Both guys and girls tell me "you seem like a good person"
and "you are sweet"
Is it a good or desirable trait?
im not tough and confrontational and I have a feminine soft voice. Im not intimidating and I used to get walked on but I learned the art of walking away from people who don't treat me with respect and that soft doesn't have to mean taken advantage of.
Most Helpful Guy
The qualities of any successful relationship: trust, love, happiness, understanding, they all stem from the same place: kindness. Having the same qualities of being good and sweet, which pretty much are just different words for them, are the finest qualities anyone could obtain. That means when someone messes up, you don't jump down their throat. But don't mistake being good, being sweet as weaknesses. That just means you treat people right and work hard to make people feel comfortable. This is a trait many guys fight for in a woman. Cause it doesn't matter how beautiful or smart a girl is or can be, if she is cruel or mean, why stay with her?0
Most Helpful Girl
Can't answer for a guy, but my thoughts are that to be sweet, you have to be kind, thoughtful, patient, sincere. In fact, there are so many to list.
I think from anyones point of view, it is a very desirable trait, as it makes you a delightful person to be with socially and romantically.
Well done for being able to walk away from confrontation. That makes you the bigger, stronger person!1