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How often do men actually ask you out, on average? (Page 5)
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Wow.. is it weird I get asked out by dudes more than some of these ladies? I'm really beginning to reevaluate my life.
and i'm straight by the way.-.
Very rarely. I get a lot of men who flirt with me or make advances, but never one that actually asks me out on a proper date which is part of why I'm single. Either approach me like a gentleman or keep walking.
I don't think girls get asked out as much as guys think.
I've gotten asked out 3 times last school year.
yes i wonder why they always thought that way haha
You know what, I used to be into reading R. L. Stine Fear Street series (Not sure if you heard of it). In one of his stories there's this girl who was complaining to her friend how it's been a whole week and no one has asked them out.
I mean... Really? A week? Even authors seem to think that way -_-
lol, all these responses makes me want to ask a girl out.
Just thought of this question, I automatically avoided girls on my run today without even being aware :-\
Since January I've been asked out three times, so really not that much.
Zero
Zilch
Nada
Never been asked out/approached
I've been asked out a few times, but I don't ask girls out, I'll hit them up to hang out, but only in a platonic way, I'll flirt, talk to girls but haven't met one worth asking out, especially girls at my age aren't anything to be glad about anyway
I thought it gets better in college...
I can only speak about what I've seen, so idk, but I know a few dudes my age that are in relationships with girls that have already graduated
I get asked out often... it's hard to say no if you can tell they genuinely like you
I would be honored if a guy asked me out, whether I reciprocated those feelings or not. I guess maybe not all girls would be nice about it though.
Unless it's online dating, guys don't really notice me.
In the past year it's happened maybe four or five times but I'm pretty sure they all just wanted to hookup because they were all at a bar or a club
On an actual date... never. The date code "hang out" a few times, but I've never actually considered them dates so I'm sticking with choice A.
I do my best to lead women into asking me out. I feel so needy having to do it EVERY SINGLE FREAKIN' TIME.
Oh I guess I'm pretty late lol but actually asked out? I'll probably say less than 5 times a year O_o
During highschool, never, but once I got to college, anyone that expressed interest in me asked me out on a date. It happens very often.
This summer, has been a lot.
I think it's because I'm pretty much always out with girls only this summer.
I voted A.
What would be more accurate would be "Never", not "Almost Never".
I'm surprised.
@Red_Dragon Why? You've said yourself I'm nothing special.
Who said I said that?
@Red_Dragon You've said it publicly on the site, haha!
Oh I did? I did? Okay. I mean I remember when I said you look different when I actually click on your picture, but other than that I don't remember.
@Red_Dragon You said it to other people when they mentioned me. It's cool, I agree with you anyway, haha!
Ohhh. Maybe I did. I don't know. That does tell me you pay close attention to what I say. More so than me apparently. LOL!!
@Red_Dragon You're, uh, what they call... persistent.
Only on the internet. In real life things start and end quick.
@Red_Dragon Is that *why* you're so persistent here?
You know I think it's in connected with my ambiguity, but not in the simple way. Maybe it's not really ambiguous, but that's the best way to describe it using one word. I "teeter toddle " from one perspective to another and mixing that with curiosity. Sometimes that's seeing how far the rabbit hole goes.
@Red_Dragon Hmm, that's interesting.
Sometimes. Or maybe it just seems like more this year because the guy I'm dating right now had to ask me so many times before I said yes.
if some guy ask me out for a date i wouldn't go, but as buddies i will. which doesn't mean i have friendzoned them. it just feels more comfortable.
So you would only date men you already know?
yes. otherwise i would flirt but won't go to far
Sometimes. It's not an everyday sort of thing, but I've been asked out on quite a few legit dates. Not just "to chill/hook up".