My boyfriend of 2 months gave me a gift. He gave me it in lunch period in front of a large group of friends. I opened it and it was a very large bra, D cups. Written on the bra said, "For when they finally start growing". I am an A cup. I was so embarrased and everyone was laughing at me including him. I went to the bathroom to cry. He is my first boyfriend I know I am not beautiful. Why would he do this? Before he gave me the present he told everyone to look. I haven't spoken to him since that and he hasn't even tried apologizing. I know small boobs are ugly but why would he make fun of me if he knows how bad I feel about it?
Most Helpful Guy
Didn't any of your friends stand up for you? I know if some fucking dude pulled this level of bullshit at school on one of the homegirls. He would of gotten jumped so fucking fast, he'd swear he was caught in the middle of a prison fight! I think you need new friends. This deserves an ass-kicking of the highest caliber.3
Most Helpful Girl
That is seriously the most stupidest thing I've ever heard some do. First off, I know it must be hard for you but I don't even have to see you to know how beautiful you are in all honesty. The fact that you had the courage to post this and ask total strangers for their thoughts and opinions is amazingly brave of you.
Since this is (hopefully WAS but don't feel pressured) your first relationship I'll tell you one thing:
A relationship should not be focused on just the body, in fact, a huge part of it should come from feelings and emotions and if a boy can't give you that and instead embarrass you for the way you are than he isn't worth keeping in all honesty.
I also see people telling you to do some pay back but please just choose the better road. I know you can be better than basically doing the same thing he did. Like why would you waste your time on such a person anyway when he ain't even worth it in the first place.4