I am in tears crying my eyes out. Why would my boyfriend do this? What should I do? (Page 2)

Question

My boyfriend of 2 months gave me a gift. He gave me it in lunch period in front of a large group of friends. I opened it and it was a very large bra, D cups. Written on the bra said, "For when they finally start growing". I am an A cup. I was so embarrased and everyone was laughing at me including him. I went to the bathroom to cry. He is my first boyfriend I know I am not beautiful. Why would he do this? Before he gave me the present he told everyone to look. I haven't spoken to him since that and he hasn't even tried apologizing. I know small boobs are ugly but why would he make fun of me if he knows how bad I feel about it?

Kyndra · Answer

Umm my boobs are small but they're pretty fucking amazing. So don't blame yourself or your boobs, he was the one being a dick with the gift, the note, and getting people's attention.
If I were you I'd dump him right on the spot.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

The only thing I can say is that by crying for too long about this gives your now ex-bf emotional power over you. Do not give him that power. Get him out of your life.

Keyspirits · Answer

Lol.. u thought he think ur "BEAUTIFUL"? Im suppose he's playen with ur feelings and tryin' to mock u and make fun of u. I suppose it was a setup by all those people to pretend to be ur bf juz to make fun of u. There's so many guys out there. sumone is meant for everyone. Ur still too young to even thinken about being alone forever >.> don't be in this kinda relationship seriously 😐

zagor · Answer

Apparently he just thinks your boobs are small because he is comparing them to the gigantic dick he is.

A lot of people prefer smaller boobs; find a guy who will appreciate you for what you are. And if you dig around this site you will find women complaining about their D cups and how they wish they could get rid of them.

slatyb · Answer

He's a total ass. He doesn't like himself so he tries to feel bigger by making someone else feel bad. Stay far away from him and anyone like him. And no, you aren't ugly. Breasts come in different sizes and they are all beautiful.

Gvonb · Answer

You should dump him, you will be okay :), You will find someone else that truly values you for who you are. My ex gf of 5 years had small boobs and i would have chose her over any other girl big or small, its the feelings that count so don't let your self esteem be affected by the physical aspects.

Anonymous · Answer

Ohhh, I'm so sorry he did that. Don't shed a single tear over him, forget him he isn't worth it. I'm guessing this was a prank that he and his friends were pulling on you. Don't. Go. Back. To. Him. I'm sure their are plenty of guys who would love to be with you. He was just a ignorant, sad excuse for a boyfriend. Forget him and move on. Good look, hun.

Anonymous · Answer

there's 7 billion people in the world. You think you're ugly? there's 7 BILLION people in the world. At least one of them will like you for who you are! No matter if you dont have a big bum or big boobs. Just dump that little shit. You can do better! Also how old are you? You sound pretty young

ExpressiveGenie · Answer

What a jerk.
It would be one thing if he did that to you in private, just the two of you, but not in front of the whole group. That's humiliating. And he already knew that you were sensitive about that? Dump him.

Anonymous · Answer

He is clearly childish and stupid dude. Dump him.

Then go shopping and buy amazing putfit so you can shw how gorgeous are without big breasts. Trust me, some clothes look so much better on girls with smaller breasts. And big breasts are a nuisance.
You may have smaller boobs, but that doesn't mean you are ugly. Smaller boobs are great too!

Jackblue · Answer

He thought he was being funny I think, but he should have at least recognized after you ran to the bathroom how offended you were if not before he got you the bra. There are other fish in the sea and believe me a guy who would date a girl based on her breast size like that isn't worth dating.

RandomStudent · Answer

I like petite, short girls, and I know a lot of other guys do too. Dump him, and find someone else. Don't take it too seriously though, just realize he is a douche who made a terrible joke, and move on from him.

Psyborfox · Answer

And it sounds like the guys at your school have unreal expectations if they want someone that looks like Kim kardashian.

xkryptoniteee · Answer

He's a FUCKING PIECE OF SHIT you dump him immediately he's obviously an idiot small boobs aren't ugly either you should be happy with what you have I'm sure you'll find another boyfriend who actually respects you. That's like bringing him an XXL condom saying when your dick can fit in it seriously don't ever cry over a guy sweetheart you're wonderful

adamski24 · Answer

He is a fuckwit you're better off with out him. You dump his ass in front of everyone in school. And find yourself a real man that will love you for you. I love small boobies myself. From what you say the picture I have of you is a beautiful young woman. you will find someone that love's you for you.

scrappygirl · Answer

wow you act like your only going to be with one guy for the rest of your life. the guy is an asshole so dump him. your only in high school. your going to have more boyfriends. why stay with a guy who makes you feel like crap?

LousyLoudMusic · Answer

I WOULD DUMP HIM. And I would go up to him and tell him off, and he can go screw himself if he is gonna be an ass. when you do not deserve it. And trust me you are pretty, you should just wait for theguy who would show it to you, not drag you down.

Eslav512 · Answer

Dump his fat ass. If I was a girl I would have dumped him on the spot my gf is the same she doesn't have big boobs or a big butt or hips but I still love her even the way she is so I suggest dump him and find a guy who appreciates you for who and what you are no matter what size you are.

lightingrod · Answer

Staying with him will just make it worse as you can see he purposely embarrassed you in front of everyone at lunch. Just keep your head up and remember there's always someone for everyone.

Your_boss960 · Answer

If he does that he shouldn't even be your boyfriend In the first place. That is one of the meanest/rudest things I've ever heard. Dumo his sorry ass, he is not worth your tears.

Anonymous · Answer

Get him a bra and tell him to start wearing it , cause his boobs are disgusting and saggy like those grandmas behind those stupid "boobs" of his resides no heart and don't worry chin up and go to school if someone snicker at you just blow them off saying "Bitch please try to be mature, boob prank really? Seems like all of their life they could do nothing but waste their and others time... get a life and grow some balls."

spuitkaas · Answer

That's like the meanest thing I've ever heard. How do people like that exist? If you wanna talk about it, you can pm me.

Duryodhan · Answer

that is completely unacceptable... No guy in his right mind can do this... I suggest you dump him immidiately and if you are too hurt inform the principal.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

I'm sorry but this honestly sounds like something ripped straight out of some crappy high school movie aimed at 6th grade "outcast" type girls.  Skeptical Draca is skeptical.

paperfriendd · Answer

Majority girls have small boobs and have bfs so like its I never understood why people think that actually makes a difference anyways dump him as soon as possible disgusting of him

Would_You_Kindly · Answer

I tend to be a very friendly person and can help you out if you send me a PM I really am sorry for what he's done to you and I hope I can help you out.

LunaMay · Answer

You deserve better than someone who would humiliate you on purpose and in front of everyone. That's very cruel on his part to do. Pardon my language when I say this, but dump the little motherf---er.

TheNiceGirl · Answer

I think your boyfriend is very immature and probably not taking you seriously. By taking you seriously, I mean by actually accepting you as a real girlfriend. That's why he doesn't care about hurting you and finds it easy to do so. He's an asshole and doesn't deserve you. There's nothing wrong with you and absolutely nothing wrong with having small breasts. If he tries talking to you ignore him completely and stay away from him. Don't ever talk to him again, he's not worth your time.

LauraMarx · Answer

Holy shit... That is really fucked up. Holy shit. Wow. Leave him?

Unit1 · Answer

One good advice for yourself: Don't be a clot to hate yourself. Accept who and how you are and things will change for you. Idiots are idiots. You do not want to become one of them or to be involved.

Anonymous · Answer

Tears from a woman should be because of earth shaking orgasm, not because of a practical joke by your man

kangy · Answer

he is so rude and insensitive.  You need to reconsider the relationship How old is he?

rachel_lee78 · Answer

that's not a boyfriend at all. he's a joke, and you deserve so much more. i promise. you are beautiful no matter what anyone says. that guy is such a jerk.

Jessbabesxox · Answer

He doesn't deserve you! You're better off without him! You shouldn't be treated like that by anyone especially your soon to be ex boyfriend I hope.

Im2Creative · Answer

Why are you still with him? Its obvious he doesn't like you.

Anonymous · Answer

He sounds like a very horrible person. Trust me on this, when you meet the right guy, he will LOVE your breasts. And he won't do things like play humiliating pranks on you.

Duke2014 · Answer

he sounds like a dick, I woulda said something to him if I saw him do that to someone. get rid of him

evans567 · Answer

girls like are hard to find such lovely thing that guy is really stupid you are a gorgeous flower i would love to date someone like you

Kshppatel · Answer

I hate to be the one to break this to you but he was never your boyfriend.

lizzyliz33 · Answer

Holy shit get rid of him. Dont let him have the privilege of being your boyfriend anymore.

Unluckyloner · Answer

He is an asshole! Don't let him hurt you! You are better than him.

Maerinaekaeri · Answer

deffiently a first rate ass hole, you should dump him.

NeedingAGoodSeeing2 · Answer

He's obviously an immature idiot. Tell him to go and play with his Duplo!

WaterNymph611 · Answer

Oh my god. How horrid! If I were you, I would give him a very large condom and said "I will grow my boobs when you get larger than 1cm"

crazyalkoliker · Answer

please dont be upset or feel bad there are a lot of son of bitch.. dont think about why stupid son of bitch :))

1NAMDERAJ · Answer

What a fucking asshole he needs to learn respect plus he needs the shit kicked out of him for doing something like that.

ClubCavern · Answer

He's obviously enjoyed embarassing you which is quite worrying. Why would any normal person get off on doing that to someone they supposedly like. Tell him to do 1.

zoarob · Answer

he is an asshole he do not deserve any care , he did not love you , do not talk to him a gain , search for a true lover who respect your feelings. i am sorry for u

leleaah · Answer

Sorry to hear about your boyfriend being a dick, you will find a guy who wouldn't do that to you I think you deserve better its not about having a boyfriend its about feeling comfortable with someone and he doesn't seem to make you feel comfortable

Anonymous · Answer

He's a dick and I am willing to bet you are not ugly! In time you will find someone better, trust me, you deserve better than this idiot.

Kizah · Answer

He's obviously just a dick head. You could do so much better than him and if he did that then it must have been a bet or a joke to go out with you because if you two were in a happy relationship then that doesn't make sense.

Collieflower · Answer

Pardon my language but fuck him, you're perfect just the way you are and you can do some much better than him sweetie!

Tomsta · Answer

Drop kick his ass, he isn't good enough for you if he is willing to publicly humiliate you in such a public forum

Anonymous · Answer

Kick him out of your life; boob size has nothing to do with beauty. You'll eventually find someone worthy.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm really sorry hon. ... :(. But you need to talk to him and tell him what he did to you. Because that was just wrong.

JustinX9 · Answer

What an immature behavior he is such an idiot dump him

Doodandy · Answer

Plenty of guys like petite women, he is a boy. Don't worry, laugh and be happy that you know your not wasting time with an idiot.

1ian20 · Answer

Dump him, he's not worth it.

Anonymous · Answer

He obviously not a good boyfriend if he embarrassing you about your insecurities, you don't need that negative in your life🚮 he needs to be gone soon as. And if your ''friends'' are laughing at that then you need a reality check on who's real.

Jax637 · Answer

He's immature and single minded. Dump this dullard, there are other men out there who would appreciate you and treat you like a queen.

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