It can simply be because she is a kind person who is really trying to help a friend. However to be honest with you i find this a bit strange myself. I can understand a women helping a friend but a women having coffee with her ex can turn some heads. If it bothers you she should respect that and avoid these interactions, explain to her how ex's are different than friends. There are always old feelings that both people remember perfectly when with each other. It is these old feeling that stir up and lead to things. This does not make you insecure, you have the right as her partner to feel bother when a person she shared emotions with comes into the picture. Think about it like this, if you and her weren't together and had coffee would you remember the times you were with her? Possibly even share inside jokes only the two of you made? Explain it to her just like that so she can have a better understanding towards how you feel. If this is a onetime thing let it go, if you see happen too often than speak up on it for the sake of your own health. Stressing and worrying can affect you in many ways and as your partner she should care more about your health than she cared about her ex's hard time.
Fuck that! go hit up an ex gf and take her on a date and say "she was feeling depressed so we got dinner!"
She'll call you overly-possessive if you keep questioning her about her ex. Why does she have to depend on her ex during hard times? Are you not always there for her? If you guys really like each other, trust her. She will not cheat on you. Make yourself more approachable so that she doesn't have to depend on her ex.
You have a right to be upset. They broke up for a reason, they just werent compatible therefore they shouldn't be friends. The ex is bullshit he just wants her back. Bet that. Besides im almost positive she wouldn't be okay with the thought of you having coffee with your ex.
Definitely. not okay, not insecurity at all. It's a respect thing, and i see that as disrespecting you. I would not like it if my bf did that to me. If that was the case why not invite you with.
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You need to be strong and not be insecure about it. But that crap about her ex having a hard time is such bull. Guys do that crap all the time just to get the attention. be calm and talk to her about it communicate
You would be worried if she did not tell this to you. She told you because she felt comfortable. She is a nice person who tries to help her friend.
Don't get upset. There is really nothing to be worried about.
She can have sex with him for all I care as long as she's going to tell me and end of the day she's with me. Well if she's not going to be there then guess we were never meant to be - that's how I take it :) Insecurity isn't my forte :) ;)
talk to her about it. its perfectly normal to get upset, this coming from a naturally jealous person. however, dont say "youre never allowe to see him again" or "you cant talk to any other guys" however a good approach would be something alon the lines of "that made me uncomfortable " that simple
It doesn't mean she's cheating, but I'd be pissed. People who associate with exes are a deal breaker for me.
No, if you trust her then nothing to worry about! I like to meet my exes to catch up and my boyfriend is fine with it. All about trust! If you're worried just talk to her about it.
Let her know about your discomfort... but I wouldn't worry at this moment.
Just communicate your feelings.
Do you trust your girl? If you do, then let it go. Most likely you have nothing to worry about. He's her ex for a reason.
Both. Any answers that say "it's fine blah blah" are naïve. Beware this is just the beginning. I don't want anyone hurt but come back to this question in 6 months and I bet you two will be finished.
I think that if she told you about it then she's not hiding anything. Ask her if she's okay and wants to talk about anything if she's feeling lonely?
No. Not until you have reason to think it was more than two friends getting together for coffee. You know her and you'll be able to tell if something's not right
I consider that date between your girlfriend and her ex. In fact I'd just cut off all contact with her from here on out.
I wouldn't worry too much, but don't let your guard down. He may be going through a rough time and doesn't know who to turn to, but still keep an eye on him. Good luck!
Be their she just sounds like she's a really nice lady. And to me it sounded like there relationship ended on good terms.
I don't think you should be worried, it might be something personal that he knows about that she need to talk about.
I'd be worried. I wouldn't like it.
She's fucking him. Plan and simple.
If u trust her then no
Dump that bitch.
Are you gay
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