Why would my boyfriend do this to me?

[Anonymous]

I'm ill with the flu. I said I was going to be round at 6 am but I couldn't sleep and didn't wake up till 9 am. Yes, he was mad and I apologised.

I then rushed over. Literally leaving the house half an hour after I got up. I got some food and then got the 2 buses to his.

All for him to tell me, outside of his. That he was playing helldivers. I don't want to knock and interpret his dad working, plus anxiety is bad.

I've now been stood outside for 20 mins waiting for him. It's cold. All so I can have s*x with him. I get it he is annoyed at me. I apologised. But this is ridiculous now.

[Anonymous]

My guess is this isn’t the first time something like this happened. My guess is there were a number of red flags that you just dismissed. I’m sorry this happened, but at the same time I think you already knew he was this way but continued to be w him. I could give more leeway if you were a teenager, but you’re closer to 30 then you are 20. Maybe you’re 25, but regardless you’re much older. I don’t even understand why you would travel to his place w the flu. If he can’t understand that then that’s just another red flag you’re choosing to ignore. How come he didn’t pick you up or go to your place? Yes you need to dump him. While you’re at it bring me some food too since you’re just a doormat.

[WhitneySnow]

Dump this guy