Nowadays many girls with small breasts feel insecure about them and would like to have bigger ones or are thinking of getting implants. I have to admit that I used to feel this way too. This article is for all the small breasted and I hope you will feel better after reading this.
After reading so many breast question here in GaG I want to ask you girls: Would you like to have a relationship with a guy, who cares only about breast size? I´m sure not. Fact is that there are guys who dont care about breast size at all as long as you have a nice personality and a nice body overall. Even if you may not believe it, there are guys too who prefer smaller ones over bigger- yes they exist. Studies have also shown that men who prefer smaller ones over bigger, are more loyal to their gf.I know it isnot always true,but generally spoken if he prefers your small breasts, chances shrink to cheat on you.
I have to add that high school boys tend to prefer larger ones, but they are mostly inexperienced and believe what media shows them. As they grow up, they appreciate the smaller ones as much as the bigger ones. In addition, smalller breasts tend to have a nice shape and more sensitive nipples. I have heard many times from guys that big boobs on a bra look look nice, but small breasts win when naked.
Sometimes I feel that both men and women have forgotten the main reason why breasts exist: The primary function of the breasts – as mammary glands – is the feeding and the nourishing of an infant child with breast milk during the maternal lactation period. As long as small breasts can feed a baby during pregnancy as well as big breasts can, there is no problem with having smaller ones!
Now Im going to to explain you why small breasts rock, although Im sure you have heard of these many times:
- They make you look younger. If you are now young, you dont appreciate this fact but trust me girls when you grow up it´s something you will appreciate.
- They don't sag. I know you have probably heard of it many times, but when you will be older and all your big breasted friends will have saggy ones, you will thank god to have smaller ones. Sometimes small breasts can sag too, but not as much as bigger ones do.
- You usually won´t have problems with sexist men. Guys who only like girls with big boobs are shallow but it is proven that they are sexist too.
- You feel more pleasure in bed. I know I have wrote it before too, but it is just amazing.Researchers found that large breasts are 24 percent less sensitive than small breasts.
- You can go out braless. I have to admit that I have never gone out braless, but really why not? Your shape is amazing and men will stare at your nice perky boobs!
- You don´t look "slutty". I know that big breasted women should not be consideres slutty as well, but it happens. My large-breasted friends get always sexist attention, and really it is not nice at all.
- They look more elegant.I think I dont need to explan this more, they just look more elegant.
- It is "healthier". You won´t have back pains at all. I have friends who are only 18 and are complaining about back pains. I think it is awful!
- Many stars have small breasts. Like Keira Knightley,Taylor Swift, Olivia Wilde but there are still guys as you see who think they are beautys!
There are many other reasons too why you should love them, but as I know that many girls don´t like them because they think they are not feminine and guys won´t like them I want to talk more about this.Small breasts can be feminine too, I have seen lots of sexy small breasted women. Of course there are guys who prefer larger ones over smaller ones, I know that. But personally, I would never date a guy who cares only about breasts. I dont want to be with a guy who only wants big breasts or small breasts, but I want to be with a guy who doesn't care about it because he loves me and find me sexy the way I am. I know that media is making you girls insecure, and many of you are considering a breast augmentation, but there is no need to do it really. Would you prefer to be with a guy who won´t date you with small breasts, but will do with big ones? I think no.
I have never judged a guy by his penis size, and guys should never judge girls by their breast size.It is so disrespectful and shallow. It isn´t our fault that we have small breasts, it´s our genes.One day a good male friend asked me: Would you prefer to have big breasts? I think I gave him the best answer: I don´t care if my breasts are a D cup,an A cup or if I don´t have breasts a all.I would always love myself the way I am and honestly there are things more important then breasts. He never said anything about my breasts till then!
So girls, love your breasts no matter how big they are love yourself and don´t let anyone make you feel insecure about them(don´t let media too). You will find a guy who doesn´t care about your breasts at all and who wouldnot change them if he could. Who ever doesn't appreciate you the way you are, doesn´t deserve you-just remember that.
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While this is a good message to send to smaller chested women, In my honest opinion, it seemed as if you were putting down larger breasts AND men who like larger breasts. That may have not been your intention, it's just how it seemed to me as I was reading it. Women come in all shapes and sizes, regardless of how big or small someone's chest is, all women should feel happy and confident with themselves. A few examples I picked up on:
-"Studies have also shown that men who prefer smaller ones over bigger, are more loyal to their gf." I highly doubt that, I don't see how preferring a certain breast size makes someone more loyal. I could be wrong but you didn't cite any outside reliable sources to back up this claim.
-"They will make you look younger" I don't think breast size has much to do with how old someone looks.
- "I have heard many times from guys that big boobs on a bra look look nice, but small breasts win when naked." I'm pretty sure most guys would agree that ALL boobs win when naked.
- "They don't sag" This is false. ALL boobs will sag eventually, even smaller ones. The aging process is inevitable and gravity will eventually take it's toll on everyone, regardless of breast size.
-"Guys who only like girls with big boobs are shallow but it is proven that they are sexist too." I think that's a pretty big claim to make and I don't see that as being true for the majority of men who prefer larger breasts.
-"They look more elegant" I don't see how breast size correlates with elegance, this just seems to be another dig at larger boobs.
So again, while the initial message is good that small chested women should be confident, I just feel like this could have been presented in a way that doesn't make other women feel bad about their size. Don't get me wrong, I'm not attacking you and I'm not trying to be rude so I hope you don't take it the wrong way, I'm just giving my honest feedback.
P. S. This is all coming from someone who is a 32B.
Babe this article is for small breasted women, so you see I had to say things like these but I didn't want to attack the big breasted ones. That's why I said in the end: I don´t care if my breasts are a D cup, an A cup or if I don´t have breasts a all. I would always love myself the way I am and honestly there are things more important then breasts. If these article was dor big breasted women I would say things like: You can better play with them. I didn't say I believe these studies, but studies have shown it honestly. They make you look younger is true again, thats why in films the actresses who are playing a young lady have often smaller boobs. That with when naked, I have heard it 1000 times from guys. They dont sag: my aunt is 40 and her boobs are as perksy as mine. But I mentioned that when They sag, they won't as much as bigger ones.
Also I dont have a problem with guys who prefer larger boobs, I meant it in another way like he is with her only because of her boobs. They look morr elegant, mm if will weae the same thing with my D breasted friend, people say me it looks more elegant, to me. thats why I said it. Anyway, I hope I didn't insult big breasted women because honestly I believe all breast sizes are ok and I had to say things like these, if it was for big breasted women I would say things I like I mentioned before :)
Just because you say these studies exist doesn't make them valid. But anyway, I'm sure it wasn't your intentions to put down anyone but that is how the article came across when I was reading it. I still disagree with those points you made that I addressed in my opinion but you are entitled to your opinion as well and again, I wasn't trying to be rude towards you, just explaining my viewpoint.