Guys, what do you consider to be a "classy" girl?

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I have my own list in mind but would like to hear yours! :) What makes a girl classy in your eyes? What things should she do and what things should she avoid doing at all costs? & if guys really appreciate classy girls then how come I see a lot of guys chasing after girls with crazy reputations and very scantily dressed/very revealing clothes, etc? Thanks for answering my question & greatly appreciate your help :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

First of all, manners - An aggressive attitude probably the biggest turn-off.
Be mindful of your self-conduct, self-image, and self-respect.

Second, dress appropriately, and dress like a women - nothing screams class like a nice dress or skirt outfit with non-dominating accessories and make-up.
Heals if you can bear it, semi-flats are okay too.
A real man appreciates a well dressed woman.
I know dresses, skirts and heels aren't always convenient, but there are other options than jeans, spandex, sweatpants, t-shirts and sneakers.

Third, no ink under any circumstances. No piercings but for earrings. - They display short-term thinking, lack of foresight, and a rebellious attitude.

Fourth, No whoring around - A lady doesn't give it up to any guy who gives her attention. Learn to commit... it's not the end of the world.

Classy women attract classy men - if you want a good one, you've gotta be one.

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And just so it doesn't come off as women bashing...
Guys... learn how to act and dress like gentlemen, you look and act like slobs or street thugs..
And for christs sake... learn to respect good women, and stop treating them like cum dumpsters. Stop thinking with your dicks, you filth.
Just a little chivalry goes a long way.
Trust me on this... you'll be landing some classy chicks worth it all, if you do.

Let the downvoting commence.

SomeGuy37 · Accepted Answer

From some of the responses, I guess I don't always go for the 'classy girls'. I like the ones that are true to themselves, and don't pretend to be 'upper class' or 'smart' or whatever!!
I've ADORED some that could drink me under the table, and others that can curse, to make a sailor blush!!
It's all about the person, and honesty, 'REALNESS' is most important to me!! Don't pretend to be something you aren't, because it always shows!!
I like the women that don't focus on the make-up, shoes, or clothes! She wears what she likes, and doesn't give a 'sht' if she has a panyline, because she is comfortable, wearing what she likes! As far as the hair, and nails, and paying $100's? None of those are at all what I want!

Albinoninja66 · Answer

Sadly since I'm hot I tend to attract sluts (oh the struggles of being attractive! XD (sarcasm)). But my dream girl is the definition of classy. What I see as classy is a very smart girl with manners who know how to dress, and be sexy, but not slutty. She has a great sense of fashion and style, and is very confident in herself (but not too confident). She is caring and loyal, and knows how to have a real relationship. The kind of girl that looks serious and sophisticated (like me!) But is actually fun and exciting. It may seem shallow to some people, but she has to be stunningly beautiful to pull it all off (at least an 8/10), but I'm not THAT picky about looks. If they have the right personality it makes them seem much more physically attractive.

JoeCensored · Answer

A classy girl:

* dresses beautiful while never like a hooker
* speaks and writes English properly, limiting slang and casual profanity - knows the difference between there, their, and they're
* let's a guy open a door for her
* knows the difference between a pinot noir, zin, and other wines, what they pair with, and orders them appropriately
* would never be caught dead drinking a white zinfandel
* can control her volume and excitement in a conversation
* controls her impulsiveness
* stands and walks with her back straight, sits with her legs crossed
* appreciates foreign travel, and I'm not talking about partying in Mexico for spring break
* doesn't associate with losers, wannabe criminals, or the like of either sex

If you cover most of this list you're probably a classy girl.

Shan15 · Answer

Nah I love classy women. To me I think classy all comes down to how the woman presents herself.

The clothes she wear does it make her look elegant, sophisticated? When she says hi to you and gets into a conversation is she talking in a calm settle tone where she guides you along with her beautiful presence.

I think in order to be classy they should be themselves but at the same time live by the moment and be at their best behaviour as the way they convey themselves to other people I'm not saying to become too self-conscious but I think confidence kind of comes in there it's very hard to explain.

To me the girls who are overly energetic can't really be considered classy in my eyes cause to me it seems like they are just a lot about fun and putting that energy out there.

It's because the guys you see are young and probably don't understand the long-term effects of being around such type.

mangaka92 · Answer

What should she do for me to find her attractive? Not be classy or trashy. Lol I don't like either extremes, personally. Trashy feels like she as no respect for herself and classy feels like she has too much respect for herself. Classy woman are usually very well educated, intelligent, witty, romantic, well-spoken, elegant, etc. I'm not really interested in a relationship like that at all, though. However I'm also not interested in trashy women that dress scantily clad, act crazy, gossip constantly, are whiny and possessive, etc., either.

JustANormalTeenGuy · Answer

I'd consider a classy girl any girl who carries herself with confidence instead of relying on her body to get attention. Any girl who can approach me and is approachable without being sexual at all at first glance is classy. The clothes that she wears makes a bit of a difference. As long as she is decently covering the parts of the body that should be reserved for privacy, that's fine. If you're wearing shorts that show half your ass I would not consider that classy. And a lot of guys who chase after girls with crazy reputations and practically no clothing are guys looking to fuck. They most likely do not want a real relationship and if they did they wouldn't date a girl like that. Generally if a guy is trying to date someone they'll look more at personality and how it will be in the long run rather than cup size and how much skin is showing. I hope I helped.

Anonymous · Answer

A rich, supercilious bitch who thinks she's better than everyone.

Guys want to fuck. Seeking relationships comes second to that--and as a means to obtain sex. Some guys are more socially influenced to deny that they want to fuck 80% of the women out there; some guys are more socially influenced to prefer 'classy' women.

Generally, if you want to get laid, then go with the chick who will probably fuck you. If you want to have a relationship, go with the girl who doesn't have a crazy reputation--which means a steady stream of sex as opposed to hunting.

SuitAndTie · Answer

This is my personal opinion so it may differ somewhat from others.

A classy girl respects everybody around her and sees herself as equal to everyone. She doesn't talk down to anybody. She doesn't attract attention in anyway. She doesn't dress trashy and isn't too revealing. She's always got that perfect balance. She speaks very well and clearly and never swears or curses. She does not possess any disgusting habits such as spitting on the floor, smoking (it's a turn off for me) burping etc. She has this graceful walk that gives her an aura of elegance. She doesn't play games and is very calm and patient. Always keeps her cool.

Anonymous · Answer

I'll give you my list

-Manners and politeness. This is the biggest thing. She knows how to conduct herself depending on the situation. Also even if she is letting loose and relaxed, she still minds how she presents herself to others (the only person who should see her 100% loose is her boyfriend/husband).

-Dress code. I think knee length skirts or longer are classy. Also showing a little back and front cleavage is fine but not too much. Girl boots are cute and can be classy.

-Smarts. The girl has intelligence and wit, she knows how to have a smart conversation and you get the feeling you can actually learn things from her. Frankly I have always been most attracted to women who I feel can teach me a few things and introduce me to new experiences (not just sexual).

Xelebrum · Answer

A girl who:
- Doesn't play games
- Knows what she wants (both in life and in a relationship)
- Is willing to put in the work to get what she wants
- Doesn't act entitled to shit just because she's a female
- Has self respect
- Is ambitious
- Isn't a cunt

Anonymous · Answer

Fancy clothes and jewlery, lots of "fashionable" items. Long nails, high heels, makeup. All that kind of jazz. Personally I don't like any of that stuff at all. I usually find even the idea of "classy" a turn-off. I don't really associate it with any kind of reputation other than being arrogant and entitled. I've seen girls try to present themselves as classy dressed modestly and with very revealing clothes, so I don't think that has anything to do with it either.

If you're looking for things to avoid I'd say high heels and jewelry. Large and/or lots of jewelry just looks bad to me and I've always felt that it makes people seem old as well.

kill-switch · Answer

About my girls/women I love when they are dressed in T-shirts tucked in and other accessories and when they have long hair of course and my girls/women are sympathetic/empathetic they all exist in my world where I belong but the world in front of me is where I don't belong and everything is an illusion to me in this world which isn't my world.

KempisMC · Answer

Respect for others, love of herself and others , speaks well of others , is generous and true to herself , so nothing fake or based on appearance will make a woman classy in my eyes. What matters is the opinion of the one who you seek to show "classy" to , The range is wide , with 100 guys , you'll get 100 different answers , many will be similar, there will be extremes.

kaneandre95 · Answer

ok ill answer fully seeing as most are not... to answer your question a classy girl is one who stands out but in a good way and cares more about her intelligence and self worth instead of dressing with revealing clothing and attracting attention that way... secondly guys chase girls that dress like tramps for sex not for relationships unless they want to point score against there friends! Hope This Helps!

Octavius · Answer

Very respectful towards others and formal. You see a lot of guys chasing after scantily dressed women because there are more scantily dressed women than women dressed classy. It's a simple numbers game. The girl that are dressed up do get chased after as well but there's less of them to chase.

DaddyRollingStone · Answer

I kind of just want a girl who will take care of me. Not big stuff though, little stuff like when I come home from work with sore feet, she will offer to help me undress and rub my feet.

I don't think that's asking for a lot but I'm certainly hard pressed to find a girl that thinks the same.

Sitzkrieg · Answer

well "she" (a classy girl) should avoid dressing like these modern tramps you see wearing yoga pants/leggings/booty shorts/shorts that are way to short/ tight clothes.

"she" would have sort of real style to her life instead of being like you average harlot

etc etc

TheEroticJester · Answer

respect of self and others, and good values. if she's slept with a few guys but they were all more or less cool then its fine. if her past history is being passed around frat houses and football teams she's probably not worth having

5partan123 · Answer

Confidence (not to be confused with bitchyness or arrogance) Nice dress sense (no trashy clothing etc) Has varied interests Lastly, not foul mouthed!

muspelhem_5 · Answer

-Integrity (honest about self)
-Humour

Which is why a scantily-clad woman with a crazy reputation can be classy. If that is who she is, she owns it, and she's fun.

But honestly, I mainly care about their looks anyway.

soberpiper · Answer

Basic educate is always a good place to start. I notice the difference right away with women who say things like please, thank you, etc as oppose to those who don't.

d20samurai · Answer

I consider a girl classy when she possesses: an esoteric literary or cinematic knowledge, an excellent use of double entendres, along with a suggestive, but arguably modest style of dress.

The rest really depends on personal preference.

Anonymous · Answer

to answer your last question. some times men, especially in younger ages, just want to fuk. to have sex, thats all. no flowers, dinners, presents, commitments, dramas etc. the best way to just fuk is, to find a young hot girl with low self esteem aka slag aka skank. and the 19-22 years old, club dwelling, scantily dressed hotties, usually fits in that category perfectly.

dudegrt09 · Answer

Well even scantly clad women can be classy, if they can carry themselves, having a foreign accent can help sometimes, and good education is also a sign of a classy lady... but it really all depends on her body language and the company she keeps...

Anonymous · Answer

I think being modestly dressed is a big part of it. The girl can wear a bikini at the beach or whatever but she shouldn't wear one (or equally revealing clothes) all the time. I understand that girls wear a lot of this stuff cause it's "cute" or whatever but it's just my opinion

Tarvold · Answer

If a girl uses the word "classy", then she's not classy.

vicdragon · Answer

How she talks... How she dresses...  And how she kisses

TripleAce · Answer

A classy women  Has integrity  Principals  And Honour  In everything she does... simply

Anonymous · Answer

#1, she's mature. #2, she's smart / well-versed. #3, she's humble. Hobbies, interests, fashion, style, etc all trail far behind those 3 key points.

Anonymous · Answer

That's she's not looking for attention over social media, it's class in style and class in behavior :D

Classy mean no matter what kind of brand she buys and if looks good on her, good (I don't give a SHIT about brands)

RationalMale · Answer

Doesn't hookup/have casual sex.  Speaks well. Dresses modestly but attractively.

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