and serving in the military. No matter how many FRG/FSG events are set up, or whatever BS people want to spin, the military will always come first as long as she wears the uniform.

[SherriMarieValentine]

I am retired United States Navy. Women can and do heavy lifting, and mentally challenging assignments. Can you fly a jet, are you qualified to command a ship, or as of recently be the Chief of Naval Operations? All people have some limitations it's what you do about them and what you do with what you can do that gives you the ability to contribute to the team.

Every relationship has its own dynamics. That's what getting to know each other is for. It is not the 1950's anymore, all modern men of worth see a relationship as a partnership. Each, as above, contributes to the team with what they have to offer. My girlfriend's boy friends cooks because she will burn water. She fixes stuff because he can't change a light bulb without destroying the house.

[jennyPuss]

1. Strength and resilience: can provide support in difficult times: can, but they don't.

2. Shared values and purpose: more likely to look down on you and disrespect you

3. Adventurous lifestyle: they will get bored with you

4. Independence and confidence: they will be a bitch and expect you to follow their lead

5. Honorable and trustworthy: couldn't be further from the truth. the military uses UCMJ to enforce it's policies. violators are prosecuted. the military doesn't instill anything, it simply reveals what is already there.

6. Multicultural exposure: likely to return home pregnant or with a STD

7. Strong support system: plenty of battle buddies to cheat on you with

8. Adaptability and flexibility: won't be able to settle down.

9. Career-driven and goal-oriented: you will never be successful enough. no matter what level you achieve, she will push you to do better. you will never be able to relax and enjoy life. if you ever want to go hunting or fishing or just watch the game, you will instantly turn into "a lazy bum".

10. Dedication to family and relationships: translation: HER family, HER children. after she cheats on you with the entire squadron, and you find out and divorce her, she'll take half your shit, your kids, and the military will make sure half your check goes to her for 20 years.

[myTake Owner]

Jenny this VERY much depends on the woman. A evil woman won’t be happy no matter where she is at. You can see a Taylor Swift a billionaire playing the victim all the time.

But there is also stay at home mom/houswives who are bitter and miserable as well.

[myTake Owner]

I’ve met some amazing women…. And some not so great.

[myTake Owner]

Same with men

[myTake Owner]

In fact some of the WORST marriages I EVER seen was where the woman stayed home. I’m not saying all stay at home moms are bad. I’m really not. But a LOT of people said to avoid those women at all costs.

[jennyPuss]

my husband's best friend has had a stay at home wife for 20 years who's not' worth the powder to blow her straight to hell. she finally initiated divorce on HIM. now that she's out of the house, kids are happy, doing their school work, house is clean. no drama. finances are in order. (she was blowing money like crazy) there's actually groceries in the house.

she was a lazy piece of resentful, narcissistic shit. i'm talking about military girls though. i was in the army, so i know EXACTLY how MOST of them are. and if you're on deployment, they are ALL "10's"... our commander caught one of our guys in bed with a girl in the female barracks. of course, nobody said a fucking word cause the sisterhood sticks together. i was on radio duty down in the command bunker, so i wasn't involved. commander ordered her to call her husband and confess.

the funny thing is, i went to basic with this girl. she also suffered a miscarriage and was out of training for a week. on the flight home she confessed to me that was the reason she was out for a week. then we get off the plane and she runs down the ramp to her waiting husband (who was her boyfriend at the time) and tells him how much she missed him and loves him.

there's only 2 kinds of females in the military: already married and loyal- 5% at best... and 95% absolute whores...

roll your dice men.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@jennyPuss Damn. But I’d be curious to know though. Of that 5% that aren’t whores, how are they generally received by men?

I can’t speak for dudes in the military more generally, but I would think at least some share of them would be turned off by absolute whores

[myTake Owner]

Absolutely I know that there is a lot of shit in the military. But your husband is lucky to have you. If you find a good woman to marry you.

The point I’m making is. This world is dark… There is a LOT of bad people. But there is good and bad in all walks of life.

If men marry any woman who allows them to sleep with them and knocks them up. And just married them. Same for women who just allow men to have sex with them until they’re knocked up and marry

[myTake Owner]

As many worthless women exist. There is also a lot of worthless men as well. I’ve seen men his wife barely make a living. But he sits at home smoking pot and playing video games and doesn’t contribute anything. Not even cleaning up after himself

[myTake Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill there is a lot of man whores too. So. What’s sad is a lot of them cheat on their wives and a lot of military spouses cheat. It’s sad. But true.

You always have to be careful who you choose

[myTake Owner]

But the reason I brought up stay at home moms. Yoh talk about how this doesn't equal that. When stay at home moms are usually the opposite traits. And yet a lot of them are horrible too

[SweetCountryGirl123]

As a female of a multi generational military family let me be blunt. Your post is sooo full of delusions & such false information it's amusing.

The average female military is a slut, whore, wannabe prostitute that fucks her way through the ranks. Has few to little morals or ethics and wants quick easy money as quickly as possible and isn't above dumping her "boyfriend" in the military the minute anyone of a higher rank shows her the tinest bit of attention. Worse sluts of the world.

Well known fact.

It's a joke amongst adept females (e. g. military family sorts) and men alike that these women are just soooo freaking cheap. They do NOT have a lot of respect amongst fellow military personal and are oftentimes avoided like they've got a contagious disease (except for men looking for prostitutes but smart enough not to pay).

I mean a large number of them are single mothers with god knows who the daddy is because they ARE just that freaking cheap, desperate and pathetic.

[SweetCountryGirl123]

This is WHY there is "sexual abuse", etc so high in the military.

80% of these women -- aka slut tramps --- are prone to being dressed like a prostitute, acted like a cheap good for nothing whore, and treated just like the well-used slut - around the barracks bicycle - they present themselves as.

Many a time these claims of "abuse" is because they were some dumb slut to be extremely blunt used for cheap sex by someone higher in rank until he was relocated and/or his family/wife was moved onto barracks (because it's not always instant) and thus dumped faster than a bag of rotten leftovers.

Most of these cheap women don't even have support of fellow female soldiers that aren't similarly tramps.

[myTake Owner]

Some are yes. Plenty are. It depends on if you find the right one or not

[myTake Owner]

You said it. There’s women in the military who aren’t tramps and have zero respect for them. It’s the same way in law enforcement. Other female cops hater HATE the quota hires the MOST because they make them look bad and they have to deal with their shit

[Light_beam]

@SweetCountryGirl123 Isn't that what most westren girls do with the dating/sex without marriage culture? Why would you shame military women for the thing you and other ordinary girls in the west do?

[PetLover24]

@Light_beam If you paid attention loud mouth, she said elsewhere that she's only been with 1 guy.

[SweetCountryGirl123]

@Light_beam I've only been with 1 guy sweetie. I wasn't to be trailer tramps like you're used to, or did you fail to comprehend the part about coming from a military family. Means I was raised to have self respect something most Americans sluts wouldn't understand if a dictionary was thrown at them.

[Light_beam]

Well, i appreciate that.. you have a nice self respect.. but i was not talking about you specifically my dear.. i was talking about most westren girls and the culture itself.. i meant to say being a military girl who sleeps around is not so different from what those girls do.. I have been raised to know that a self respecting person wouldn't fuck around , would only do it with marriage.. so this is my mind set

[PetLover24]

@Light_beam Be quiet

[KrakenAttackin]

So true. There is a reason Woman Marines (WM's) are known as "walking mattresses"..😂😂😂

[Light_beam]

@Petlover 24 not even talking to you.. get lost

[myTake Owner]

Well. Exactly. Men should find women like you. You have to be careful who you date! Absolutely. But you’re a honest good person and that’s what matters

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin Gotta say, I always appreciate a good honest take 👍

[jennyPuss]

it really pissed me off how many times i got passed for promotion because some younger piece of shit was sucking dick. here i am busting my ass like the rest of the guys. punished because i'm a loyal wife. it's basically a fact that if you're a female with a ring, you can''t get promoted unless you're willing to take it off for a few hours.

[myTake Owner]

@jennyPuss I agree. See what I mean how the competent women HATE…. Those women the MOST. More then the men do.

[myTake Owner]

@jennyPuss see how y’all attack these women. Yet you’re the people I’m talking about who aren’t that way.

It’s just like stay at home moms. So many stay at home moms say to avoid them. But oddly enough they’re great people. So it says they’re not all bad

[Anonymous]

I fully agree. As the son of immigrants, and the brother of someone graduated from West Point who married a girl in South Korea while in the DMZ and has never had anyone in his family divorced, in prison, on child support, arrested for DV, rape or on dope... this is bang on. My mother told me that nurses/EMT, law enforcement women and soldiers make for a good wife. She stayed married her entire life raising a successful family, and my brother is still happily married, well off with 3 daughters over a decade later. One of the most respectful people I've ever met was an apartment building manager in Texas... a lady about 40. Her resume? A Notre Dame grad and 8 years in the Marines. I knew her for nearly a half decade before I even learned that about her. She didn't feel the need to go around telling everyone. The most disrespectful quick to stereotype, angry paranoid women I've met... nearly ALL of them... ESPECIALLY under 35... are well off, from some public university, a ski Barbies from University of Colorado who took Women's Studies and have a 1K iPhone they're addicted to. Women in the fields like my mother mentioned KNOW what it's like to fight against the odds, and they've EARNED their keep, so they're grounded and empathetic...2 qualities that make for a good partner. They don't need to go around tooting their horn to get someone to notice them. Same as guys... I've known some guys growing up who went on fame in sports. 1 won the NBA slam dunk contest. Another was an NFL All Pro. Another won the Heisman Trophy. All 3 are grounded nice guys who volunteer in their communities... the wannabes with big mouths and rap music blasting from their gfs car down the street are the bullies... THEY HAVE SOMETHING TO PROVE. The real athletes don't.

[PeachyPie93]

Nice post, they can be great women but military woman are more likely to cheat because they are surrounded by hot men and they are gone for months at a time out of the country or state. Plus with the long distance often that is hard to hold a relationship together. One or both partners usually cheat on each other. So I would never want to date anyone in the military.

[myTake Owner]

Absolutely but if you find one with good integrity she won’t cheat.

[PeachyPie93]

True, but with generation and how people treat sex I don't think that will be easy to find.

[jshm2]

Nah,

The military has among the worst rape and abuse rates for women. You're basically either a mentally or physically damaged product (usually both), no matter how you dress it.

There is good reason so few women make it to the top of the military.

[SweetCountryGirl123]

As a woman from a multi generational military family let me clear something up. Most of the "rape & abuse" is due to the women themselves. A very typical situation in many barracks is some dumb cow sleeping with her superior for "favours" and then dumped - and feeling insulted - when his wife or family come onto barracks and she is no longer queen fuck.

The military IS a hot bed with the average female soldier more used THAN a prostitute for hire around the barracks; the average female soldier dresses cheaply outside of uniform and acts even cheaper. Single mother as military women is not uncommon, it's widely the norm because of their whoreish behaviors.

They very rarely get any support even from female soldiers who don't act like sluts.

[myTake Owner]

@SweetCountryGirl123 but they are wild…. If a guy wants good casual sex a military woman is perfect.

[JacobJordan]

all good things except the first half of number 4. independence is not a good quality. no one in a relationship is independent. you both depend on the other. you can both be fine on your own but you would rather be with each other. independence is great for people who are single and intend to remain that way

[myTake Owner]

This is true. But you should want one another. You don’t want someone who would leave you if they started doing well in life.

[JacobJordan]

precisely why independence is not a good quality

[catsmemoir]

Men should NOT date military women. Unless you're ok with her being gone 6 months out of the year, surrounded by horny dudes with no access to other women. The chances she will cheat are probably close to 100. I deployed twice. I don't think there was a single woman who didn't cheat on her boyfriend/Husband with some barracks dick. Also, unless you're in the military yourself, your lifestyles are going to be wildly incompatible.

[Anonymous]

As a subbie, i want to be with a woman who can kick my ass in a real fight and be dominant. But the problem is, the women can buy into bullshit the same as the men can. Many of your statements are just propaganda and a lot of lies about the "system", particularly about being multicultural. In the military, you're taught that 'we're better than' all the time.

You're a brainwashed servant of the military complex. You claim military people personnel are taught to be independent, or think independently? Bullshit, no they're not. They're taught to obey. Traveling to different parts of the world? Hmm, what do you learn about other cultures from the inside of a military base? This post is just an advertisement, and like most ads, they mislead you.

[ArrowheadSW]

My favorite former girlfriend was a sergeant in the US military. It didn't work out between us due to the fact that we became re-located and other life issues, but I love to look back at our relationship.

[myTake Owner]

Awww that’s sweet

[Redstang88]

Ehh maybe if they’re on active deployment this might be accurate. But honestly everyone I know that went career military is just there for the cushy government salary and pension and is either to stupid make it in the corporate world or too lazy to make it in trades

[libsaretards]

I'm ex-military myself so this would be a huge plus for me. Dating a female military/police officer means there is someone who can understand my own mental struggles.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah true. So many women are worthless when it comes to emotional support. Not all women mant women are also great. A nurturing woman

[Apple1996]

Eh most military women are either lesbos or barracks bunnies that have sucked their way up to gain rank. There might be a few good ones but that's literally like trying to find a needle in a haystack 😂

[Light_beam]

I am shocked.. i thought women are loyal to their guys and hard working.. sometimes i see them with wings !!

[Light_beam]

Sorry, i didn't understand '' sucked their way up"

[Apple1996]

@Light_beam nah defo no loyal 🤣

[Light_beam]

@Apple1996 what about the wings?

[anon1903]

They're lesbians? That's awesome. For me.

[Apple1996]

@anon1903 lots of lesbians and they are amazing

[anon1903]

Maybe in 2024 I'll find me an amazing military woman and lose my virginity. OMG, this post makes me happy 😁

[myTake Owner]

I knew you cheat on your husband. You been sleeping wijt other women you degenerate

[myTake Owner]

I feel so sorry for him. He probably gets nothing in return form you while he serves this country

[Apple1996]

My husband has gotten 5 sons from me. I do more than him everyday lol and wtf I'm not saying that I cheat with women. I just know that they are lesbian

[anon1903]

Don't waste your time on explaining it to him. He's homophobic.

[myTake Owner]

You’re saying lesbians are great. Also…. You have to contribute more to a relationship then plopping babies our. Almost any woman can do that with a working vagina.

[myTake Owner]

If you think having kids is all you have to contribute. I feel bad for him. He could say the same thing. He could do Jack shit for you. But say he gave you 3 sons

[myTake Owner]

Military wives who stay home are typically sone of the WORST people I ever met before. Who cheat. Don’t contribute anything. Just ungrestful pigs.

There are amazing military wives who either work or stay home. Absolutely. But some are horrific and I get that feeling you’re one of them

[myTake Owner]

WAHH. Your buddies jump on me every chance they get. Awww poor me. I stay home cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the kids. While you’re in combat. Rub my feet and make me dinner so I can take a nappy poo and watch shows about how ti kill your husband.

Awww woe is me. I never worked a day in my life.

[Apple1996]

A man simply getting a woman pregnant is no where near as valuable as a woman having to carry, grow, birth and care for the kids. Surrogates cost so much for a reason. Pregnancy, birth is valuable beyond belief. More than a man could ever do. And my husband is well aware of all this and thankful for it

[Apple1996]

Staying at home and raising kids is the equivalent to having 3 full time jobs. You are wildly unaware of how much women work.

[myTake Owner]

Really? Your husband serves this county. Go serve in combat and then take care of your kids. Then you can BITCH

[myTake Owner]

Maybe I happen to know single moms. Who work 3 jobs and take care of kids and are tired of bitching stay at home moms. As well as the majority of women who work and do it all.

I’m not saying you don’t work hard. But your husband better not come home from serving to a honey do list

[myTake Owner]

I’ve been told by WOMEN AND MEN to avoid women who want to be stay at home moms. Especially by people inthe military. Men who have been married to these women or are married to them.

That it’s almost alwyas one sided and the man really gets no benefit

[myTake Owner]

There are some stay at home moms who are great. Who truly love their husband and children. Anyone being honest will tell you this.

The fact your defensive says that. I probably am right. Because if I was wrong you would not care. Especially when you don’t even know me.

Divorce lawyers. Relationship coaches. Many people have said. Avoid women who just want to stay home at all costs unless you really get to know hee. That they are the most notorious

[Apple1996]

I know women that work to get a BREAK from their childern. 😂Working moms aren't making the same sacrifices that stay at home moms are

And you are crazy dumb. Men get a shit ton of benefits from a mom staying home. If I died tomorrow my husband wouldn't be able to afford daycare or even afford to care for our kids.
My husband likes coming home to help me out cuz he knows how stressful it is

[Anonymous]

I do agree with the positive points. But you miss two important negatives:
- Being seperated for a very long time when she goes in deployment or trainings. This might even be years.
- Some militairs have trauma's due to experiences from deployment.

[Kaneki05]

Shared values more like opposite as I am on the side of the washed up military who are used and forgotten because the government don't really care apart from what they can get from you.
And even without such a stance unless you are also serving the values are still not shared really.

[RainBat]

Most of these are absolutely not "military women", they're thots in military gear trying to appeal to a certain demographic of men.

[myTake Owner]

The photos. Yes I know I needed photos for this

[myTake Owner]

Some of them are in the military. There are some women who I don't know how they made it past basic. They are feminists who work behind a desk or serve food. Who cry for shit they never earned. Because they’re a woman and if they aren’t able or are too lazy to do what men do (and competent women) then they will claim it’s sexism