Why won't you guys date an INTJ girl?

[Anonymous]

I'm an INTJ girl and I never had a boyfriend despite being 24years old. Oh heck, I never even kissed or went out on a date with a guy. Men who show interest at the start never call me back or show no interest after that and its not like I want guys like that. I am just wondering why is it so hard for me to date a guy in contrast to my ESFJ twin sister.

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+1 y

I'm mostly being described as feisty, independent, strong, intelligent yet somewhat a romanticist and feminine. I thought guys like that... lol

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+1 y

I'm also very logical and decisive and is a very good strategic planner too.

[SeanFromRSA]

From the fairly quick Google search I just did to confirm what exactly those 2 acronyms mean, I would say you really have very little to worry about...

Extroverted people will always lead the way in social scenarios but truth be told very few ever gain much knowledge or understanding from the process...
Introverts on the other hand learn from just about everything as they tend to think a whole lot more.

If you feel that you're being overlooked in favour of obviously lesser potential candidates, perhaps considering a few minor adjustments could be the breath of fresh air you need... Maybe a new hairdo, a slight wardrobe update, maybe even something as simple as smiling a little more. If you feel the issue is that you tend to come across as uninterested, boring, etc, maybe open yourself up a tiny bit from time to time (I'm also an introvert so I don't say this lightly, I know full well how difficult opening up is, but it doesn't have to be all the time nor must it necessarily be to everyone, it's your choice entirely who you choose to show which sides of yourself to)

Don't worry about the lack of boyfriend or kissing experience, it's an old cliche but it certainly still holds true today, intimacy means infinitely more to those involved when it's genuine and hooking up with someone just for sex, whilst not the worst idea ever, provided both parties are acutely aware of that precise stipulation, it's still got nothing on hanging out with someone you genuinely like and just holding hands :D

Have a touch more self confidence and know that you are worth what you deserve!

It's like the poem about girls being like apples on an apple tree...

Girls are like apples on trees,
The best ones are at the top of the tree.
The boys don't want to reach for the good ones
Because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.
Instead, they get the rotten apples from the ground
That aren't as good but easy.
So the apples up top think something is wrong with them in
Reality they are amazing.
They just have to wait for the right boy to come
Along...

by Rose Rosado

It's true!

You're probably one of the amazing apples right up top... Give the right dude a little more time, he'll be there before you know it ;)

[Asker]

Thanks ;)

[SeanFromRSA]

Sure :) Hope it helps.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Great. Thanks for the poem.

[BearsAnswers]

It's not all guys. I've dated lots. But I am one, so I find it easier to relate to them. The biggest problem is that a lot of guys will have a hard time relating. They won't understand your thinking patterns, and won't be able to understand why you do the things you do. For you it will be perfectly logical. For me it would be too. But for them, it will seem essentially random, and they won't know how to take it.

You are going to either need to find another person like you, or find someone that is really empathetic, who can put themselves in your shoes and see your point of view, even if they don't think the same way themselves. And you'll most likely need someone that is at least above-average in intelligence. Your 'logic and planning' are going to go right over the head of a derpy guy - he won't notice it and appreciate it, and you'll just end up frustrated.

The I and the T, compared to your sisters E and F are going to also make it harder for you to seem warm and outgoing, so you will probably come across as less approachable. You'll have to work at expressing yourself and seeming friendly. It may seem forced, it may seem uncomfortable, but it will get easier, and it will make you more approachable.

[Asker]

Thank you for your advice. I will think about it. Most of the guys that tries to ask me out are ESFP or ESFJ. There seem to rarely have INTJ or ENTJ guys around.

[BearsAnswers]

The three least common types are INFJ, ENTJ, and INTJ, in that order, so yes, they will be harder to find. You'll be able to get along fine with the right ENFP though, and they are more common. If they are not an INTJ, it'll be hard for them to get you. So you'll want the E to draw you out of your shell. They'll need to carry the conversation until it hits a topic you're passionate about. You'll want the F and the P together so that they won't be judgmental of your differences, and hopefully they'll be compassionate enough with that combo to be able to realize your depths, even if they can't directly relate. It seems weird because they are opposite on so many traits, but INTJ and ENFP can really compliment each others personalities in a lot of ways. Each person is obviously a separate case with more or less compatibility, but if you are speaking in general terms (which personality types are), then it gives you a ballpark at least.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Don't worry... I just had my first kiss last year, girl. Over-analyzing is the issue.

[apple24]

I am not sure,,,, wrong guy?

[madhatters4]

it's basically in the description

"it is often a challenge for them to find like-minded individuals who are able to keep up with their relentless intellectualism and chess-like maneuvering."

they are also characterized (by the trait definition not to say you) as being:
arrogant
judgmental
overly analytical
and "clueless in romance"

Additionally they are often brutally honest and believe politeness is artificial behavior. those traits often times will create unnecessary stress and conflict in a relationship where often times being more gentle or i guess the term would be diplomatic would greatly benefit a situation... for example. my wife had a child recently and feels fat and in all honesty she has had a tough time losing all the baby weight. but me, i say you are beautiful and you'll lose that weight in due time, whereas an INTJ person may not be so soft handed

So it it seems like from an interpersonal relationship standpoint the INTJ personality finds it very tough in terms of chemistry

[Asker]

Oh yeah... you are on point. My sister describe me as brutally truthful that it hurts though I have no intentions of hurting... But I do love romance. I am quite a romantic myself. Just haven't found the right guy...

[madhatters4]

i think the INTJ personality just makes dating difficult because the personality is not really... (trying to think of the word)... relationships, dating, love all require a certain amount of irrationality to be applied in them and the INTJ type is a nearly 100% rational person and irrational behavior is almost incomprehensible to them

[madhatters4]

i imagine for you... and i could be very wrong... it would help to be friends with a guy before adding the romantic element. if a deep friendship is fostered (with mutual respect for both the irrational and rational elements of relationships) then i'd think it may be the best way to build the relationship

but again i could be wrong. I'm certainly no expert on this subject

[Asker]

I do agree love is irrational and illogical but thats what I am hoping for. Someone who can make me lose my logic and cool for once

[Anonymous]

So, people actually use that INTJ, ESFJ, etc crap in daily life? Huh.

Anyway...

"I'm mostly being described as feisty, independent, strong, intelligent yet somewhat a romanticist and feminine. I thought guys like that... lol"

Sometimes, a few of those traits aren't attractive to men because the women who have them often have a chip on their shoulder towards men. So guys start associating those qualities with man-haters... and therefore reject girls who have such qualities as a matter of habit.

And if they aren't man-haters, they are often simply rude (women seem to confuse "strong and independent" with "unbearable, rude, ill-bred").

It's a shame, because most of those qualities are otherwise quite desirable.

Now...

You might simply be shy. Maybe you aren't giving signals to men that you are open to them approaching you, or that you aren't interested in them talking to you when they do approach. You may need to reconsider the non-verbal and verbal signals you are sending men when you are talking to them.

Actually, I just read your interaction with @Aeliuz

The problem is that you are rude.

"Aeliuz: I don't know what either INTJ or ESFJ is.
YOU: Then don't answer it..."

If a man spoke to me that way, he'd lose some teeth... and most men damn well know they can't speak to other people that way unless they are looking for a fight. Aeliuz handled it well and redirected the conversation into constructive areas again...

But when a woman does that... are we supposed to find her attractive? No, of course not. It's actually much more irritating than when a woman does it, purely because a lot of girls know they can hide behind gender/social norms and get away with bad manners. It's extremely unattractive behavior.

So work on your manners. I guarantee that's what is holding you back.

[Asker]

i wasn't trying to be rude. I was stating it as a matter of fact instead

[Asker]

half of the time I get comment from guys like. "You're too good for me" or " You're too smart for my liking, I like submissive girls" or "I prefer soft-spoken girls".

[Asker]

The thing is I'm not even a man hater... neither do I appear to be a man hater in fact. Plus I know Aeliuz is quite a matter of fact on point person thats why I stated then don't answer it... Not everyone is sensitive to get offended by that especially since he's a guy.

[Opinion Owner]

"You're too good for me" or " You're too smart for my liking, I like submissive girls" or "I prefer soft-spoken girls"

Those are euphemisms. Guys are simply saying, in a nice way, that they perceive you as rude and unpleasant to speak to. They're letting you off easy.

It's good that you aren't trying to be rude. But you might need to spend some time learning how the way you speak is being perceived by other people.

"Not everyone is sensitive to get offended by that especially since he's a guy."

Don't be sexist. Guys have feelings too -- no less than woman do.

[Asker]

I'm not trying to be sexist so don't reinterpret my words. I don't think it got to do with my rudeness because of the response I get from people. I'm often praised for my manners and politeness in fact. I'm not saying he have less feelings than a girl. But it is proven guys are naturally less sensitive than girls. I think you reinterpret most of the things I said too much in your own way.

Not all men say things indirectly either... I need logical answers instead of what you feel or think it is. Thank you.

[Opinion Owner]

If logic is that important to you, then as a fellow INTJ, let me point out a lack of it on your part: you are rationalizing.

You are trying to rationalize away what I have written because it's uncomfortable to be criticized. Now frankly, I don't care either way whether or not you take my advice -- your life, your problem. However, you came here for advice, and if you are going to benefit from it, then you need to be humble and self-aware enough to accept that advice, even when it is critical of you.

I'm not judging you. I am simply pointing out what you are doing, in so far as I'm able to see it based upon what you have written.

In any case, this is my last post to you, since there's little more to say. You have my advice now, take it or leave it.

[Asker]

I honestly don't care for critisim. I just want answers which you are not giving or making sense out of. I don't want assumptions based on some internet persona I have or few sentence I said. I want answers and not assumptions. I would definitely take even the harshest advice as long as it make sense :)

[Anonymous]

I would marry you if I knew who you were. But the question is, would you marry me? I'm 26. I play League of Legends and use GaG and abovetopsecret. com 24/7. I read some books in the past... I watch movies when I'm really bored... I don't got a job. The only sex I've had was with four prostitutes in August 2015 for less than 15 minutes. Truly, a terrible fate and treacherous scam I've faced. I have debt from college loans that I refuse to repay. It's not like the government ever had this money to begin with, they want me to repay money that never existed. I hate this planet and humanity and I'm preparing for World War III before it reaches the United States. Once I destroy all malevolent beings, I will create a new age of light and benevolence, I want to make the Venus Project and the Free World Charter a reality. If you refuse to marry me, then that's the problem. Your standards may be too high. Maybe, you fail to see a guy's potential in the future. No guy is perfect from the start especially on Planet Earth. But perfection can be achieved... sometimes. :D

[Asker]

I prefer simple guys :)

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay, then. I'll keep my thoughts to myself then. :D See, it's a two way street. At the very least, you have to be vocal about your needs and wants. Let's get married. :D

[Asker]

I want a simple guy who just love me... lol doubt you love me.

[Opinion Owner]

I do love you, trust me. I'm not that hard to please. If I love someone, it's genuine love... And, I'm really faithful when I love someone. I'll be back in a couple of hours. I'll message you when I'm back.

[Asker]

Sureeeee...

[Opinion Owner]

LOOOOOOOOL. Alright, I'm back, are you there?

[Asker]

LOL...

[Opinion Owner]

Awesome. :D

[Opinion Owner]

Tell me what you desire.

[Asker]

You aren't serious are you...

[Opinion Owner]

You want to talk here or go on messages?

[Asker]

Okay... you're serious

[Opinion Owner]

The only game I play is League of Legends. So, yes, I'm being serious with you. Although, I do like to laugh a lot. :D

[Asker]

I have no idea whats that or have no interest to know what legend of what... LOL

[Opinion Owner]

Alright, don't worry, I'll figure you out, LOOOL. You're pretty shy, aren't you? You're very humble about your desires. There's no need to be shy with me. Don't hold back your emotions.

[Asker]

There is no emotions... lol and i'm not holding back...

[Opinion Owner]

Feel free to message me.

[Opinion Owner]

I'll help you, don't worry. I'm on your team.

[Asker]

Dude... you're anon

[Opinion Owner]

I've been on this site for 8 months, I trolled with many accounts, but I'm serious when someone needs help. I'll help you out through messages.

[Asker]

Okay...

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not anon anymore. :D

[Opinion Owner]

LOOOOOL, you still don't trust me? That's fine, I'll wait for you. :D

[Asker]

I never said I don't trust. I am just saying okay.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay. :D I don't want you to give up on love because I know you deserve love.

[Opinion Owner]

Your existence is very interesting to me. I was known as LordZero before I made this account. There are many people asking weird questions on GaG, and for those questions I usually give troll answers, LOL. But your question is authentic. So, I'm really being serious about helping you. :D

[Asker]

I do want love but no one seems to even have the potential to grasp the concept of love. And obviously all guys I meet prefer girls who seem more shallow, materialistic and all that. Truth be told, I don't think I'm unattractive. In fact I do have guys coming up to me telling me I'm attractive and beautiful and all that. They would ask for my number, talk to me for few times then tell me they don't understand what I have been saying the past week. All they know is I'm pretty and that keeps coming up in all the conversation I have with men.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe they're afraid of your intelligence and beauty. Don't worry, I'm not afraid of you. :D I will accept your challenge. :D I find you highly intriguing. Perhaps, you can also enlighten me.

[Opinion Owner]

Every guy thinks all girls are the same. But I believe every girl is different. So, I will try to understand you to the best of my ability. Maybe, I can help you in a way that no other guy can.

[Asker]

Enlighten what? are you trolling?

[Opinion Owner]

LOOOOL. I'm not trolling. You're hilarious, LOOOOL.

[Asker]

Hope you're serious...

[Opinion Owner]

I really want to see your definition of love. <3

[Opinion Owner]

I love it when a girl can make me laugh. <3

[Asker]

A guy who will always fight for me, a guy who will be willing to lay down his life for me, a guy who will love me and not asking for anything in return, a guy who love me exclusively, and when I mean exclusively I really mean exclusively. A guy who will always put me first in whatever to happen... Because I know whatever I hope for... I can do exactly the same thing back...

[Opinion Owner]

Your definition of love is amazing. <3 I will be your protector. I'll become the one you're seeking. <3 True happiness is achieved when both a guy and a girl really love each other. <3

[Asker]

okay... you're trolling

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe I am the one you're seeking. <3 Perhaps, you're the one I've waited for my entire life. I just want to love one girl and be completely devoted to her. <3

[Opinion Owner]

No, I'm not trolling.

[Asker]

you haven't even met me

[Opinion Owner]

I understand your definition of love. It's really beautiful. <3

[Asker]

thanks

[Opinion Owner]

I don't really care about how someone looks. I like to connect with a person's Spirit. Your soul, who you really are, that's what I'm interested in. Although, I'm certain you're truly beautiful. <3

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome. :D

[Asker]

thanks... lol

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome. <3

[Opinion Owner]

You're 24, though. You need to get married ASAP, LOL. <3 You would be an amazing wife. You actually know what love means, you're ready, I know it. :D

[Opinion Owner]

Where do you live? I'm in NYC.

[Asker]

I live in Korea now... work...

[Asker]

I lived in NYC for a year before

[Opinion Owner]

Whoa, Korea, that's so cool. :D You should know what League of Legends is then, LOL. South Koreans are crazy about it. :D The best League of Legends player in the world is from South Korea. His game name is Faker. Is Korea fun? Oh wait, are you in South Korea or North Korea?

[Asker]

South Korea... no its not fun

[Opinion Owner]

How am I going to marry you if you're in Korea? You're so awesome, but so far away. :(

[Opinion Owner]

Are you coming to the US?

[Asker]

LOL... if you really love me... come here... :)

[Opinion Owner]

I really do love you, but it's impossible for me to stay in Korea. I don't got enough money to stay in Korea. I can just visit you once.

[Asker]

you're american?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I was born and raised in NYC.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you Korean or some other nationality?

[Opinion Owner]

My ethnicity is South Asian, though.

[Asker]

Irish... but I'm mized

[Asker]

mixed*

[Opinion Owner]

omg that's so hot :D

[Opinion Owner]

LOL no wonder you don't like Korea, I'm so sorry...

[Asker]

Irish/English/Chinese/Korean/Japanese

[Opinion Owner]

Whoa, that's an amazing combination...

[Opinion Owner]

I really want to be with you.

[Asker]

haha we're from opposite sides of the world

[Opinion Owner]

Are you living in Korea permanently?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, LOOOL.

[Opinion Owner]

I hate this planet. Why is the girl I love on the other side of the planet? Why am I in NYC, LOOOL? Fuck.

[Asker]

Wherever opportunities bring

[Opinion Owner]

There's almost no way we can meet then, at least not yet. I will at very least see you in the Spirit World after we leave this planet, LOL. Damn, this is so sad. Don't give up on love, I know you'll find a guy that's right for you. You're very intelligent, very sweet and really kind. If you really plan on staying in Korea, the one you're seeking should be in Korea, too. Maybe, he'll come to you one day or you'll end up finding him. The least I can do is give you hope. Don't give up. I know you'll find the love that you're seeking. But if you really want to stay in Korea, then your soulmate is definitely there, too. If he's not in Korea, there should be at least one other guy in Korea that's compatible with you. Either guy will give you the love that you seek.

[Asker]

lol ok

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever you do, don't give up. I know you'll find love and happiness.

[Asker]

Will remember that

[TheFlak36]

LOL! this is so me! INTJ guy here. Well you INTJ girls are definitely a rare species :D
If I could get anywhere near one, I would give it a shot at her.

[MichaelJoseph89]

I don't really know much about that stuff, but you might be surprised by how many people who are in their 20s have never been in a relationship.

[Asker]

Cool :)

[ZionOrtov]

I'd date an INTJ girl, I am an ENFJ.

[Asker]

Hope I meet one too

[warrior0345]

You literally just described everything I'm looking for in a girl I'm shy introverted so I never approach women but certain traits and behaviors that certain women have attract me

[Aeliuz]

I don't know what either INTJ or ESFJ is.

[Asker]

Then don't answer it...

[Aeliuz]

You could just explain what it is for everyone who doesn't know, so you'll get more answers...

[Asker]

Like I said 'I'm mostly being described as feisty, independent, strong, intelligent yet somewhat a romanticist and feminine. I thought guys like that'

[Aeliuz]

ah, so they are used to describe a persons personality. INTJ being the traits you just listed.

[Asker]

Yes it means I'm an introvert, fairly logical, and somewhat of a perfectionist.

[Aeliuz]

Seems like you are one of the girls who you'd not want to approach just to flirt. But someone you'd like to get to know first before going into a relationship. The kind of person you'd want a long-term relationship with, instead of a one night stand.
With that said, feisty, independent and strong are not always good things. But it all depends on what you mean with them. Feisty could be aggressive, independent could be that you don't appreciate your partner and strong could be dominant or even controlling (which most guys don't like).

[Asker]

In a way, it kind of make sense because I rarely have guys approaching me to flirt actually. However I do try to tone down my aggressiveness because I can be quite the type of person who get things done fast and would not tolerate any mishaps or nonsense kind of person. I am independent but I do believe if I meet a guy who is dependable I will tend to rely on him but its just that so far I don't find anyone showing me they could be that rock I could rely on as well. I am generally quite easy going actually but I feel that people who based me too much on first impression or first look could be easily misunderstood. My sister says I am easily misunderstood because rarely explain myself or my actions and people tend to just reinterpret my intentions and actions as well.

[Asker]

I don't find fiesty, independent or even intelligent positive traits actually. I do wish I am naive and stupid but this is just me. I ever acted like a bimbo for a guy once really liked once and ended up feeling horrible inside. It's just not who I am. I'm just a girl who likes to just be myself and just say whatever I want without any malice or intentions behind. I am not the kind who keep telling someone "Oh I'm fat ugly and insecure" just to fish compliments like what most people do or think. If I say I think I'm ugly I mean it and I don't intend for anyone to say " Oh you are not..."

[Aeliuz]

You might seem intimidating to guys, especially if they get the impression that you are a "... would not tolerate any mishaps or nonsense kind of person." Men want to be able to have fun, and not get crucified for making a mistake.

[Aeliuz]

Intelligence is a positive trait, and don't tell yourself anything else.

[Asker]

Hmmm... I do have fun but just that if a guy find fun out of something I find really intolerable then maybe I will speak up. Like there was one guy who started texting me because he's interested in me. He started finding fun in bitching about other girls and he thought I found him funny. So I made it clear I don't think that its nice and he never texted me again. I feel sincerity is really important. If a guy does something wrong along the date not on purpose its completely forgivable but if a guy just tries to throw his temper or forces his way to do certain things, lacking insight and sincerity on his part I would not give him the response that he would like or want to here. I never sugarcoat anything even if I were to compliment someone its the pure truth and I love to praise people for their efforts and all but I feel like sometimes guys just try to fish compliment they don't deserve and obviously I'm unwilling to give them that.

[Aeliuz]

I hate when people fish for compliments, it takes all the fun out of them. It's like planning a surprise birthday party, it's more fun if the person doesn't know it's coming. Sincerity is good, and you should tell people when they're being intolerable, just make sure you don't kill any potential feelings by being too honest.

by the way...

"I know Aeliuz is quite a matter of fact on point person thats why I stated then don't answer it... "
what's this supposed to mean? what kind of person do you know i am?

[Asker]

From the way you say "I don't know what either INTJ or ESFJ is." I pretty much can tell you're an 'on point' kind of person. You don't take people words personally or get overly sensitive by what people say. If someone wants to say something like I don't know what INTJ is they would put it like "I don't know what the heck is INTJ or ESFJ" something really emotional. But your answer is not that emotional or personal. So thats how I deduce it... correct me if I'm wrong.

[Aeliuz]

You're not wrong, but your reply was not a very nice way to start a discussion on a topic you needed help with. It's even possible some people saw it and decided not to give their opinion because they thought you seemed rude.

[Asker]

I wasn't starting a discussion actually. I was just saying there was no need for an answer if you don't know what it is.

[Asker]

It's actually just an objective answer and subjective to how someone would view the way I answer. I didn't insult or curse you or anything. It's really up to someone to decipher what they want to think it as :) Thanks for your help anyway

[Aeliuz]

Part of the reason i commented the way i did (apart from being too lazy to search google) was that for everyone else that didn't know, the answer to what INTJ and ESFJ was were available right here. The polite thing would be to give an explanation, but you didn't, and you saying i shouldn't have commented at all, gave the rude impression. That might not have been how you meant it, but that's the way both me and the only other person commenting saw it. I'm not upset or anything, just giving some input.

[Asker]

Okay. Because you didn't ask for any explanation thats why I didn't bother. I will update on an explanation. However I am just saying that I felt at least you would have replied me in a more objective manner compared to the other person who just assume things that don't make any sense. Like at least you ask me oh so what's INTJ or ESFJ can you explain.

[dipta]

@Asker
Like you said it yourself, if he had said "oh so what's?" he would be behaving emotionally and that's not his personality type. Which, ironically, you could have understood because perhaps that's how you yourself would have answered, but you just assumed he was a troll and was dismissive.

Perhaps, in a way, it'd be easier for you to read emotional people, but as things are now you're probably too blunt and hurt their feelings... so basically I think you've to work on your people's skills and wait a bit more before reaching some conclusion, like giving people the benefit of the doubt.

[Asker]

@dipta I didn't think he's a troll. I just said don't answer it if you don't know the answer. Simple as that. Honestly I don't really care if someone thinks I'm rude or anything. I seen no point in 'improving people skills' and answer something patronising and just to 'sound nice'. If I'm nice I am nice. If I'm not, I am not. If I know someone had replied me emotionally, I would reply them emotionally. But he didn't he gave a matter of fact answer so I replied factually.

[OrangeBoy]

What's your country? You seem cool.

[Asker]

I'm mixed, living in Asia now.

[GreatnessPersonified]

So, we are doing this now.

[BackInGame]

OP, are you fat?
Are you ugly?

[Asker]

Guys who hit on me think Im beautiful. 10 minutes into the conversation the only response I get from whatever intellectual remarks I make is "You're so pretty" "You're beautiful" "Why no guys like you? You're hot" "I think you should be a VS angel" "Are you an actress" "You should be a model"... I uess that answers your question.

[BackInGame]

ok, if u're not BSing, then maybe you should lower your standards and not waiting for a male model to ask you out. I guess all what you have collected so far is casual sex with hot guys and complaining why no one of them doesn't want to date you.

[Asker]

I never had sex and I am not waiting for a hot guy. I just want a genuine guy. I don't care if he's hot, if he's rich. He cane be disfigured and a beggar for all I care. But I do want a genuine guy.

[BackInGame]

this is strange as fuck.

[Asker]

And... no I'm not bullshitting. It is annoying to have people telling you you're gorgeous all the time and not care for the person you are inside. I wish I am ugly sometimes.

[BackInGame]

PM me with face pics from 3/4 view with censured eyes. I'll aware you fast.

[Asker]

LOL... I am not going to PM my picture to a stranger online just so he can decide if I'm not ugly or not fat. Do I look stupid to you? You can believe it or not. Because whatever you have said so far are nothing but superficial.

[Asker]

You assume I'm ugly and fat. Then if I'm so hot all I have is sex with hot guys and that must be my standards. The world don't work like you...

[BackInGame]

ok. then we're done. good luck.

[Asker]

good...

[Anonymous]

i don't kno wwhat that is

[Asker]

Okay...

[Dred1614]

What is INTJ?

[Asker]

People with the INTJ personality type take pride in remaining rational and logical at all times, considering honesty and straightforward information to be paramount to euphemisms and platitudes in almost all circumstances. In many ways though, these qualities of coolness and detachment aren't the weapons of truth that they appear to be, but are instead shields designed to protect the inner emotions that INTJs feel. In fact, because their emotions are such an underdeveloped tool, INTJs often feel them more strongly than many overtly emotional types because they simply haven't learned how to control them effectively.