1. Mutual (I tried to get her back 2 weeks later. Didn't happen. Seriously started talking again a year later)
2. Dumped her (she contacted 1 month later. Letting her back into my life was a mistake. Cut her out entirely. She came back around 6 years later after a marriage and divorce. Go figure lol)
3. Mutual ( year later, so she could apologize how she acted during and after the break up)
4. Mutual (few times. She contacted me a week later. Then I contacted her 3 months later, then again 2 months after that. I let go and she contacted me 6 months later. Haven't spoken since.)
Together for 4 years, he dumped me 2 years ago because he wanted to fool around. He insisted on staying friends. I was dumb so I said yeah sure. He would contact me few times a week and that lasted for like 6 months, until a year ago he got drunk, came to my place and we had sex. After that he stopped contacting me. He said it was a mistake and that he barely remembers what happened because he was too drunk. I was done with him after that. So, it's been a year now.
My last ex decided to remain "friends" after the breakup so, we actually continued to hang out until I moved away. After that, we still talked pretty regularly; every few days, then maybe once a week, and then every other week until we both became pretty busy, then once a month. Then it was about 3 months before we chatted again just to catch up. So far, it's been a few weeks since our last chat.
Well, I found out he cheated on me and we just stopped talking from there. He reached out to me about a month later and told me he still wanted to be friends with me because I'm nice and he likes talking to me and all that bs. I've never initiated conversations with him and he was always the one who did. But I just kept things short and casual every time he talked to me.
My first pretty serious breakup was about two years ago. There wasn't really a breakup, he texted me that he was in love with somebody else and I was "too clingy". Then he just disappeared. The next time I talked to him was a few months after that
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For like 2 of mine it was a week and they started pestering me w the old i miss u shit lol
Others its been a few months or never. There's some id like to catch up with from 2 and 3 years ago and see where they are since I don't hate them, but they just basically disappeared entirely
I always just to stay friends with ex's even when it's hard and I still have feelings if I know it's not going to work (even if I really want it to) that's usually enough for me to keep them in my life but not let anything happen again... for me, once I love someone I love them for ever just the kind of love changes. I always care and want them to be happy just except that I'm not it and nor are they for me. Takes time and trial and error but it's worth it.
My ex didn't talk to me for a whole month but on social media was like hmu I am bored/no one to talk to everyday. And then I decided to move on and literally a day later he was like hey and I told him that I moved on. And he was like why and blowing my phone up everyday. But before that he would talk to me maybe twice a month. So communication is the reason why.
My ex broke up with me. We didn't really have a stage of no talking because he lived with my best friend so we did still talk but once she moved out I'd say we didn't talk again for 6 months. College ultimately caused the break up.
About a year with my last boyfriend, he contacts me every 6 months or so to see if I've left my husband. I broke up with him as our goals and lifestyle choices didn't really compliment each other
I broke up with him, I heard from him about 10-12 months later.
Didn't actually start talking to him and get on good terms with him until 2 years later, now we're good friends.
Never talked.
Had apology 4 years later. m
Together for 10 years.
He cheated on me, I was willing to let it go as his mum had just died, he didn't want it.
My 1st ex contacted me 2 days later, then a couple weeks, then months. It has been a year since I have heard anything from him. Recently though a guy I was dating (I don't consider him an ex) for a short while, rejected me and vanished. He messaged me 3 months later, regretting what he did, wanting to see me etc. I said no lol.
3 months later he tried to Friend me on Facebook
His new girlfriend said she my boyfriend
His new girlfriend
About 2 years later.
I broke up with him.
He stopped feeling the same but wouldn't accept it.
About 2 weeks, I broke up with him because I found out he cheated on me, but I was very close with him. He was like a best friend to me, so it was hard to not talk to him again. Yet it was very difficult to speak to him because of the fact that he went behind my back and slept with another girl. Eventually we both acted like it never happened and remained good friends. With other people and situations, the conclusion would vary.
Don't do it! Once you break up RUN!
never heard from him again
2 or 3 months
4 blocks
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