We haven't had contact in nearing four months now, but I thought of something funny all of a sudden. It used to be an inside joke between us. I was interested in her and we hung out a few times, but it seemed that her interest waned/wasn't reciprocated so I dropped it. But now I feel that this thing is too funny so I was going to text her.
As of this moment, I don't really have any expectation and I don't really care, as of right now, if she'll ever text me again after it. At the same time, I really hope that I don't fall into the trap of placing too much value in whether she'll text me ever again once I DO text her.
And, I have to admit it, I have been thinking about her everyday, and for some reason it feels that texting her will take a load from my shoulders. I just don't want to get false hope. I pretty much realize that if it hasn't happened by now, it won't. But I do want to protect myself.
So should I do it?
As of this moment, I don't really have any expectation and I don't really care, as of right now, if she'll ever text me again after it. At the same time, I really hope that I don't fall into the trap of placing too much value in whether she'll text me ever again once I DO text her.
And, I have to admit it, I have been thinking about her everyday, and for some reason it feels that texting her will take a load from my shoulders. I just don't want to get false hope. I pretty much realize that if it hasn't happened by now, it won't. But I do want to protect myself.
So should I do it?
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Okay I texted her the funny thing and she texted something funny back. Now what? How do I take it from here?
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