Since it's so early on in your relationship, I say to continue to trust her. Some parts do sound kind of iffy, but, as you said, a lot of it could be due to just plain drunkenness. Most of what you described does sound like she's telling you the truth.
I'm sure you tell her that you worry, but tell her again before she leaves. Even ask her (but don't be pushy) to keep you updated every now and then, just to reassure you that she's okay.
If your relationship with her is pretty strong & communication is good, then you might go as far as just being plain honest with her and tell her how you feel about her friend & her going out, etc. Tell her about all your reservations & fears that she could have drunken-blacked-out-sex. This type of honesty could serve to strengthen your relationship.
I don't think you're being paranoid at all, and you have every right to be concerned over your girlfriend's whereabouts and actions, especially when she's with a friend who is quite promiscuous and free with herself.
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I think the real worry is her judgment and maturity. I get that it's fun to get drunk, but who goes to a strange city and gets so drunk by 8 p. m. that they can't communicate by phone? A lot of bad things could happen from that, not just cheating.
Continue to trust her unless she proves otherwise. I go to music festivals with my very promiscuous friends and the thought of cheating is never even on my mind.
To be honest... no you're not paranoid at all. It's not if she's going to drunk cheat... it's a matter of when she's going to drunk cheat.
The girl you describe is not "girlfriend" material. She is hook up material, especially if she is 30-35 like you and still behaving like this.
If she truly "loved" you, why would she be unreachable by phone until 3:30 AM? Imagine if a girl loved you... would you ignore all her phone calls until 3:30 AM?
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