I want to text a girl I haven't texted in over a little of 3 months?

[Anonymous]

long story short about 4 months ago I meant this chick online, we live in the same province, and she gave her number. We talk about for a month. During the time I spent texting her I sorta fell for her. We have a lot in common. However, we stopped texting each other and it's been 3 months. I've been busy with school and I'm finished my semester. Would it weird if I texted. I was think of saying a long the lines of hey it's been a while how you been? Or something like that. Any advice would help.

Also am I over thinking this I feel like it would weird me texting her after we haven't talked for about 3 months.

Text her

Don't text her

[Anonymous]

text her man, haha that's normally how my lines start out when I haven't talked to a girl in a while, always get a reply. hey hows it goin? or how ya been? or like you said hey it's been a while, how are you? there was a girl we still have strong feelings for each other, but I didn't talk to her for 3 years cause of some stuff I did that I wasn't proud of, one day I messaged her told her how I felt, and come to find out she's felt the same way about me, only problem is I waited to long to tell her and got in trouble again, so I ended up moving away, I still talk to her though.

[Asker]

Thanks man I just felt like it would weird man.

[Opinion Owner]

it seems like it would be weird, but if you do have feelings for the girl, don't let her slip away you will regret it that you didn't take the chance, the girl I mentioned I dated almost 5 years ago, but i'm glad I said something to her, I feel much better and finding out she has strong feelings for me even better, haha everyone says I've been nicer since we started talkin again. just don't start out with how you feel kinda figure out hows she's been, and what she's been up to

[Asker]

Yeah lol that's what im trying to tell myself to get the jitters away. I would much rather know I had no chance then to be 60 y. o and wonder what could of happened. And no lol we didn't talk much for me to tell her how I feel I don't wanna freak her out I'll think I'll talk a bit slow, like you said ask her how she's been

[Opinion Owner]

haha yeah man that's right, but yeah ease your way into it, yeah haha if you freak her out by bringing that up to quick,, she'll be likely to freeze and not respond back, for a while. Good luck though dude, I've gotta figure out whats goin on with my situation too, what I've got goin is just confusing, like solving a Rubik's cube

[Asker]

I feel ya man, girl can be complicated I wish you th best of luck too man!!

[Opinion Owner]

haha that's right, thanks

[Asker]

No worries man :)

[HaplessHopeless]

You should call her instead of texting. Just say something like "Hey we haven't talked in awhile, I've been pretty busy but I was thinking about you. Would you like to go out (dinner, dancing, drinks, etc) and catch up?"

A call is much better than a text, I always feel if a guy is interested that he will call rather than text (especially if it's been awhile, then I may suspect he just wants a booty call and might not even respond.)

[Asker]

Well that would be hard tbh. For starters we have never talked on the phone, we have just texted. Also the time we texted it was only for about a month. And she gave me her number when we met online. So we have never met in person. However, we live in the same province. And I know she's not catfishing

[HaplessHopeless]

Well then text her... say you've been thinking about her and would like to meet or ask if you can call her. I'm only 26 but I still remember talking on the phone.. maybe 18 year olds don't care as much about that and wouldn't mind just a text?

[Asker]

Lol not as much me personally no I don't like talking on the phone much. However, I would much prefer to see her face to face and talk to her like then through texting. But I wanna take baby steps