I prefer a middle ground. Someone who doesn't blab about pointless things, but also someone who isn't quiet all the time. If a guy doesn't talk much, I'll probably find him boring, or think he isn't interested in me.
Not talking much also doesn't really have anything to do with introversion. Introversion is simply about how you relax. Introverted people relax by being withdrawn, maybe with a good book or movie. Extroverted people relax in the company of others and get anxious when they haven't talked to or seen someone in a while. Whereas introverted people get anxious when they've been with a lot of people for a while and they feel overwhelmed by all the interactions. Introverted people can still be very talkative.
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I like guys who are quiet. I'm a rambler and I talk a lot and I've met people who find that comforting because they're not so good at conversation. I like guys who don't talk as much as long as their still thinking.
I tend to be attracted to guys who can keep a conversation flowing- something that feels natural and un- forced though.
Sometimes silence is good but the awkward silence are the ones I cannot stand
Yes and no.
When you first meet a girl you have to do more talking than you may necessarily want in the beginning. Past that you just need to be a good listener. You don't have to be the one doing the talking. But you do have to engage her. If she finds you interesting past what you have to say, then it really doesn't matter.
But engaging conversation is a universal attractive quality.
Yes. I think they do like such guys. It makes them more mysterious and hence it increases a woman's curiosity to get to know them.
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I'm are you'll find someone. Most women do seek quiet men. But There is a chance that you won't get approached.
I think balance is needed. I like a guy who is a great listener , but who will also talk openly with me about everything and anything. I'd love times where we can both just sit cuddling... not saying anything at all. Knowing we are comfortable , not awkward, with the silence. Silence is bliss at times
I have quiet/normal/talkative times. Generally being really quiet can definitely get really old. Sometimes I'm deep in thought and everyone yells at me to talk haha.
Humans generally like people they have things in common with or find interesting. Being silent isn't interesting at all.
Nobody likes anybody that barely talks.
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