Why do black women get mad when they see white women dating black guys?

[Anonymous]

Can't understand why they hate me and even our potential biracial children. We just love each other. Plus so many of these guys prefer women of their own race. So what's the problem? Female misogyny or a sort of racism?

[Anonymous]

The problem isn’t your interracial relationship, just the stigma around those black men. Sometimes people just have their preferences, or you two just happened to click and form a relationship — that is totally fine. The issue is that in too many cases, the black men specifically seeking white women do it because of an internalized hatred for their race.
They’ll say the worst things about black women and throw every stereo type in the book at them for no reason. Black women having emotions automatically gets interpreted as bitter, loud, ghetto, as if no other race is capable of expressing themselves similarly if not worse. Even despite the fact that their moms, sisters, and aunts are black, it doesn’t afford another woman the same grace their families get. So when you think about this topic, you have to understand how deeply rooted in pain it is. Even if it comes off as those women being hateful, there’s just so much more to it.

[kylee2437]

Cultural racism towards interracial couples. They are acting like hating on that couple would change the man’s preferences , when in reality those black women should just enjoy the men that do prefer their own race. I take no offense to white men that prefer black women as long as he doesn’t go for me and then throw in my face that he prefers black women.

[Ohhi12345]

tbh i think black men get a lot more bent about black women dating white men. I do sympathize with that whole though, I mean my grandpa lost so much in the Holocaust sometimes it's kind of heartbreaking to see a descendant of a high ranking Nazi just straight up thrive and attract tons of women. Just a comparison -- I don't know if it's even valid. (Side note: I do want to get a really hot body though to make me feel less insecure:)

[DextroShade]

They drove these men away from and most white or Asian men aren't interested in black women. So each time they see that it reminds them of what they lost and that they will like die alone.

[tzdc21]

It's a very deep rooted thing in the black community. We don't know how to treat each other well a lot of times. And then when we're with someone of another race, we get mad. But most of the time it's the black women who get mad because they think that we black men think that every race of women other than black is better. And there's a boatload of reasons why that is also the case.

[NuitBlanche]

Yes I guess it is a kind of racism. Heard it from a black guy that his sister shouted at him because he dated white women and not only black.

[Jazzy54]

I don’t. It must be the ones you know personally. I’m sorry. *Hugs* Ignore them. They’re just trying to start unnecessary drama.