Lets go over this again, guys that are confident, sure of themselves and aren’t a pushover are the guys that will get the women. Why? because confidence is attractive, a guy that is sure of himself is attractive, not a whiny baby that thinks he is entitled to a girlfriend just because he is “nice” It doesn’t have anything to do with your wallet or even your looks, I don’t have to tell you that here are plenty of but ugly dudes that get the women, they get them because they are confident.
Wow... sorry to burst your bubble... but nice guys don't finish last... I'm a nice guy... and I've had many girlfriends relationships and friends with benefits ... these girls that choose a douche bag over you... do they know you like them.. and just how many of them are there... if there is more than one.. then you might cone off as desperate.. you may seem like all you want is a realtionship more than you want them...
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There are nice guys who THINK they're nice but are really trying to get in her pants. Just my opinion but friends with benefits doesn't sound like something a nice guy would really do, just saying. Would I like friends with benefits? Hell yeah, but in the back of my head I'd know it's wrong. THAT'S what the mindset of a nice guy is. Be someone she trusts. I know it's not my life, this is just my advice. Yes those girls I'm talking about did know that I liked them, yet they'd always talk about how they can never find a nice guy, that's what really made me fed up.
I personally disagree with your opinion. I prefer nice, non-sex driven guys, over a jackass douchebag any day. Nice guys don't ALWAYS finish last. I say they always win for me :)
to be honest, all guys the "nice" ones and the "badboys" tend to be sex driven. sad but true. the only difference is, the "nice" guys at least have attractive qualities in their personality. whereas bad boys usually have personality disorders.
You seem like a nice guy but women won't care about your post OP because women only care for themselves. That's why assholes are successful, they don't give a damn about anything and this drives women crazy.
I'm just telling you what I've experienced, and what I've actually seen. Movies have it all wrong, unless a guy is assertive and aggressive, the woman won't notice him at all (unless he's hot enough or "meets her standards") I consider myself attractive, no I'm not Ryan gosling but one thing I know for a FACT, I'm a nice guy. I can't really say that anymore though after my patience has run thin. The dating world has taught me that it's US that need to meet the standards for a girl, not the other way around. You can't be nice all you want but unless you're assertive and confident in yourself, you'll end up right where you start.
I am not saying being assertive and confident don't put you in an advantage, but I am saying nice guy do find girls, I am a nice guy I have had several GF in fact I have never had problems finding a nice girl.
So it's not the nice part that does the difference, that I can absolutely grantee.
It's time to look at the quality of the women you are trying to date. Chances are, they are not the quality of women you really want. I'll bet you think you want a great gal but really you want her to be arm candy to show off to your friends. You want someone who looks great so your friends will make nice comments about how she looks. Well I have news for you. Those are not quality women. Quality women come in all shapes and sizes and they love nice guys.
Damn thats deep, but in my opinion nice guys are for a high level in a relationship. What I mean is that as a young girls you just want to... I don't know and you guys are nice and all that. There is a saying-> "who laughs last, laughs best" but here is a question what do you prefer to be with a girl that like bad guys and want to change you as her desire or be the last with a true "Disney" love?
It's not just nice guys finish last but it also goes for nice girls. I am a nice girl who finishes last who wants the nice guys but gets friend zoned because hey want the hot girls or they just turn into jerks
I'm sorry to hear this. I kinda just wrote my piece when I was fed up a couple of weeks ago, I'm trying to look at it all with an open mind now. I don't like going for those kinds of hot girls, as crazy as it sounds. I look for a girl who I can have a long term relationship with, and I have a funny feeling its not gonna end well with the hot girls 😂 I feel you though, it's like we're invisible! Well hey good news, you're actually very pretty in your profile pic, I think your future is looking good :) just my opinion!
Thanks you guys lol and that's true me either I don't look for those super hot guys they usually don't stick around because of cheating so I go for the ones who are chill kind or nerdy but attractive and laid back I haven't made any moves but hopefully it works out in the future
Awww Hi!!! @Keyspirits thank you! I just think he's cute even if he is a skeleton! It just shows what a nice guy is and represents!! I already know that you are a very nice guy hands down!! 😊😍
I only go for the one that I presieve as the best, because I believe I deserve and should only treat myself to the best. I never have or will settle for less otherwise I choose to stay single
If I had a dollar for everytime I heard a guy whine about "nice guys finish last" i would be a freaking billionaire... Don't judge every girl for your few bad experiences.
Women and men have pity parties about all types of things. Does that mean they are not nice either? Women complaining about how overweight they are or whatever, etc? You are just making dumb excuses that are not even true.
A genuinely nice guy wouldn't be complaining about not getting their dick wet. If any of my guy friends said that about anyone, I would no longer be their friend.
You know what? FUCK everyone who disagrees with me. I'm not a doormat or a tool like everyone is saying. This is my opinion about MY experiences and I'm just telling you what I've seen. Hell no I don't chase after girls with big tits or a giant ass who acts like a real bitch. Do I like that stuff? Yes, I'd be lying if I said I didn't, but when I look for a girlfriend I try and see how I'd be with her in the next couple months\years. Even nice girls did this shit to me, well guess what. Nice guys just got another team mate lost because I'm not operating like this anymore. It's gotten me nowhere. Jerks get what they want, even the nice girls, and that's what I want. So fuck it! And guess what. To all the people who hate when us "nice guys" post about this stuff, you'll just have to shove it up your ass because as long as you guys treat us like shit, YOU'll have to
He already said if u could fucking read that he didn't want the sex or sxtras just the love and a relationship to keep so it isn't about getting fucking pussy its about being noficed for once as somethjng valuable
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The main problem with nice guys is that they think 'niceness' is the only thing they need to attract a girl.
Also need. money 9'' pecker, BMW, 6'6 in height etc
@AllWomenLie funny, cause last I checked, absolutely none of the taken guys I know have ANY of those things
Its called sarcasm.
It's funny how shallow Gurls this generations have become isn't it? Go out with the bad guyz, get hurt and than blame the entire male gender Lel.
Lets go over this again, guys that are confident, sure of themselves and aren’t a pushover are the guys that will get the women. Why? because confidence is attractive, a guy that is sure of himself is attractive, not a whiny baby that thinks he is entitled to a girlfriend just because he is “nice” It doesn’t have anything to do with your wallet or even your looks, I don’t have to tell you that here are plenty of but ugly dudes that get the women, they get them because they are confident.
@Keyspirits lol agreed. They can't have their cake and eat it too.
True dat
Wow... sorry to burst your bubble... but nice guys don't finish last... I'm a nice guy... and I've had many girlfriends relationships and friends with benefits ... these girls that choose a douche bag over you... do they know you like them.. and just how many of them are there... if there is more than one.. then you might cone off as desperate.. you may seem like all you want is a realtionship more than you want them...
There are nice guys who THINK they're nice but are really trying to get in her pants. Just my opinion but friends with benefits doesn't sound like something a nice guy would really do, just saying. Would I like friends with benefits? Hell yeah, but in the back of my head I'd know it's wrong. THAT'S what the mindset of a nice guy is. Be someone she trusts. I know it's not my life, this is just my advice. Yes those girls I'm talking about did know that I liked them, yet they'd always talk about how they can never find a nice guy, that's what really made me fed up.
looknfurfunnow are you good looking?
"I'm a nice guy, but..."
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I personally disagree with your opinion. I prefer nice, non-sex driven guys, over a jackass douchebag any day. Nice guys don't ALWAYS finish last. I say they always win for me :)
to be honest, all guys the "nice" ones and the "badboys" tend to be sex driven. sad but true.
the only difference is, the "nice" guys at least have attractive qualities in their personality. whereas bad boys usually have personality disorders.
You seem like a nice guy but women won't care about your post OP because women only care for themselves. That's why assholes are successful, they don't give a damn about anything and this drives women crazy.
there's this really cool film by Ingmar Bergman called 'the Seventh Seal' its a good film and you should watch it
Not true at all, either you definition of nice guy is wrong or you are, either way it's not true.
Maybe my take could tell you a bit:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7338-10-things-men-should-know-about-dating-women
I'm just telling you what I've experienced, and what I've actually seen. Movies have it all wrong, unless a guy is assertive and aggressive, the woman won't notice him at all (unless he's hot enough or "meets her standards") I consider myself attractive, no I'm not Ryan gosling but one thing I know for a FACT, I'm a nice guy. I can't really say that anymore though after my patience has run thin. The dating world has taught me that it's US that need to meet the standards for a girl, not the other way around. You can't be nice all you want but unless you're assertive and confident in yourself, you'll end up right where you start.
I am not saying being assertive and confident don't put you in an advantage, but I am saying nice guy do find girls, I am a nice guy I have had several GF in fact I have never had problems finding a nice girl.
So it's not the nice part that does the difference, that I can absolutely grantee.
It's time to look at the quality of the women you are trying to date. Chances are, they are not the quality of women you really want. I'll bet you think you want a great gal but really you want her to be arm candy to show off to your friends. You want someone who looks great so your friends will make nice comments about how she looks. Well I have news for you. Those are not quality women. Quality women come in all shapes and sizes and they love nice guys.
Damn thats deep, but in my opinion nice guys are for a high level in a relationship. What I mean is that as a young girls you just want to... I don't know and you guys are nice and all that. There is a saying-> "who laughs last, laughs best" but here is a question what do you prefer to be with a girl that like bad guys and want to change you as her desire or be the last with a true "Disney" love?
Most men are not thrilled with the idea of being a girl's LAST CHOICE BACKUP PLAN!
Nobody want to be last choice.
I personally like NICE guys, I think they're the sweetest and will treat you witg respect.
Nice guys finish last? At least they reach the finish line, there are also some guys who don't even finish.
Agreed bro agreed... that's why I don't go to colllege
lol you choose not to further your education because of a fear of getting hurt by women?
They don't teach at junior college.. I go to an institute... and there are just 5 guys in my class ( new branch of institute) so its all good
It's not just nice guys finish last but it also goes for nice girls. I am a nice girl who finishes last who wants the nice guys but gets friend zoned because hey want the hot girls or they just turn into jerks
That's so lame! You look so pretty in your picture!!!
I'm sorry to hear this. I kinda just wrote my piece when I was fed up a couple of weeks ago, I'm trying to look at it all with an open mind now. I don't like going for those kinds of hot girls, as crazy as it sounds. I look for a girl who I can have a long term relationship with, and I have a funny feeling its not gonna end well with the hot girls 😂 I feel you though, it's like we're invisible! Well hey good news, you're actually very pretty in your profile pic, I think your future is looking good :) just my opinion!
Thanks you guys lol and that's true me either I don't look for those super hot guys they usually don't stick around because of cheating so I go for the ones who are chill kind or nerdy but attractive and laid back I haven't made any moves but hopefully it works out in the future
Awww...that picture makes me sad :(
Awww it's u again baby. LUV how compassionate u are <333
Awww Hi!!!
@Keyspirits thank you! I just think he's cute even if he is a skeleton! It just shows what a nice guy is and represents!! I already know that you are a very nice guy hands down!! 😊😍
Lol if u were ma age, I would've propose to u right here, right now 💍
You are very sweet!! Whoever you propose to is going to be very very lucky one day!! ☺️
Sounds like you need to stop being nice and girls would notice you.
I only go for the one that I presieve as the best, because I believe I deserve and should only treat myself to the best. I never have or will settle for less otherwise I choose to stay single
Lololol you're not "nice", you're easy. if you think its all about being nice, you're also clueless.
If I had a dollar for everytime I heard a guy whine about "nice guys finish last" i would be a freaking billionaire... Don't judge every girl for your few bad experiences.
If I had a dollar for everytime I heard a girl say she hated jerks I'd be rich too.
Well yeah, obviously.
Who would like a jerk.
what he meant was that girls like jerks
Some sadly do but most don't.
@JustinX9
I didn't read the article. But the picture is hilarious.
Know what you sound like? "Boo hoo, girls value my friendship but won't have sex with me!"
You've made it clear that you are NOT a nice guy.
A nice guy wouldn't be having a pity party.
Women and men have pity parties about all types of things. Does that mean they are not nice either? Women complaining about how overweight they are or whatever, etc? You are just making dumb excuses that are not even true.
A genuinely nice guy wouldn't be complaining about not getting their dick wet.
If any of my guy friends said that about anyone, I would no longer be their friend.
Once again, all types of people complain about all types of things. If what you are saying is true then that means they are not nice either.
Not necessarily that they're not nice, but they're exactly what they pretending they aren't.
You know what? FUCK everyone who disagrees with me. I'm not a doormat or a tool like everyone is saying. This is my opinion about MY experiences and I'm just telling you what I've seen. Hell no I don't chase after girls with big tits or a giant ass who acts like a real bitch. Do I like that stuff? Yes, I'd be lying if I said I didn't, but when I look for a girlfriend I try and see how I'd be with her in the next couple months\years. Even nice girls did this shit to me, well guess what. Nice guys just got another team mate lost because I'm not operating like this anymore. It's gotten me nowhere. Jerks get what they want, even the nice girls, and that's what I want. So fuck it! And guess what. To all the people who hate when us "nice guys" post about this stuff, you'll just have to shove it up your ass because as long as you guys treat us like shit, YOU'll have to
You've just reinforced my point further.
Your heartless, STANK attitude is contemptible! Your just one more entitled princess who only sits on her butt and judges!
But you still turn right around cry about not getting laid. If I'm judgmental, you're a hypocrite.
He already said if u could fucking read that he didn't want the sex or sxtras just the love and a relationship to keep so it isn't about getting fucking pussy its about being noficed for once as somethjng valuable
I didn't know friendship didn't mean you can't love someone or value them.