Okay ladies and gentlemen, I hope this helps somebody. As a bartender for 15 years, and a guy who has been with a lot of women, and a guy that has coached countless people at the bar through marriage, divorce, children, court, sex, no sex, and all the other drama, this is something that needs to be said. If you want to have kids, or don't want to have kids, this should really come up on the very first date! I have a vasectomy, I also am known to be a piece of shit with some women (recovering POS I should say), but I don't lie. So when I'm hanging out with a girl, if I get that family vibe from her, I just kind of avoid the topic. But if she brings it up, I will be honest with her, and we will not have sex that night. If it is something important to you, you definitely need to let a guy or a girl know. Some of us may be older, and it may be time to start rocking and rolling. Or some of us may be younger, and we want to start and not be old like Mike the bartender, when we start having kids. Anyway, this is just my advice, take it or leave it. ❤️
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