She is a natural blonde. She said she was dying it a different shade of blonde (that's fine), but she sent me a picture last night and it's pink. I understand it's her hair and her choice. I like her for who she is, first of all. I'm not going to break up with her over it. This totally took me by surprise. I actually thought she was wearing a wig in the picture. I don't like unnatural colors in hair (she knows this form a conversation we had when we started dating), though I respect her decision. However as shallow this may be, I'm very uncomfortable about it. We haven't talked since the picture (I got it this morning and she never responded, nor to any of the three texts I've sent her). Like I said, I at first thought she was wearing a wig so my first text was "I like the wig :D". What can/should I do? A friend suggested I say something like, "the pink looks cute on you, but I think you look beautiful as a blonde", but after reading another post on this site I thought I'd ask for my specific situation. This is new to me. No girl I've ever dated dyed their hair unnatural colors, and I don't know what to do.
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't worry too much about it. She's not going to keep it pink forever. And I think what your friend suggested you say to her is good, but just don't outright say to her that you hate the pink.7
Most Helpful Guy
There is no simple way out of this, you can either sugarcoat it like your friend said, or just be brutally honest. Honestly, I personally would say I haven't made up my mind on it yet - let her see how she likes it first. Technically it's just haircolor, not breast augmentation or a sex change. Maybe it will grow on you once you see that she likes it. You might imply it later that you preferred the previous though, but I would let her coloring not go to waste first.1