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The first date: Women "always" stop talking to me after? (Page 2)
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I've done this to guys on tinder or POF, I find their pic appealing, but sometimes when I go to meet up they are magically 35lbs heavier and they were using "the angles" I stay the date but I mark them as friends. Sometimes there's no spark.
Because when you actually date, it is a chore. You are trying to look for that special something.. Unfortunatly, the medium you are using is not best suited for that. The best way to find something is to not go looking for it
ur doing something wrong, they won't go MIA if everything went smoothly. I would suggest u to ask them about what went wrong in seriousness so u can learn from it. Don't try to hit on them but be honest about it.
I do try to ask them... but I still get no reply XD
Or how about when you talk back and forth for months and seemingly well, all the signals are good. pass go collect $200 , the girl just ignores and you and acts like a total witch night and day difference.. and doesn't care you even exist just for you telling her you like her..
Maybe your not that attractive or you aren't talking about interesting things and the women are just pretending to be interested? Do you have good hygiene?
So If a guy is not attractive enough he is doomed for life? š
No but it would be harder for him to get a woman to commit, especially if she is more attractive. Also attractiveness is relative so maybe the women you met up with haven't thought you were that attractive.
Dude, I have no experience and I know your problem. Your problem is when you text them after you aren't making it a point to see them again. You should say, "Hey, I had fun with you the last night. Let's go see a movie this weekend".
Fuck bro...
that blows...
women these days i swear...
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like i always say and its never wrong.
You need to be a badboy, have tons of money and flirt with other women while on those dates then they'll be asking you for the 5th date before the 2nd one happens.
They didn't like you or feel a spark. No attraction even if they did kiss you. They maybe was after a paid date for fun an nothing more. Who knows 😐
That's weird to get 17 like that, maybe they aren't physically attracted to you, have you got something that girls might not like? Or something that stands out. But then again you kissed a lot of them.
Your dates are intense play dates. Simplify them, go walk in a park or for coffee instead. Stop looking like a fun friend and look more like a lover.
As I said above, I do that... and I quote, "'I've gone for coffee & walks in the parks" still doesn't do anything.
The second part I said, look more like a lover.
A lover knows to let sexual tension build, and to only release it in bed. You're releasing it with a kiss and setting up too much expectations for date two. Where else to go but full on sex? So they back down.
Don't get too physical with a girl unless you're escalating to sex for the date you are on, not future dates.
This is pretty much what I was gonna say.
Wow. Every woman I have ever gone on date with has become my girlfriend - with just one exeption.
You look for a relationship, on a site that is for no strings sex and vacation hook ups.
perhaps you make your decisions too quickly or say things that might scare them away such as marriage.. I've seen many guys making mistakes like that..
Wow. 17 dates? How did you manage that? Okcupid? That might be your problem.
There are more productive things that a guy could be doing like working, being outdoors, working out
whats wrong if hew wants today. he does work..
I thought I was answering the question about girls not wanting a gamer my apologies!
You forgot to fart in their mouth during the date. BE A GENTLEMEN!!!
If you use tinder I heard many girls use that just to get a free date. That's all they want out of it is a free night out
Watch this and you will know why
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qAhO5SLF9CkLol... female player for food. Nice ha ah
God she's ugly...
You've just had a string of rude bitches. Happens. Keep hunting.