In my experience, some are bitter and angry but not all of them. My current boyfriend is black. I have had black women insult me just because I'm in an interracial relationship and claim I am "stealing" their man.
However, I am also friends with black women who do not think this way. The fact is, no one "owns" members of their own race. We're all human beings. I don't get mad when white men date women of other races. That would be ridiculous.
People need to grow up and realize that race is not important. People can date whoever they want. Just because someone chooses to date someone of another race does NOT mean that person dislikes members of their own race. Race is merely a social construct anyway. People just use it as a reason to spread hate and ignorance. Like I said before, we're all human beings and that's all that should matter.
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No. We are angry that it is always ONLY black MEN dating white WOMEN. It is more accepted for black men to date white women than it is for white men to date black women. We want to date outside of our race too but you never see that happen. We feel like our race does not want us and other races do not want us either. White women will never understand what we have to go through all of the time when it comes to love.
No and those that are, are the ones that only date inside their/our race. Hell, personally, I don't care. There are other men in this world and me limiting myself to one race is just pue stupidity.
I'm a white man living in a white country, so I'm not gonna pretend I understand what other races and people in more diverse societies go through. But my guess would be that black women are tired of being made to feel they're somehow less than other women. Like they're not as desirable, like even their own race doesn't find them beautiful. Women need to feel pretty and desirable, society conditions them that way. So having to go through hard process of finding real love and feeling like they're at disadvantage before they even start - for something that is beyond their control, mind you - is really tough, I imagine. It's not an excuse to be up in arms, but if I were a black woman, I'd be pissed too.
Some of them are angry. They shouldn't be angry at anyone, though. You don't have the right to a lover. You have to earn him or her.
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No, I don't care. I generally date outside my race. If anything, I've experienced the opposite. I've had lots of black men express anger and disapproval of my interracial relationships. My boyfriend has even been threatened with violence.
Shouldn't have to say this, but no- a minority of women are not representative of a whole, entire race of women.
What's with all the generalisations today.Some people are just irrational. Everyone makes their own choices and no one is taking anyone's man away - he was never yours in the first place if someone can take him away.
Only the black women who date black men are. Im not angry. I never really found black men sexually attractive or appealing personality. Im mixed with black. But hey if I can date who I want, then black men and men in general should
No need to call out black women for this. There are certain individuals from every group that feel the same way.
Of course you have people like bubbletrouble say otherwise. I bet I know where she leans.Damn y'all on y'all black men shit today huh?
I hope they don't care because I don't care who they date.people can date who they want from whatever race they want regardless if omeone of the same race as them is mad about it or not.
Some are angry and others are not. For the ones that are angry it could either stem from racism against whites or self esteem issues that create a fear that black women can't compete.
I prefer too date anyone other than white materialistic women
Dont be rascist here. And it was a natural reaction of jealousy
Everyone gets mad when somebody "of their own" is out and about.
Besides, white guys are far worse in this department.People should just mind their own business instead of poking their noses into the business of others.
I don't know. Just date who you want.
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