That guy sounds like a huge jerk and you should not shed a single tear for him. If he loved and cared for you he would never make such an insensitive joke. Don't let him bring you down, you are beautiful and he does not deserve you. You need to dump him immediately and move on. He is not worth your time and effort. You need to find someone better who truly loves and cares for you and there are plenty of guys out there besides him.
What? You should have punched him right in the eye! Everyone around here is against violence, but that would have given a better show to his friends. What you should do? Now it's probably too late to do anything. In my view, that was him breaking up with you. He doesn't like you and, what's worse, he's not a good person either. Stay away from him and his friends, better alone than in bad company.
@dipta - Let's not be too hasty to say "Everyone" around here won't resort to violence. Back in my highschool, this type of shit would of got any dude jumped right there on the spot AND even more so off school property.
Dump that guy, you are better off being single than being with a guy that treats you like that. That was extremely nasty of him, worse than words can describe. He does not deserve you. Don't stress over the size of your boobs there are guys that love small boobs, that prefer them over big boobs. Private message me if you want some advice or if you just need someone to listen to you. I am more than happy to help you and I won't judge you either.
Since it happened in school you really need to to report this! It is abuse, sexual harassment, and bullying. Completely unacceptable in any scenario but especially in what is supposed to be a safe, public place. Completely not ok for that to happen I'm so sorry.
Is he your ex bf now? If not, do so now ASAP. Why would you want to be with someone that straight forward bullied you and doesn't care about your feelings?
This isn't a man but a punk. I'm willing to bet he wouldn't be humiliating one of his guy friends. He wouldn't because he's such a coward. It's very cowardly and sick to picked on a shy, quiet girl.
Because he's an a$$hole. You deserve better. That's a bully you were dating, and obviously, he didn't appreciate you. So what if you're thin and have a size A? My goodness, some of the most beautiful women alive don't have large chests or big booties. Women come in all sizes, just as boobs do. Cameron Diaz, Taylor Swift, Debra Messing - all some of the sexiest small women in the world.
A woman doesn't need curves to be sexy. She needs attitude. Next time you get given a big giant bra, hand it back to him and tell him to use it on his moobs, that his are larger than yours and he'll need it sooner than you... then let him talk to the hand as he watches you waltz away. :) Keep your chin up. There is someone out there for you.
Teenage boys are idiots, that's about it. If you don't talk to people a lot there'll be less people to be interested in you. As soon as I moved away from the town I grew up in guys noticed me, the guys I've spent my whole school life with saw me before and during puberty... not very attractive.
DUMP HIM!!! As my mom always said, "there is always a cover/lid to every pot". I can promise you look beautiful and he is a jerk to do anything like that! Forget him! If he is treating you like that, you should just leave him no questions asked! I bet you there are plenty of very nice guys out there that will like you just the way you are. (P. S. You are not ugly, and should be very happy to be slim!; I bet there are a lot of girls that envy your body). Never be embarrassed for your beauty!
You are beautiful always remembered that. Our creator do not make mistakes. We are all unique in our own ways. I will dump him but than he was never your be. Cuz bf's make their girl feel special, not the opposite. I hate to say this but he could of made a bet with his friends. I know its embarrassing but I want you to go to school with your head held high, ignore the ignorant people. And don't say anything to him.
Oh my goodness, seriously that is just such an asshole, i am a curvy short girl (never had a boyfriend and no problem) but trust me that is not the most important thing, first of all almost all curvy girls get attention from mostly the lusty guys. Next being tiny is really adorable. And who knows maybe when you get to school there will be that one boy who probably stood up for you when u went away and he will start talking to you. But when you get back to school nose up high and don't give a crap about anyone ok, and if anything make fun of one of your boyfriends disadvantages. That makes me so mad ughhhhh. If i was your friend there at school girl would i talk your boyfriend out.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, he is a complete douche bag of a person. dont do anything you might regret like trying to get revenge or something, just lock him out of your life completely. Block his number and block his FB, If he talks to you just be polite and end the confiscation when you can. What ever you do tho, Dont get back with him, Ever. you will get over it and one day when he grows up, he will feel terrible for what he did. And small boobs arnt ugly, guys like all boobs lol.
This is so high school behaviour. Small boobs aren't ugly, they're normal. He's a shallow bastard that you could live without. He made fun of you because he's a bastard who obviously likes big boobs. He obviously doesn't care seeing as he hasn't apologised. Guys get better with age. You need to break up with him and don't waste one more tear on him. You're beautiful as you are and you will find someone who sees that and loves you for it.
Dump him like right now he only wanted you for sex and he was a shitty as boyfriend small boobs dont matter I'm sure your beautiful and can find someone better because he's a plain old jackass with problems ignore him shun him do whatever it takes because the relationship wasn't meant to be
Yo whoa. First off dump him. Secondly I like small titts. Skinny girls. Specially short ones. N hey the only thing an ass is good for is sitting on. If he wants to he an ass fck him. Message me sometime n I'll help you out if ya need more help
Shhhhh, it's ok Sweetheart. Get him the largest condoms and publicly give them to him, and say the same exact thing. Then proceed to dump him. Don't worry though, you'll be ok.
The only thing I can say is that by crying for too long about this gives your now ex-bf emotional power over you. Do not give him that power. Get him out of your life.
He is an immature dick, hey I am older but I was a bad boy in high school, but I would have never done that. Understand this most of the people that saw that will think he is a prick also, some may have laughed out of peer pressure... this will pass when the time is right put a sign on his locker saying "tiny penis" trust me he looked worse than you on this the long run will prove that,
He is a first category asshole. Dump him, life is to short to be around with people like that. I´m shure there is a guy out there that will like you for who you are in all the sense of the word. At the end the day they will remember you as the the shy and quiet girl that don´t deal with crap if you dump him and they will remember him as the immature asshole that is far away of been a men.
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That guy sounds like a huge jerk and you should not shed a single tear for him. If he loved and cared for you he would never make such an insensitive joke. Don't let him bring you down, you are beautiful and he does not deserve you. You need to dump him immediately and move on. He is not worth your time and effort. You need to find someone better who truly loves and cares for you and there are plenty of guys out there besides him.
What? You should have punched him right in the eye! Everyone around here is against violence, but that would have given a better show to his friends.
What you should do? Now it's probably too late to do anything. In my view, that was him breaking up with you. He doesn't like you and, what's worse, he's not a good person either. Stay away from him and his friends, better alone than in bad company.
Japanese women get what they want
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I'm not sure what you're talking about. I'm not Japanese either, I just live in Japan.
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What are Japanese women like?
@dipta - Let's not be too hasty to say "Everyone" around here won't resort to violence. Back in my highschool, this type of shit would of got any dude jumped right there on the spot AND even more so off school property.
Dump that guy, you are better off being single than being with a guy that treats you like that. That was extremely nasty of him, worse than words can describe. He does not deserve you. Don't stress over the size of your boobs there are guys that love small boobs, that prefer them over big boobs. Private message me if you want some advice or if you just need someone to listen to you. I am more than happy to help you and I won't judge you either.
Since it happened in school you really need to to report this! It is abuse, sexual harassment, and bullying. Completely unacceptable in any scenario but especially in what is supposed to be a safe, public place. Completely not ok for that to happen I'm so sorry.
Is he your ex bf now? If not, do so now ASAP. Why would you want to be with someone that straight forward bullied you and doesn't care about your feelings?
This isn't a man but a punk. I'm willing to bet he wouldn't be humiliating one of his guy friends. He wouldn't because he's such a coward. It's very cowardly and sick to picked on a shy, quiet girl.
Because he's an a$$hole. You deserve better. That's a bully you were dating, and obviously, he didn't appreciate you. So what if you're thin and have a size A? My goodness, some of the most beautiful women alive don't have large chests or big booties. Women come in all sizes, just as boobs do. Cameron Diaz, Taylor Swift, Debra Messing - all some of the sexiest small women in the world.
A woman doesn't need curves to be sexy. She needs attitude. Next time you get given a big giant bra, hand it back to him and tell him to use it on his moobs, that his are larger than yours and he'll need it sooner than you... then let him talk to the hand as he watches you waltz away. :) Keep your chin up. There is someone out there for you.
Teenage boys are idiots, that's about it. If you don't talk to people a lot there'll be less people to be interested in you. As soon as I moved away from the town I grew up in guys noticed me, the guys I've spent my whole school life with saw me before and during puberty... not very attractive.
DUMP HIM!!! As my mom always said, "there is always a cover/lid to every pot". I can promise you look beautiful and he is a jerk to do anything like that! Forget him! If he is treating you like that, you should just leave him no questions asked! I bet you there are plenty of very nice guys out there that will like you just the way you are. (P. S. You are not ugly, and should be very happy to be slim!; I bet there are a lot of girls that envy your body). Never be embarrassed for your beauty!
You are beautiful always remembered that. Our creator do not make mistakes. We are all unique in our own ways. I will dump him but than he was never your be. Cuz bf's make their girl feel special, not the opposite. I hate to say this but he could of made a bet with his friends. I know its embarrassing but I want you to go to school with your head held high, ignore the ignorant people. And don't say anything to him.
And girls like Kim and Nicki were not built that way either. They paid to have those bodies.
Oh my goodness, seriously that is just such an asshole, i am a curvy short girl (never had a boyfriend and no problem) but trust me that is not the most important thing, first of all almost all curvy girls get attention from mostly the lusty guys. Next being tiny is really adorable. And who knows maybe when you get to school there will be that one boy who probably stood up for you when u went away and he will start talking to you. But when you get back to school nose up high and don't give a crap about anyone ok, and if anything make fun of one of your boyfriends disadvantages. That makes me so mad ughhhhh. If i was your friend there at school girl would i talk your boyfriend out.
hahhaha... buy him a big dildo and tell him in a note... I wish your dick was that big. So shove this in your arse instead.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, he is a complete douche bag of a person. dont do anything you might regret like trying to get revenge or something, just lock him out of your life completely. Block his number and block his FB, If he talks to you just be polite and end the confiscation when you can. What ever you do tho, Dont get back with him, Ever. you will get over it and one day when he grows up, he will feel terrible for what he did. And small boobs arnt ugly, guys like all boobs lol.
This is so high school behaviour. Small boobs aren't ugly, they're normal. He's a shallow bastard that you could live without. He made fun of you because he's a bastard who obviously likes big boobs. He obviously doesn't care seeing as he hasn't apologised. Guys get better with age. You need to break up with him and don't waste one more tear on him. You're beautiful as you are and you will find someone who sees that and loves you for it.
Dump him like right now he only wanted you for sex and he was a shitty as boyfriend small boobs dont matter I'm sure your beautiful and can find someone better because he's a plain old jackass with problems ignore him shun him do whatever it takes because the relationship wasn't meant to be
Yo whoa. First off dump him. Secondly I like small titts. Skinny girls. Specially short ones. N hey the only thing an ass is good for is sitting on. If he wants to he an ass fck him. Message me sometime n I'll help you out if ya need more help
You sound to be one fine girl. N shy girls are bomb
Shhhhh, it's ok Sweetheart. Get him the largest condoms and publicly give them to him, and say the same exact thing. Then proceed to dump him. Don't worry though, you'll be ok.
Omg that would be perfect revenge XD (not that revenge is a good thing... unless they deserve it... which he does)
The only thing I can say is that by crying for too long about this gives your now ex-bf emotional power over you. Do not give him that power. Get him out of your life.
Maybe it was just a prank. You need to talk it out with him.
He is SO not worth it.
Should I get back with him if he apologizes?
Tell him first never to do that again. Only if it was a prank. If he meant to humiliate you, he doesn't deserve you.
He is an immature dick, hey I am older but I was a bad boy in high school, but I would have never done that. Understand this most of the people that saw that will think he is a prick also, some may have laughed out of peer pressure... this will pass when the time is right put a sign on his locker saying "tiny penis" trust me he looked worse than you on this the long run will prove that,
He is a first category asshole. Dump him, life is to short to be around with people like that. I´m shure there is a guy out there that will like you for who you are in all the sense of the word. At the end the day they will remember you as the the shy and quiet girl that don´t deal with crap if you dump him and they will remember him as the immature asshole that is far away of been a men.