I was wondering is it possible that our relationship can really work out
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You welcome. I would have say to make your own judgement. You should care what other say here. I don't know you much or him, but make your own judgement. Get to really know the guy, what is he about. Tell your parents and friends about it. If he really good guy he got nothing to hide. He 30 year if got hide around about dating a girl, then no man to mess with. You should be proud of you dating, who doesn't like to show off.
Hey as long as no laws are being broken and no one is forcing themselves on the other then I'm ok with it. In all honesty, I doubt that it's more than list on either end and believe that once you're of age he'll be bored because there is no longer the illegal/wrong/taboo aspect to the relationship
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😊 also how could i give a background check
I forgot he's a college professor in los Angeles tje good part is i didn't sleep with him yet thank god
You still have to be careful.
Is there anyway to verify and be certain that he actually is a College Professor?
I think Private Investigators can provide the most accurate background checks. But if you know someone that works for the government or some government agency they potentially could uncover the truth about the person that you plan to meet in person, face to face. There are online background checks but I think the information is mostly public records and may not be up to date or accurate.
Agencies can use things like facial recognition, maybe voice recognition to verify a person's identity and background.
Have you actually seen this professor online in person such as something like a Video Chat or Video Conference session?
Like meet him face to face via webcam?
I would do that if you haven't and then if he actually does agree to talk to you and meet with you this way and you can see him clearly then he might be more honest and has not trying to hide who he really is.
Okay, so that meant you actually saw him face to face.
I would record a video of him from the webcam or take screen captures. It could help in verifying his identity and background so that he is actually whom he claim he is and what he actually claims he does. They have something called facial recognition and even vocal or audio recognition now which I am sure of that can help track and verify a person's identity.
I know you may think that I have this really paranoid and being really vigilant kind of thinking or personality.
But it is because I think that you can never be too certain until you look deeper and investigate it.
I think it's Always better to be safe, than to be sorry later. Bad and horrible things can happen when you least expect them to.
Always stay vigilant and be prepared before it happens or you may realize that it would be too late and maybe had you taken the necessary precautions and preparations first then something bad that happens could have been prevented.
I also think it would be better to let your parents or guardians aware of this person that you plan to meet eventually.
Okay thank you also he showed me his dick on cam its so big and white
i was shoked yesterday morning 😮
what should i do he sends me dick pictures and videos of him Jacking off
and i can't stop rubbing my clit
He really did that? Seriously?
That's creepy. I think he is a pedophile. At least I'm sure many would agree with me on that.
Oh well I didn't have any real positive expectations for someone like that to begin with.
I would cut off contact with him at some point, because it seems like this guy is really just going to use you for sex or even control you at some point.
@asker if he did send you porn, then it is illegal. He didn't wait like he said he would. Be careful with him. I say you should steer clear of him. I don't think he is well intentioned.
If you are scared, then stop seeing him. Make sure you never reveal any information that could identify you. Just stop talking to him anyway...
Cut off all contact with him. Change all your phone numbers, emails, screennames, etc. Never ever contact him again. I hope you weren't careless to let him know where you currently live, go to school, etc. But if you did, it's time to talk to the local law enforcement to get you some protection and file a restraining order or something to prevent him from ever getting near you.
See, now maybe you realized that he never actually had any good intentions when he came into contact with you to begin with.
But I hope you had understood and learned your lesson.
@JuicyBrain okay thanks i never told him were i live or my address
he deosn't know my phone number
he only knows the city were i live
Just a suggestion.
I suggest that you save all records and information as much as possible about this guy. Who knows he might find some other unsuspecting victim one day although even if he did not get to you. Since what you just told me about him suggests to me that he could be some really desperately horny creep, but with the records you saved about him such as a photo or video of him, you can help the authorities stop him before another tragedy occurs. It would be valuable and critical pieces of evidences that could be used against him in the court of law.
No problem. let me know if you get a chance to send all that information to the authorities, better someone do something about him and stop him now before things get worse. I think that guy needs help.
For all I know he could be lying to you and already married and doing something like this behind his wife's back, who knows?
Maybe he's had a rough divorce and this is his way of trying to cope with it. But if it's wrong then he should have never done this to you.
well i sent the information to the cyber cops i blocked and reported him to the kik so they had to look at the message board
and he is now in deep shit
Great job! I think he's an idiot anyway. He should have known better. If you are under 18 you can easily sucker jailbait these perverted sicko pedophiles. Maybe the website you go to for chatting should hire you to help catch any and all these perverts out there that had signed up there.
If this "college professor" had any real good intentions to begin with then, they should not and would never had sexually harassed you or done anything sexually explicit or suggestive. I mean seriously? Sending you photos of his genitals was something that would cross his mind? I can understand if it was 2 adults that are 18 or older but in your case, you aren't even of the legal age of consent so I don't know what he had been thinking lol
If he had naked pictures or videos of you then he'd be totally Fucked when the cops go looking for him and catch him.
He has one pic of my p⭐ssy and he trying to get me to sneak out the house and sex over his house when i turn a year older
If he didn't have a full picture of you then he might be able to get away with it, I don't know. But his actions are very self-incriminating. When he gets arrested and taken to prison, he's gonna regret the day he ever came into contact with you.
Then he's in big trouble for possession of child pornography. If he knew you are not of legal age of consent ad he still solicited naked photos of you then he's gonna face prison time.
I told him when we first met. I was 15 and he said he doesn't give a fuck
this year in June we were supposed to meet and have sex the plan is he wanted me to cut and get a ride to los Angeles 😒👥
That's more than enough evidence provided to have him successfully prosecuted. Since he knew you are not of legal age and still solicitated you for nude photographs he's totally fucked and have even less chance of defending himself in court. If he was unaware then I think they might only reduce his prison sentence or something, but since he was aware from what you just said he "knew" that what he was doing is breaking the law and just did not give a fuck, as opposed to someone who committed a crime but was completely unware the whole time though usually those are for crimes such as being an accessory after the fact. Let me know if and when this guy ever gets caughr and arrested otherwise I can tell they will put his ass on America's Most Wanted until he surrenders himself lol.
It's always easy to condemn people of crimes they didn't commit when they do things we generally disagree with. You are displaying a lynchmob mentality... @madhatters4
@Intraluminal Meaning what, that we should have put Hitler in prison before he committed a crime?
stick to you guys closer to your age. if this guy wants to wait let him wait but you shouldn't also wait on him. basically you should live your life and kind of tell this guy to get in touch with you in 3 years... that will begin to prove if he is even worth it and will wait. if he does wait til you are legal then you can re-examine the situation again. but you shouldn't be talking to him as of now, and should be really just living the life a teenager should live... which is not being pursued by guys twice your age
best of luck
You are a pedophile if you engage in sex with an underaged partner. Not if you engage in a conversation. Once she is 18, she'll be old enough to decide for herself and she will be responsible for her own mistakes. You will say it won't work, so what? Haven't you had relationships that didn't last?
He clearly said he would wait until she is 18. That may make you uncomfortable but that doesn't make him a pedophile.
@JuicyBrain
1. i didn't say he was a pedophile. I said he was basically a pedophile
2. pedophilia is not relegated to having sex with minors
it is defined both legally and in the dictionary as "a person who is sexually attracted to children."
so yeah he's basically a pedophile. there is no amount of rationalization you can do to suggest otherwise.
" didn't say he was a pedophile. I said he was basically a pedophile"
Oh sorry ! With a difference that big, if we were to put it in the ocean, it would certainly flood a whole continent !
I guess point 2 would be hard to rebute if it was actually true, but it's not. Time to buy a new dictionary?
@JuicyBrain this is the last time i respond to any of your trollish b. s. every single definition of pedophilia describes it as being sexually attracted or interested to/in a child (dictionary. com, websters, cambridge, encyclopedia britannica wikipedia, etc). even the terrible urban dictionary defines it as that ... and with that i'm done with you.
@JuicyBrain technically Hitler wasn't a mass murderer until months after he became chancellor of Germany.
He *says* he's in Los Angeles. You can NOT verify it. He might be in Baltimore, hanging out around your school or home, once he has your address.
I would not recommend meeting guys on the internet when you are so young. He sounds like a predator so I would informe someone like the police of his activities. You can do that anonymously with a tip and it would be worth it if he turns put to be that kind of person. You'd save a potential victim.
she's 15. give her a break. are her actions wise? no. but again she's 15 so concessions should be made. the onus is on the "adult" to behave in an adult way. taking advantage of child is why pedophilia is illegal, because a 15 year old shouldn't be expected to be able to handle adult relationships
@madhatters4 I completely understand you and you are not wrong. she's getting a break from most opinions here. But personally I am not entirely convinced she's as innocent as she sounds. 15 is young but 15 is not clueless either... she knows what she's doing to some extent.
15 year old and we're just as naive in my day. They're children. They can't be expected to think and act like adults.
Im not stupid i want love too just like you adults
i wanr someone to love and repect me too just like you
@Sara413 exactly. its not their fault for not knowing, its their parents' fault for not teaching them.
I didn't say you're stupid. You're 15. It's honestly pretty normal for a girl your age to feel special and smitten when a much older man pays attention to you. But that's why it's important for adults to recognize what is happening and tell you. No 30 year old man has good intentions with a 15 year old girl. He is a predator and he is grooming you for an inappropriate and exploitative relationship.
@Sara413 hey i have secret i never told my parents me and him been chatting since September of 2015😞😪
That's how grooming works! They make the child feel special and that they can trust them. Most 15 year old girls when they see someone else being groomed will see how wrong it is, but when it's you who is being paid attention by an older man who tells you how special you are and how mature you are ready for your age and how he's willing to wait for you and all that other bullshit it's easy to fall prey to it. Instead of being judgmental let's try to help her see that what is happening is wrong.
You don't have to tell your parents if you don't want to, but you do need to stop talking to this man and let him know that if he continues to contact you you will talk to the police.
@Jayded1
indeed: " These days, a consensus of neuroscientists agree that brain development likely persists until at least the mid-20s – possibly until the 30s."
mentalhealthdaily.com/.../"
@jacquesvol Yes it does. However the biggest changes are at various ages. The last step, when we really begin to understand right and wrong comes in the mid teens.
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