Im 15 and he's30 years old💟👥?

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okay im 15 years old and my crush is 30 we been chating for months and my crush he likes me back but he's aware that im underage and he told me he will wait till im legal so we can be together well also he texts me and tells me im pretty we have the same likes and think to like we never argue to much he has lots and such a charmer and he listens to me when something wrong and gives me advice he always there for me when i need him also he nevers pressures me to have sex he makes feel very comfortable and treats me like his princess

I was wondering is it possible that our relationship can really work out
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WhiteSteve | 488 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Master

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If I was over the age of 18 and trying to forge romantic relationships with 15 year old girls, I'd turn myself in to the police and/or off myself. That's disgusting, and at 30, downright inexcusable. I'm sorry, I hate to be that guy, but you need to hear that. I'm sure he's very nice to you and makes you feel good about yourself, but that's just not an appropriate age pairing. It's not the 15 years, it's that you're not even a grown woman yet. If he was 40 and you were 25 I'd say whatever, but this dude is a legit pedophile if he's trying to have a relationship with you, even if it's strictly emotional and non-physical. I'm not even saying he is or isn't genuine, for all I know, he's for real, but it's doubtful that he's not taking advantage of or manipulating you, and if he IS on the level, that's still totally wrong and he has mental problems if he is even entertaining the idea of being with you at this age. I'm sure it's flattering on your end, but it's just not ok. I'm sorry, that probably isn't want you want to hear, but it's the truth. I'd recommend staying away from this guy if I were you. Find a guy in your age group!

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- Katymorgan
  
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  Okay then fine😪
- WhiteSteve
  
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  I'm sorry😕 There will be others, your life is just getting started!😁
- Katymorgan
  
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  What did you do your just teling the truth Thanks☺
cmale123 | 157 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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Please don't be closed mind like everyone here. Like think about it carefully, if you are 23, he 38 and you end marry him raise a family. Then you are one of the luckiest girl alive. Finding a good guy, it really hard

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- Katymorgan
  
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  Hey Thanks☺👍👣
- cmale123
  
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  You welcome. I would have say to make your own judgement. You should care what other say here. I don't know you much or him, but make your own judgement. Get to really know the guy, what is he about. Tell your parents and friends about it. If he really good guy he got nothing to hide. He 30 year if got hide around about dating a girl, then no man to mess with. You should be proud of you dating, who doesn't like to show off.
- Katymorgan
  
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  aaw thank you
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  also i selectedyou as most helpful opinion enjoy👍💟👣

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Anonymous

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My fiance is 14 years older than me. I've always dated older. However, there are a few things you need to know: Older guys tend to get bored of waiting. If he mentions doing something (even a date) that would be your secret tell your parents, a teacher, or an adult you trust. In my experience, the secrets always end bad. I dated an older guy (10 years older) when I was 16. It was awesome until the first time I said something he didn't like. He flipped out so bad, and at his request I hadn't told anyone where I was going or who I was with. It's been almost 10 years since and I still can't stand having a guy near me if I can't see him. He taught me if you have to hide someone from your family and/ or friends then they aren't someone you should be around.

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  Okay understand😪😪👥
archiz
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no no no no NO

ok look:
you re 15. you think you know what you want at that age but trust me you don t. you re inexperienced, immature and vulnerable.
You seem naive and very credible to gauge what this guy is telling you.
The fact that he is hitting on you speaks loud about his instability, I mean he is def not mature.
You are at different stages in your life and I have a bad felling this guy is going to manipulate you and abuse.
you are at a stage of your life where you need to do your homework and think of college not this.

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- Katymorgan
  
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  thanks lady your opening my eyes to his bull shit🍒🍇👥
- archiz
  
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  aww you re wlc ^^
  just take care and talk to your family about this. I prefer.
- Katymorgan
  
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  thanks i need too
Anonymous

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If he continues to wait until you're legal and not pressure you, then I don't see anything seriously wrong with it. But it would be difficult, that's a big age gap. You might not have that much in common, or he might not treat you as his equal. But if you've got plenty to talk about and he respects your rights and opinions, it could work out..

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  thank you so much
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kittykatg | 363 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Yoda

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Possible yes, probable no.

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- Katymorgan
  
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  thank you your first person that doesn't judge💟🚻
- kittykatg
  
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  Hey as long as no laws are being broken and no one is forcing themselves on the other then I'm ok with it. In all honesty, I doubt that it's more than list on either end and believe that once you're of age he'll be bored because there is no longer the illegal/wrong/taboo aspect to the relationship
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  Lust not list
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- Katymorgan
  
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  hey thanks your the only one that relives me of my problems👣👣👣
- kittykatg
  
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  I'm glad that you're feeling relieved
- Katymorgan
  
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  aaw your very sweet and kind
- Katymorgan
  
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  hey i secleted you as most helpful opinion enjoy🍇🍒🍬🎂

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Anonymous

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Possible yes, probable no.

I should probably say first that it's possible he simply finds you a young, charming, pretty and thoughtful young woman he's connected with, many of us are going to be wondering if he is -only- interested in mid-teen women, as opposed to it simply being a chance occurance. Not only is that worrisome, but he may lose interest when you grow up.

But I actually think things are as likely or more likely to happen in the OTHER direction. He won't change all that much over the next 3 years. You, however, will change -tremendously-.

Right now, you may feel like you are surrounded by idiotic teenage boys who are immature and don't understand you, or if they do understand, it's because they're confused teens as well and lack the maturity and experience this guy has.

But you're going to grow up, become more independent on your own, and start meeting tons of guys closer to your age who have more of the traits you desire. So maybe in 5 years you're still in love with this guy... but probably not.

If possible, i'd maybe downgrade him in your mind (and you in his) to 'friend that you flirt with' and both move on and find other people.

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JudgmentDay | 1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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From my own experience on what I had observed usually the larger the age gaps between the relationships such as in 10 years or more then the less likely they would work out and last.

But then again, there are no guarantees on whether it would or would not work. It could turn out either way.

Do you even know this guy personally? Can you really be certain that you can even trust him though? Sounds like you only met him from the Internet or something. I think you need to take all precautionary measures and be on guard until you are certain you can trust him before ever meeting up with him in person.

I suggest you investigate further about that person's identity and background such as get a real accurate background check on him first.

Because sometimes when a person is a little too nice and too easy that's already a red flag and they can be very deceptive and misleading.

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- Katymorgan
  
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  hey thanks
  😊 also how could i give a background check
  I forgot he's a college professor in los Angeles tje good part is i didn't sleep with him yet thank god
- JudgmentDay
  
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  You still have to be careful.
  
  Is there anyway to verify and be certain that he actually is a College Professor?
  
  I think Private Investigators can provide the most accurate background checks. But if you know someone that works for the government or some government agency they potentially could uncover the truth about the person that you plan to meet in person, face to face. There are online background checks but I think the information is mostly public records and may not be up to date or accurate.
  
  Agencies can use things like facial recognition, maybe voice recognition to verify a person's identity and background.
  
  Have you actually seen this professor online in person such as something like a Video Chat or Video Conference session?
  
  Like meet him face to face via webcam?
  
  I would do that if you haven't and then if he actually does agree to talk to you and meet with you this way and you can see him clearly then he might be more honest and has not trying to hide who he really is.
- Katymorgan
  
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  I talked to him on web cam for month's
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- JudgmentDay
  
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  Okay, so that meant you actually saw him face to face.
  
  I would record a video of him from the webcam or take screen captures. It could help in verifying his identity and background so that he is actually whom he claim he is and what he actually claims he does. They have something called facial recognition and even vocal or audio recognition now which I am sure of that can help track and verify a person's identity.
  
  I know you may think that I have this really paranoid and being really vigilant kind of thinking or personality.
  
  But it is because I think that you can never be too certain until you look deeper and investigate it.
  
  I think it's Always better to be safe, than to be sorry later. Bad and horrible things can happen when you least expect them to.
  
  Always stay vigilant and be prepared before it happens or you may realize that it would be too late and maybe had you taken the necessary precautions and preparations first then something bad that happens could have been prevented.
- JudgmentDay
  
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  I also think it would be better to let your parents or guardians aware of this person that you plan to meet eventually.
- Katymorgan
  
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  Okay thank you also he showed me his dick on cam its so big and white
  
  i was shoked yesterday morning 😮
- Katymorgan
  
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  what should i do he sends me dick pictures and videos of him Jacking off
  and i can't stop rubbing my clit
- JudgmentDay
  
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  He really did that? Seriously?
  
  That's creepy. I think he is a pedophile. At least I'm sure many would agree with me on that.
  
  Oh well I didn't have any real positive expectations for someone like that to begin with.
- JudgmentDay
  
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  I would cut off contact with him at some point, because it seems like this guy is really just going to use you for sex or even control you at some point.
- JuicyBrain
  
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  @asker if he did send you porn, then it is illegal. He didn't wait like he said he would. Be careful with him. I say you should steer clear of him. I don't think he is well intentioned.
- Katymorgan
  
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  Okay im just so scared
- Katymorgan
  
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  @JuicyBrain yep i need to stay clear because im really scared
- JuicyBrain
  
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  If you are scared, then stop seeing him. Make sure you never reveal any information that could identify you. Just stop talking to him anyway...
- JudgmentDay
  
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  Cut off all contact with him. Change all your phone numbers, emails, screennames, etc. Never ever contact him again. I hope you weren't careless to let him know where you currently live, go to school, etc. But if you did, it's time to talk to the local law enforcement to get you some protection and file a restraining order or something to prevent him from ever getting near you.
  
  See, now maybe you realized that he never actually had any good intentions when he came into contact with you to begin with.
  
  But I hope you had understood and learned your lesson.
- Katymorgan
  
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  @JuicyBrain okay thanks i never told him were i live or my address
  he deosn't know my phone number
  he only knows the city were i live
- Katymorgan
  
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  we only chat on kik
- JudgmentDay
  
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  Just a suggestion.
  
  I suggest that you save all records and information as much as possible about this guy. Who knows he might find some other unsuspecting victim one day although even if he did not get to you. Since what you just told me about him suggests to me that he could be some really desperately horny creep, but with the records you saved about him such as a photo or video of him, you can help the authorities stop him before another tragedy occurs. It would be valuable and critical pieces of evidences that could be used against him in the court of law.
- Katymorgan
  
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  Thank you this really helped me 😊
- JudgmentDay
  
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  No problem. let me know if you get a chance to send all that information to the authorities, better someone do something about him and stop him now before things get worse. I think that guy needs help.
  
  For all I know he could be lying to you and already married and doing something like this behind his wife's back, who knows?
  
  Maybe he's had a rough divorce and this is his way of trying to cope with it. But if it's wrong then he should have never done this to you.
- Katymorgan
  
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  well i sent the information to the cyber cops i blocked and reported him to the kik so they had to look at the message board
  and he is now in deep shit
- JudgmentDay
  
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  Great job! I think he's an idiot anyway. He should have known better. If you are under 18 you can easily sucker jailbait these perverted sicko pedophiles. Maybe the website you go to for chatting should hire you to help catch any and all these perverts out there that had signed up there.
  
  If this "college professor" had any real good intentions to begin with then, they should not and would never had sexually harassed you or done anything sexually explicit or suggestive. I mean seriously? Sending you photos of his genitals was something that would cross his mind? I can understand if it was 2 adults that are 18 or older but in your case, you aren't even of the legal age of consent so I don't know what he had been thinking lol
  
  If he had naked pictures or videos of you then he'd be totally Fucked when the cops go looking for him and catch him.
- Katymorgan
  
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  He has one pic of my p⭐ssy and he trying to get me to sneak out the house and sex over his house when i turn a year older
- JudgmentDay
  
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  If he didn't have a full picture of you then he might be able to get away with it, I don't know. But his actions are very self-incriminating. When he gets arrested and taken to prison, he's gonna regret the day he ever came into contact with you.
- Katymorgan
  
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  no he has my whole naked body pussy tits ass everything under the sun😒
- JudgmentDay
  
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  Then he's in big trouble for possession of child pornography. If he knew you are not of legal age of consent ad he still solicited naked photos of you then he's gonna face prison time.
- Katymorgan
  
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  I told him when we first met. I was 15 and he said he doesn't give a fuck
  this year in June we were supposed to meet and have sex the plan is he wanted me to cut and get a ride to los Angeles 😒👥
- JudgmentDay
  
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  That's more than enough evidence provided to have him successfully prosecuted. Since he knew you are not of legal age and still solicitated you for nude photographs he's totally fucked and have even less chance of defending himself in court. If he was unaware then I think they might only reduce his prison sentence or something, but since he was aware from what you just said he "knew" that what he was doing is breaking the law and just did not give a fuck, as opposed to someone who committed a crime but was completely unware the whole time though usually those are for crimes such as being an accessory after the fact. Let me know if and when this guy ever gets caughr and arrested otherwise I can tell they will put his ass on America's Most Wanted until he surrenders himself lol.
- Katymorgan
  
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  He went to jail 😪
  he said when he gets out he gonna make me suck his dick
- Katymorgan
  
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  Im just so scared i think he's mad at me😳😪
capncool | 243 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Explorer

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Regardless of whether he's waiting or not, a 30 year old man should not be talking to a 15 year old girl that way. He might not be doing anything strictly illegal, but a normal and mature 30 year old man wouldn't spend his time courting underage girls.

If you do happen to still be in touch with him when you do reach the legal age of consent, use your judgment and make a decision then. But I would not recommend keeping him in the picture because there's a chance he might be a serial rapist, for all you know he might just be trying to gain your trust to strike when you least expect it

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- Katymorgan
  
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  Thats a true statement your right on the money 💰💵
JuicyBrain | 934 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Yoda

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I don't think it's going to work out for long, but not every relationship are meant to last for long. That doesn't mean there is nothing redeemable about them. Maybe this relationship will last for a while and you will find out eventually that you need something else. Maybe it won't last a week, but you will still learn something from it and possibly have a good time while it lasts.

Sure, your case is extreme, but I will give him the benefit of the doubt and not call him a pedophile or rapist. I trust that nothing will happen before you are of age and that then, you will be old enough to deal with the consequences of your mistakes and learn from them.

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- Katymorgan
  
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  thanks for the truth😪
- JuicyBrain
  
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  It's always easy to condemn people of crimes they didn't commit when they do things we generally disagree with. You are displaying a lynchmob mentality... @madhatters4
- JuicyBrain
  
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  @Intraluminal Meaning what, that we should have put Hitler in prison before he committed a crime?
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- Intraluminal
  
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  Read the opinion aout the pig.
Anonymous

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Only if your father doesn't catch his child molesting ass. If I were your father the first thing i would do would be to castrate the asshole. Then I would truck his castrated ass down to Texas where I would chop him up into little pieces and feed the pieces bit by bit to the hogs. After i chopped him down to nothing but a blind earless head and a torso, i would throw that to the pigs so they could tromp him into the pig shit. When his shitty remains were thoroughly mixed into the pig muck i would shovel it all up and take it as fertilizer to a farm that was growing crops to feed pigs so he could be turned completely into pig shit.

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- Katymorgan
  
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  My parents doesn't know about him i wanted to be with him😪 but i know i can't
- Opinion Owner
  
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  You don't want to be with this piece of walking excrement. Fuck him, and fuck his dog of a mother and pig of a father for whelping him.
- Opinion Owner
  
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  May seagulls drown him in shit!
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- Katymorgan
  
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  okay thanks for the heads up about him
  also are you from texas 😊👍
- Opinion Owner
  
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  No. That's why he'd be bouncing around in the back of my truck all those miles.
- Katymorgan
  
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  oh shit we got a gangsta git him dady💪👊✊
madhatters4 | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Master

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sure it could work out

but you should be extremely weary of a guy who is 30years old and talking to you. i'm sorry but it's simply not ok and suggests that this guy is not really a mature man. i know he tells you you're pretty but he's 15 years older than you. he should be at a completely different place in his life than you.

i mean basically he's a pedophile... that's not ok

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- Katymorgan
  
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  Omg i should have know dating man almost my dad age is bad
- madhatters4
  
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  stick to you guys closer to your age. if this guy wants to wait let him wait but you shouldn't also wait on him. basically you should live your life and kind of tell this guy to get in touch with you in 3 years... that will begin to prove if he is even worth it and will wait. if he does wait til you are legal then you can re-examine the situation again. but you shouldn't be talking to him as of now, and should be really just living the life a teenager should live... which is not being pursued by guys twice your age
  
  best of luck
- JuicyBrain
  
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  You are a pedophile if you engage in sex with an underaged partner. Not if you engage in a conversation. Once she is 18, she'll be old enough to decide for herself and she will be responsible for her own mistakes. You will say it won't work, so what? Haven't you had relationships that didn't last?
  He clearly said he would wait until she is 18. That may make you uncomfortable but that doesn't make him a pedophile.
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- madhatters4
  
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  @JuicyBrain
  1. i didn't say he was a pedophile. I said he was basically a pedophile
  2. pedophilia is not relegated to having sex with minors
  it is defined both legally and in the dictionary as "a person who is sexually attracted to children."
  
  so yeah he's basically a pedophile. there is no amount of rationalization you can do to suggest otherwise.
- JuicyBrain
  
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  " didn't say he was a pedophile. I said he was basically a pedophile"
  Oh sorry ! With a difference that big, if we were to put it in the ocean, it would certainly flood a whole continent !
  
  I guess point 2 would be hard to rebute if it was actually true, but it's not. Time to buy a new dictionary?
- madhatters4
  
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  @JuicyBrain this is the last time i respond to any of your trollish b. s. every single definition of pedophilia describes it as being sexually attracted or interested to/in a child (dictionary. com, websters, cambridge, encyclopedia britannica wikipedia, etc). even the terrible urban dictionary defines it as that ... and with that i'm done with you.
- Intraluminal
  
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  @JuicyBrain technically Hitler wasn't a mass murderer until months after he became chancellor of Germany.
Doofey
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No he's sounds like a sicko. This guy has nothing in common with you. He's twice your age! Do you really think he's interested in your feelings and personality? Is that whay attracted him to you? You've never even met him. There are older Men who prey on younger girls. The moment they are alone they strike. Do yourself a favor and cut off contact. I hope he doesn't have your address or other personal information.

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- Katymorgan
  
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  no he doesn't have mt address or phone number thank god
- Katymorgan
  
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  I live in baltimore he's in los Angeles
  we talk on kik
- jacquesvol
  
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  Grooming thus.
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- Katymorgan
  
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  @jacquesvol okay😞😪
- jacquesvol
  
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  He *says* he's in Los Angeles. You can NOT verify it. He might be in Baltimore, hanging out around your school or home, once he has your address.
- Katymorgan
  
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  @jacquesvol okay im so scared
- Doofey
  
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  I would not recommend meeting guys on the internet when you are so young. He sounds like a predator so I would informe someone like the police of his activities. You can do that anonymously with a tip and it would be worth it if he turns put to be that kind of person. You'd save a potential victim.
- Katymorgan
  
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  Okay thank you
Cookies_AndMilk
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Your crush is a pedophile and needs to be jailed. This grown man is 30 years old! Are you not able to grasp the concept that he is a creep and a loser in life? What could a 30 year old man possibly have in common with a 15 year old child? He is a predator and because you're young and naive you are extremely easy pray. Not everyone who is nice to you and calls you pretty is actually good for you or even cares about your well being. And no, this isn't "judgy" it's the truth.

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- Katymorgan
  
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  well thats a true statement
  Thanks😊
- Cookies_AndMilk
  
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  You're welcome, and please tell your parents. Good luck.
- Katymorgan
  
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  aww thank i will hun!⭐
Matchmaker7072 | 75 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Xper 5

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Let me put it this way. From age 15 to 18 I had a huge maturate jump. Same thing with 18 to 22. He is at a dramatically different point of his life. I'm sure i could date / screw a bunch of 15 and 16 year olds if I wanted to the thing is it becomes immoral at a certain point. It's much easier to take advantage of someone with much less life experience. I could even understand being 18 but there is a limit. The emotional growth between 15 and 18 is pretty dramatic believe it or not.

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- Katymorgan
  
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  hey thanks man
  This is a good heads up for me
- Matchmaker7072
  
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  Glad I could help
- Katymorgan
  
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  Aww your sweet
TripleAce | 4.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Master

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You're both freaks

he's an idiot for preying on a 15 year old (if you have to say im waiting for you to be legal, there's a problem there). But you're not any better, at this rate you dont seem very bright

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- madhatters4
  
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  she's 15. give her a break. are her actions wise? no. but again she's 15 so concessions should be made. the onus is on the "adult" to behave in an adult way. taking advantage of child is why pedophilia is illegal, because a 15 year old shouldn't be expected to be able to handle adult relationships
- Katymorgan
  
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  @madhatters4 thank you so much finally someone who understands completely👥
- TripleAce
  
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  @madhatters4 I completely understand you and you are not wrong. she's getting a break from most opinions here. But personally I am not entirely convinced she's as innocent as she sounds. 15 is young but 15 is not clueless either... she knows what she's doing to some extent.
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- Katymorgan
  
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  never said i was innocent but im asking the damn question
- TripleAce
  
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  Thats exactly what I'm saying 😎 good luck with this
- Katymorgan
  
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  Okay 😪
VirginiaBeachBum | 448 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Guru

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Don't count on him waiting. And if he does, I have to question if he's worth waiting for. While I generally don't have a problem with age gap relationships when both are of age, this just has a creepy kind of feeling to it. 'Dateline: Predator' kind of creepy. Proceed with EXTREME caution. Better yet, wait, focus on school, and find someone else.

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- Katymorgan
  
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  Aww thank you💟💟💟
Anonymous

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15 year olds are so stupid, naive and ignorant these days.
What's a 30 year old man doing grooming a girl half his age?

What, can't he date people his own age? Jeez!

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- Sara413
  
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  15 year old and we're just as naive in my day. They're children. They can't be expected to think and act like adults.
- Sara413
  
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  Oh wow autocorrect.
  
  *15 year olds were just as naive in my day...
- Katymorgan
  
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  Im not stupid i want love too just like you adults
  
  i wanr someone to love and repect me too just like you
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- Schrödinger
  
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  @Sara413 exactly. its not their fault for not knowing, its their parents' fault for not teaching them.
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  And that's fine to want love, but in a guy double your age? While you're 15?
  A minor?
  
  Find someone your own age. It's disgusting!
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  @Schrödinger @sara413 that's why I said naive and ignorant, it isn't necessarily their fault.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  @Schrödinger my parents did teach me these things but i chose to do this
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  I didn't say you're stupid. You're 15. It's honestly pretty normal for a girl your age to feel special and smitten when a much older man pays attention to you. But that's why it's important for adults to recognize what is happening and tell you. No 30 year old man has good intentions with a 15 year old girl. He is a predator and he is grooming you for an inappropriate and exploitative relationship.
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  If your parents taught you right from wrong and you choose to do wrong then that makes you stupid.
  I'm sorry but what same person thinks its OK for a 30 year old to groom a 15 year old?
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413 hey i have secret i never told my parents me and him been chatting since September of 2015😞😪
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  we still chat till for month's😒
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  That's just wrong, it'd be one thing if he was 18-21 but 30?
  
  This is what I mean, its disgusting.
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  That's how grooming works! They make the child feel special and that they can trust them. Most 15 year old girls when they see someone else being groomed will see how wrong it is, but when it's you who is being paid attention by an older man who tells you how special you are and how mature you are ready for your age and how he's willing to wait for you and all that other bullshit it's easy to fall prey to it. Instead of being judgmental let's try to help her see that what is happening is wrong.
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  You don't have to tell your parents if you don't want to, but you do need to stop talking to this man and let him know that if he continues to contact you you will talk to the police.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  🆗🆗🆗🆗🆗🆗
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413 okay thanks for giving me a heads up
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  I'm glad to hear you will be ending this.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413 trust me im going to this charade is over😒
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413 she's not ending anything, I bet she loves this guy.
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  Why are you being such a jerk dude? She just said she will be taking my advice.
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413
  Ok my bad, if she truly is going to end it then I apologise and I hope her the best.
  
  But I'm doubtful she will.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  i do love him
  but what good its is im dating someone that rapes kids
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  im so nieve for gaining his trust
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  See what I mean, he's already got to her.
  She's going to talk to him now, he's going to up his game and she's going to fall for it.
  
  She could immediately block him and stop talking to him, I hope she's clever and actually does.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  What are acting like ass towards me i want love too
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  are you saying he brain washed my mind with is trust
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  Because you're naive, you're young and you don't understand what love is.
  
  You don't need that kind of love ath this age, forget boys, study your ass of for the next few years and when you're in college then date.
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  He groomed you!
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Fine then🈵🆗
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  I'm sorry if I came off as an ass, I'm just concerned for you.
  
  You're young so you can easily get yourself into danger without realising it.
  I bet he got you thinking of marriage!
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  yes totally he talked about marriage
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Its okay its okay im sorry for calling you a ass
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Your just trying to help me hey cam you be ine of my followers
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  I've embarrassed myself so I'd rather not...
  
  But hand on your heart, are you going to end your little fiasco with him?
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Yes i need to so i dont go to a therphy and he won't go to jail
KDA20
Master

+1 y

I personally believe that age gap is a bit much - At 15/16 anything more than 2/3 years is a bit of a stretch.

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- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay thanks a lot friend i didn't realize this is extreme age gap😊
Jayded1
Explorer

+1 y

No, sorry. You are a different person now then you will be at 17 and again at 19. The fact he is perusing a 15 year old should tell you he is a scum bag. Put aside your feelings and just think about it. You are a child. You may not see yourself that way, you may think you are mature, and hell, maybe you are. But even the most mature 15 year old is still a child. Your brain is still developing.

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Thanks
- jacquesvol
  
  +1 y
  @Jayded1
  indeed: " These days, a consensus of neuroscientists agree that brain development likely persists until at least the mid-20s – possibly until the 30s."
  
  mentalhealthdaily.com/.../"
- Jayded1
  
  +1 y
  @jacquesvol Yes it does. However the biggest changes are at various ages. The last step, when we really begin to understand right and wrong comes in the mid teens.
Anonymous

+1 y

Paedophilic relationships don't tend to work. The factt that he is grown and into a girl so young suggests that mentally he isn't likely to be sound.

1|2

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay😞
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  He could very well be grooming you, he's clearly a predator.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Whats grooming
  I dont know its my first time hearing thos word😊
- Show All Show Less
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  It means he is gaining your trust, getting you comfortable with him and making you think he's harmless so he can eventually manipulate you into doing things and potentially even abduct and rape you. It's how pedophiles work.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay tgis making me so sad😪
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  You need to be more careful.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  🆗👣
SilenRose | 314 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Yoda

+1 y

He's manipulating you because of your age. Pedophiles are disgusting. Don't waste your youth on this creep.

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay thank you😪
musicislifeeee
Xper 3

+1 y

its legal as long as there's no sexual intercourse. the second sexual intercourse happens he could be arrested. be careful

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Aww thank hun😊🆗
AndyOh | 72 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Yoda

+1 y

I agree with everyone else... nice thoughts, but he should know better. And chances are slim that the relationship will really work.

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Hey Thanks☺ i needed good advice you gave it to me thanks👍
MrsAthruZ
Xper 5

+1 y

WTF is wrong with this guy? Why is he even talking to you SMH 😷
Why do think girls his own age won't date him? What a creep 😷 Date someone your own age or WAYYYYY closer to it once you turn 18, maybe 7yrs

I wish you well Hun ☺️

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Aww thank you lady💟🍇😊
CHARismatic110
Master

+1 y

No its not because you're a minor and he will go to jail. Both of you need to find people in your own age range.

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- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Thank thank you😘😘😘😊😊😊
- CHARismatic110
  
  +1 y
  Yup.
Schrödinger
Xper 1

+1 y

The only reason a man whos 30 is interested in a girl who is 15 is because he is a pedophile.

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- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay i can't belive i fell for him
  😳
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  I liked him so much
  i didn't know he was a pedophile
  
  my parents never told me what a paedophile is
- Schrödinger
  
  +1 y
  you're so innocent. Please be more careful and educate yourself. Google is your friend. Google things such as "How to know I am being groomed" "how to spot a pedophile" "whats a pedophile". Sadly thats the only advice I can give you. Stay smart.
- Show All Show Less
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  thanks my dude whoo hoo🈵
Jack_S
Xper 7

+1 y

Possible. Dont think it will.

You ll change dramatically in the next few years. He won't.

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay thank you
matheus_mb | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Guru

+1 y

Yeah, it can work, let's see if he'll keep his promises until you're legal.

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay thanks dude👣👥😊
SarahsSummer | 4.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Master

+1 y

I'm gonna put this gently because you are young.
FUCK NO!!

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay thanks💟
OrangeBoy
Guru

+1 y

:/ don't do that to yourself... just grab a boy and learn about the beautifull things about life and share those experiences with other's that feel the same curiosity...

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Hey thank you
Eternallylucky | 412 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Yoda

+1 y

you'll find another hot guy soon... This guy is shady.

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay Thanks☺
helva | 175 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Guru

+1 y

Difficult, very difficult. and not only because of the law.

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  hmm okay😊
Anonymous

+1 y

nope don't do it. i could tell you my whole life story but I won't. So please from 11 year old me to 15 year old you. Don't do it. Wait for it to be a healthy relationship with someone your age. I am not 11 anymore haha! I am 20.

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- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  Please don't ignore me! I mean what I say! Trust me I know. This is something that was so hard to admit when I was younger. I know how your feeling. But please take me inconsideration. If you ever need an ear I'll be here. hahah I rhyme! lol
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay im gonna stop chatting get self back together
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  I am sorry. I can't believe this is still happening even today 2016. Trust me you are better off with someone your own ages. Since you can learn things together. If you don't get a boyfriend don't be discourage. Smile and read a good book... life is to short to be worrying about a boy. You have to be the main character of your own life. You first before anything else. I care and I have so much experience in this you wouldn't believe it. (: Again, if you need anyone to talk to about this than please talk to me. (: (: (: I can open sad things from my life and tell you my side of the story. I could also recommed you a movie about it too. Its similar to what you are going to. It would be ashame if a young lady as yourself stay with a 30 year old. Don't lower your standards believe you are lowering your standards. okay bye! Follow me if you like.
- Show All Show Less
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Thanks i will
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  Ok (:
1995D
Xper 3

+1 y

I'm 20 and even find people who are below 18 immature and aren't interested, he is a proper gimp! If i knew one of my mates were getting with a 15 year old I'd go mental.

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay😪😪
BertMacklinFBI | 5.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Master

+1 y

yeah he sounds desperate af

all i can really say is, wait until your legal to judge if it can really work or not.

1|1

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay Thanks☺
njfolk
Xper 4

+1 y

the age difference does not matter long as you are sporting each chother i see no problem with that but you need to what intill your 18 or 21 to have sex depending on the state you live in it could be consderd rape if your under 21

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- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  well in Maryland the consent of sex is 16 years old
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Thank you sir😍
- njfolk
  
  +1 y
  in Iowa where i live the age of consent is 21 years old and 21 smoke and 21 to drink and 21 to gamble.
- Show All Show Less
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Wow i didn't know that
  only law in baltimore is 16year old can. Have sex and get piercings and tattoos here yep
Rockie4u
Xper 3

+1 y

It won't work. Run fast. He has no business even talking to you!!!

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay thanks your very wise gentleman Thanks☺
nohomobrah
Xper 4

+1 y

OHH my gawd.. What a fcking pedo. No report his ass to the police.

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay thanksdude😪
MusicMayhem
Yoda

+1 y

Omg just gonna throw it out there... date rape! What a sicko!

1|1

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- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Whats is date rape
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  I never heared of it
- jacquesvol
  
  +1 y
  You're on a date, he does more than you wanted to happen. You say No!
  He doesn't hear it.
  He says "Sorry, sorry, I couldn't stop or I'd have got painful blue balls. It's our secret now." afterwards.
  Or he just moves on, a notch more on his bed post.
- Show All Show Less
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  @jacquesvol okay then eww its sound pretty gross
- jacquesvol
  
  +1 y
  Rape IS gross.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  @jacquesvol yes totally agree
- JuicyBrain
  
  +1 y
  Are you saying he raped her?
- JuicyBrain
  
  +1 y
  Or are you just bent on calling him a rapist because he does something you don't agree with?
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  @JuicyBrain
- jacquesvol
  
  +1 y
  @JuicyBrain
  
  criminal.findlaw.com/.../statutory-rape.html
- JuicyBrain
  
  +1 y
  @jacquesvol I know what rape is. This guy is accusing a man of being a rapist when he never met the girl. Do I have to tell you about the stigma of false rape accusations? Can we please take it seriously. As far as we know, the guy raped no one. She specifically said he would wait. How is it rape if she consents and is of age?
- MusicMayhem
  
  +1 y
  @JuicyBrain no I'm just alluding to the fact that it us fucking creepy for a 30 year old to want to get a 15 year on his good side, charm her up and whatnot to the point where they go on a date and she POSSIBLY gets taken advantage of and doesn't understand whats right and whats wrong for the guy to be doing with her. It's not safe ir healthy for this stuff to happen. There are thousands of WOMEN, not girls this guy should be trying to get to know within the age of say 24-35 instead. How the fuck does he think its right to chat up a 15 year old girl.
  
  So what I'm saying asker is leave this guy be, its not good, its scary. It's great you want a boyfriend or similar, but get to know guys in your classes or other activities you do that are your age.
- JuicyBrain
  
  +1 y
  All valid concerns
- JuicyBrain
  
  +1 y
  As far as I know though, he did not ask to see her and said he would wait until she is of age. So saying date rape is pushing it a little bit...
- MusicMayhem
  
  +1 y
  @JuicyBrain I was only implying it could happen. The only reason a 30 year old guy would try get with a 15 year old (even if he waits til she's of legal age) is to use her lack of experience and common sense to his benefit.
- JuicyBrain
  
  +1 y
  That was pure speculation. It could happen even if he was her age. In fact, anybody going on a date could be suspected of potential date rape. It's called prejudice...
- MusicMayhem
  
  +1 y
  @JuicyBrain but charming up and potentially dating a 15 y/o when you're 30 is not cool. Imagine how you'd feel as the parent of the kid...
- JuicyBrain
  
  +1 y
  I understand & agree with most of what you say. My problem was with the reference to rape. You feel angered by what that guy does even if it's legal, so you try to associate him to rape as retribution and that's not OK in my book.
- MusicMayhem
  
  +1 y
  @JuicyBrain ok yes a threw that out a bit casually, I just think its really inappropriate for a 30 y/o guy to be chatting up a 15 y/o girl cause it makes one question their intentions. Just seems like he's going for someone more vulnerable than someone his own age.
BellePepper | 2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Master

+1 y

He's a fucking pedophile so I'm giving you a 0% chance of success.

1|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay no problem💟
Anonymous

+1 y

First off that's just creepy. Do your parents even know?
Second, probably not. You're in different stages of your life. He's a grown man. You're nowhere near grown yet.

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- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  My parents dont know
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  They should
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  should o really tell them we been chatting since September of 2015😪
- Show All Show Less
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  Okay, and they'll say the same thing everyone else is: he's a pedo.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  🆗bye now im going to tell them the truth when they come home😳
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  Okay, good luck
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  im gonna need it
Thatweirdone_
Xper 7

+1 y

Why are you even chatting to a dude 15 years your age
Stick to someone closer your age

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- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay thanks😞
- Thatweirdone_
  
  +1 y
  He just sounds like a preset or and no offense you're young so you don't know any better
  I bet if some 16 year old guy acted kindly the way this man does you'd be in love with him too.
  Plus tell your parents about him
  You'll see how quickly they'll cut off contact of you with him
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay thanks friend⭐
TheAngryBanana
Explorer

+1 y

yeah it will work out and im going to be the president of the human race ! : P

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  hmmm aan okay😒
Riseagainst29
Xper 7

+1 y

No, just no. He sounds desperate and creepy. He should find someone his own age to date.

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  thank you
MyUsernameRules
Yoda

+1 y

That's too old. Just look for a guy your age or closer to your age.

0|1

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay thank you😪
DBAOracle | 404 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Explorer

+1 y

I think you're too young for him. He's literally double your age. By the time you're 18, he'll be 33.

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  thats a strong point
iloveyou4ever
Xper 1

+1 y

Well i guess it could if u guys really love each other but the age gap is kinda huge

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  thanks a lot its a honor having you here nice meeting you Thanks☺
RedThread | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Master

+1 y

Any 30 year old that wants to chat up and get with a 15 year old isn't a guy you want to be with.

0|1

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay Thanks☺
- RedThread
  
  +1 y
  You're welcome.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  🍇whoo hoo😊
Anonymous

+1 y

https://i.imgur.com/SaGnra9.jpg

Just ask yourself why he doesn't date a 30 yo woman.

1|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay 'll ask him
- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  You don't really need his answer to figure out why a mature man would not date a mature woman but an underage teen, do you?
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  No sir😪
CykaBlyat
Xper 5

+1 y

he was your age when you were born
think about that

0|1

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay. i need to think i feel so dumb faced
orphan | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Guru

+1 y

that's awesome... when do you plan on introducing him to your parents?

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  aww thank you wjen im legal i will introduce him
  my dad dont like white guys but im mixed so i respect my black and white culture
- orphan
  
  +1 y
  sounds like you two will have a great future together.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Thanks friend i think its possible💟💟💟😍😊
Anonymous

+1 y

what a creepy pedophile. no of course it won't work. and should not work

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay fine😪
Lioness | 168 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Explorer

+1 y

Good gracious, what do you guys talk about?

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  like our favorite tv shows , music, our childhoods, sometimes we flirt we talk about college and jobs and good opportunities
Sara413 | 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Guru

+1 y

You're being groomed and he is a predator.

2|3

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  do mean he's a child rapist
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  Yes.
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  🆗thank you
- Show All Show Less
- TripleAce
  
  +1 y
  Exactly - couldnt have said it better 'being groomed'
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  @TripleAce Okay thanks 🈵
ArtDent | 385 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Xper 7

+1 y

There is nothing okay about this man.

0|0

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- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Thank you for telling me actually this my first time a grown man has payed me attention. To be honest its does feel awkward😪
Jared____
Yoda

+1 y

too much of a difference

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay thanks
coolbreeze2
Yoda

+1 y

no it isn't ok because you are 15

0|0

0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay😪
Ixabelle
Xper 4

+1 y

fam... allow it

0|0

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- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  my family or parents doesn't know about him😪
- Ixabelle
  
  +1 y
  that kinda makes it worse :/ you want to be able to tell, especially your parents, everything. he's 30 and most guys of that age are looking to get married, have kids and settle down. You're 15, you still have a world of opportunities ahead of you and shouldn't be worrying about things like this. what if by the time you're 18, you meet someone else who could potentially be 'the one' but you'll never know cause you're focused on him? likewise, he may meet another woman, closer to his age, who he can have intellectual conversations with about things past your years. don't put all your eggs in one basket
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay thank you 🍇🍬🍯
Alexious | 452 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Yoda

+1 y

Oh god...
This is... creepy.

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Anonymous

+1 y

He's a little old don't you think?

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- BertMacklinFBI
  
  +1 y
  omgee XD
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  Okay😞
Anonymous

+1 y

PEDOPHILE

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0|0
- Katymorgan
  
  +1 y
  okay😒😪

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