Is it ok to hit your girlfriend if she cheated on you?

Question

I notice that whenever the guy cheats on a girl and the girl gets mad and slaps him people feel he deserved it.

So if a girl cheats on you can you slap her?

is it ok to hit your partner regardless of gender if they cheat on you?

Updates:

+1 y

My question has a point and it's supposed to be provocative. My point is that people praise when a girl slaps her boyfriend because he cheated, and even feel he deserved it.

My question is meant to see how people react when it's the other way around that's it.

Answer 1

Tdieseler | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

First off, its not ok to hit anyone, male or female.
And when the woman slaps the man, its out of those emotions of their that make them crazy. As men we are less emotionally inclined. We are made more rational thats why we remain calm and just walk away.
But if its that bad, i see no harm in a simple slap as well, i mean, hell, they do it. why can't we lol

Asker

+1 y
Your answer turn a turn in the end haha
Tdieseler

+1 y
lol, yup, I only said what is morally right which is not to hit anyone. Then i said what i MAY do if it happened to me personally.. which it has never happened

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Asker

Your answer turn a turn in the end haha

Answer 3

Tdieseler

lol, yup, I only said what is morally right which is not to hit anyone. Then i said what i MAY do if it happened to me personally.. which it has never happened

Answer 4

genericname85 | 6.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

no it´s never ok to hit somebody. i don´t freaking know why society apparently thinks it´s ok for a woman to do it. we are free people. if somebody cheats on you, you are free to leave them.

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TheLuckyPizzaDog | 382 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

No. Use your words man, come on now. If you hit her for that, dont even act surprised if she comes at your nuts with a stiletto.

When you hear stories about girls slapping guys when they get caught cheating, do you just not pay attention to the background peanut gallery actually condemning the girl for raising a hand to the guy?

Answer 6

Anonymous

I know I am going to be judged negatively for this post, but I consider it alright if the guy slaps the girl who cheated on him. If a guy cheated on me, I'd probably fucking lose it, so I imagine it's the same thing for some guys too.

Answer 7

RJGraveyTrain

Influencer

general rule of thumb: don't do illegal shit to resolve your issues, even if it is eye-for-an-eye justified.

Answer 8

SoFeckinAddicted

Xper 7

Anybody else find these questions epically stupid? And clinically illogical?

Asker

+1 y
My question has a point and it's supposed to be provocative. My point is that people praise when a girl slaps her boyfriend because he cheated, and even feel he deserved it.

My question is meant to see how people react when it's the other way around that's it.

Explain why it's "stupid and clinically illogical"?
SoFeckinAddicted

+1 y
Too tired to explain. Use your brain
Asker

+1 y
Lol if you're going to criticise then at least explain why instead of using the "tired to explain" as a reason to not answer, you weren't tired enough to answer in the first place, it's typing but jogging, how about you use your brain and come up with some criticism to actually express.

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Asker

My question has a point and it's supposed to be provocative. My point is that people praise when a girl slaps her boyfriend because he cheated, and even feel he deserved it.

My question is meant to see how people react when it's the other way around that's it.

Explain why it's "stupid and clinically illogical"?

Answer 10

SoFeckinAddicted

Too tired to explain. Use your brain

Answer 11

Asker

Lol if you're going to criticise then at least explain why instead of using the "tired to explain" as a reason to not answer, you weren't tired enough to answer in the first place, it's typing but jogging, how about you use your brain and come up with some criticism to actually express.

Answer 12

fauchelevent | 3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

It's not okay to hit your partner, regardless of their gender. Just get up and walk out of their life, no need to resort to physical violence and become just as bad as them.

Answer 13

Izumiblu

Master

I dont hear people praising girls for hitting their guys. I wouldn't hit my guy. As long as guys mind their physical boundries, I've no need to hit them.

Asker

+1 y
I'm talking about when the man cheats on the girl and the girl slaps him when she finds out. I see many people praising that
Izumiblu

+1 y
Like i said, i dont see anyone praising that, id have no need to hit him, there's always a door to walk out of. And likewise, it ain't ok for a guy to hit a girl. But that's just me.
Asker

+1 y
Oh ok, I've seen it a lot, in real life, on the internet. Or like lets say there's a movie or tv, a scene where a man gets slap for being unfaithful, the fans of the show or movie like it, but the other way around its questionable. That's what I've seen.
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Izumiblu

+1 y
I see, I've seen it in movies and stuff, but i just dont think its right. If im at a point where i feel like i need to hit someone then i only need to leave.
Asker

+1 y
Well yeah I agree with you, I mean if a girlfriend or boyfriend provokes you to that extreme it's bet to leave and not be in the relationship anymore
Asker

+1 y
Oh I thought I recognized you, I answer a few of your question. I was the one who thought you were being serious when you said you were blind haha
Izumiblu

+1 y
lol haha, hi there!
Asker

+1 y
I also the guy from the army with the 2 friends the one who also answered your question about Sensory Deprivation tanks.

And yeah I kinda felt dumb afterward because I honestly read that question without a trollish mind, and took the question and your answer very sincerely because I know of technology and software that helps people use the internet and read and answer, so I took it sincerely at first but then realized it was a joke. Felt stupid afterwards
Izumiblu

+1 y
Lol, its easy to misunderstand things here, i had to giggle a little bit when i saw that, but it's all ok.
Asker

+1 y
Ahh ok, you should follow me back... if you want LOL
Asker

+1 y
I find some of your questions and opinions interesting by the way
Izumiblu

+1 y
ohh wait, you were the torture guy?
Asker

+1 y
What torture guy? My response to that question was - "Never tried it but I knew 2 people who did, I was in the army and I had a friend who did it and he said it he did it to see if it helps with his PTSD... "
Asker

+1 y
There's a torture guy? Like you were threatened with torture?
Izumiblu

+1 y
ok, gotcha, sorry , im getting people mixed up
Asker

+1 y
I'm like smiling in my pic with teeth showing
Asker

+1 y
Lol but yeah you should follow me too 😊, I wanted to DM you but it won't let me
Izumiblu

+1 y
i generally don't follow people until after I've known them for a while, so ill follow you, but no pics, no sex talk, no innuendo and don't take offense if i dont respond because i rarely check my inbox
Asker

+1 y
Sure I promise I'm not ganna do that, I wasn't even thinking abou tit
Asker

+1 y
I don't even think you could send pic here either way haha
Izumiblu

+1 y
sorry, i dont mean to be insulting or anything...
Asker

+1 y
No its not thank you :)

Answer 14

Asker

I'm talking about when the man cheats on the girl and the girl slaps him when she finds out. I see many people praising that

Answer 15

Izumiblu

Like i said, i dont see anyone praising that, id have no need to hit him, there's always a door to walk out of. And likewise, it ain't ok for a guy to hit a girl. But that's just me.

Answer 16

Asker

Oh ok, I've seen it a lot, in real life, on the internet. Or like lets say there's a movie or tv, a scene where a man gets slap for being unfaithful, the fans of the show or movie like it, but the other way around its questionable. That's what I've seen.

Answer 17

Izumiblu

I see, I've seen it in movies and stuff, but i just dont think its right. If im at a point where i feel like i need to hit someone then i only need to leave.

Answer 18

Asker

Well yeah I agree with you, I mean if a girlfriend or boyfriend provokes you to that extreme it's bet to leave and not be in the relationship anymore

Answer 19

Asker

Oh I thought I recognized you, I answer a few of your question. I was the one who thought you were being serious when you said you were blind haha

Answer 20

Izumiblu

lol haha, hi there!

Answer 21

Asker

I also the guy from the army with the 2 friends the one who also answered your question about Sensory Deprivation tanks.

And yeah I kinda felt dumb afterward because I honestly read that question without a trollish mind, and took the question and your answer very sincerely because I know of technology and software that helps people use the internet and read and answer, so I took it sincerely at first but then realized it was a joke. Felt stupid afterwards

Answer 22

Izumiblu

Lol, its easy to misunderstand things here, i had to giggle a little bit when i saw that, but it's all ok.

Answer 23

Asker

Ahh ok, you should follow me back... if you want LOL

Answer 24

Asker

I find some of your questions and opinions interesting by the way

Answer 25

Izumiblu

ohh wait, you were the torture guy?

Answer 26

Asker

What torture guy? My response to that question was - "Never tried it but I knew 2 people who did, I was in the army and I had a friend who did it and he said it he did it to see if it helps with his PTSD... "

Answer 27

Asker

There's a torture guy? Like you were threatened with torture?

Answer 28

Izumiblu

ok, gotcha, sorry , im getting people mixed up

Answer 29

Asker

I'm like smiling in my pic with teeth showing

Answer 30

Asker

Lol but yeah you should follow me too 😊, I wanted to DM you but it won't let me

Answer 31

Izumiblu

i generally don't follow people until after I've known them for a while, so ill follow you, but no pics, no sex talk, no innuendo and don't take offense if i dont respond because i rarely check my inbox

Answer 32

Asker

Sure I promise I'm not ganna do that, I wasn't even thinking abou tit

Answer 33

Asker

I don't even think you could send pic here either way haha

Answer 34

Izumiblu

sorry, i dont mean to be insulting or anything...

Answer 35

Asker

No its not thank you :)

Answer 36

meatballs21

Master

Yeah, because we've totally never had this question before heavyhandedly trying to show the double standards.

If your girl hits you, you can call the cops on her just as quickly.

Answer 37

Shangri-La

Xper 5

Legally it's not. You can't be arrested if you cheat, but you can if you hit someone

Answer 38

GeekyPanda

Xper 4

Personally i think any physical abuse towards anyone regardless of gender is wrong. If you're upset about something your partner has done communicate it to them or simply walk away but don't result to violence it doesn't help anything.

Answer 39

noisette91

Xper 6

If a guy ever cheats on me, I would never hit him! I would just break up with him and move on, not th end of the world... Violence is ugly, no matter the context.

Asker

+1 y
Thanks for the answer

Answer 40

Asker

Thanks for the answer

Answer 41

NeutralMale

Xper 5

Lol, i guess if it's really necessary but most of the time it isn't necessary, the girls who do it are just fucking idiots. I get that cheating on your partner is scummy but violence isn't the answer.

Answer 42

ScottSummers | 408 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

No its not ok to hit your partner if they cheat on you regardless of their gender.
A lot of people might disagree with me though.

Asker

+1 y
I don't think it's ok to hit anybody, but I notice double standards regarding gender
ScottSummers

+1 y
Agree with you , and yes there are some double standards but i think most people still dont praise women for hitting their partner. i was reading something on some relationship advice forums and the woman who asked the question hit her fiance in the face so much till his lip start to bleed cos he cheated. ofc he left her after that and she could not und how she is the villain.
The responses were mixed , some were say she was just justifiable for hitting him while some other were saying she was the abuser and in the wrong there.
Asker

+1 y
I will admit I have blind spots I have to work on. If my sister was dating a man and the man cheated on my sister and broke her heart and she got mad and slapped him I would be like "Yeah, that's what he deserves, fuck him" but if she was the cheater and he slapped her I would be like "Nigga, did you just slap my sister? Fuck you up bro, Fight me"
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ScottSummers

+1 y
Well lol yeah , iam soon 22 and i have younger sister who is 19 and i would prolly react the same as you said you would , can't help it.

Answer 43

Asker

I don't think it's ok to hit anybody, but I notice double standards regarding gender

Answer 44

ScottSummers

Agree with you , and yes there are some double standards but i think most people still dont praise women for hitting their partner. i was reading something on some relationship advice forums and the woman who asked the question hit her fiance in the face so much till his lip start to bleed cos he cheated. ofc he left her after that and she could not und how she is the villain.
The responses were mixed , some were say she was just justifiable for hitting him while some other were saying she was the abuser and in the wrong there.

Answer 45

Asker

I will admit I have blind spots I have to work on. If my sister was dating a man and the man cheated on my sister and broke her heart and she got mad and slapped him I would be like "Yeah, that's what he deserves, fuck him" but if she was the cheater and he slapped her I would be like "Nigga, did you just slap my sister? Fuck you up bro, Fight me"

Answer 46

ScottSummers

Well lol yeah , iam soon 22 and i have younger sister who is 19 and i would prolly react the same as you said you would , can't help it.

Answer 47

dudeman

Guru

its not ok to hit her but it is understandable. you should just break up with her.

Answer 48

RedThread | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Why don't people just keep their hands off of each other?

Answer 49

ASEXY

Guru

No it's not okay to hit her even if she cheated on you.

Answer 50

Dred1614returns

Guru

Nobody should hit anyone unless it's self defense. It just shows a lack of intelligence to resort to violence.

Answer 51

Yumix | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

violence is never an option unless you defend yourself

Answer 52

iFarted | 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Absolutely not.

You'd be stooping way lower than her trashy ass...

Answer 53

Anonymous

I don't think it's ok for girls to the guys either.

Answer 54

Anonymous

Just break up.
She isn't your slave or hoe servant.

Answer 55

Maxemeister

Master

Nah dood if you're not in danger from her then hitting her really isn't worth it

Maxemeister

+1 y
I said worth it I meant right*

Answer 56

Maxemeister

I said worth it I meant right*

Answer 57

Fashionistax03

Xper 4

No. it's never ok to hit anyone

Asker

+1 y
Not even hitler?
Fashionistax03

+1 y
I mean that's different
Asker

+1 y
Can I rape hitler? For revenge?

Answer 58

Asker

Not even hitler?

Answer 59

Fashionistax03

I mean that's different

Answer 60

Asker

Can I rape hitler? For revenge?

Answer 61

VirginiaBeachBum | 448 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Fuck no, it's never OK.

Answer 62

Anonymous

No, it's not OK. If she cheated on you then you can either dump her, or have a civil discussion about it.

JoyGirl

+1 y
I agree here. 👏

Answer 63

JoyGirl

I agree here. 👏

Answer 64

Autumn-Bunny

Yoda

No one should hit anyone.

Asker

+1 y
someone should hit you though
Autumn-Bunny

+1 y
Oh and someone will... it'll be because I allowed him though.
Asker

+1 y
You should allow him to make you drink bleach.
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Autumn-Bunny

+1 y
You drink it first and then if you don't die I'll think about it.
Asker

+1 y
I'll drink it first before you drink it if you jump in front of a on going speeding bus and get hit. If you survive that, then I'll drink bleach.
Autumn-Bunny

+1 y
I know who this is... by the way I still think you're fugly and you should stop being so pussy hurt it's embarrassing. Your English is really bad.
Cosytoasty

+1 y
Who is dis 😂?
Asker

+1 y
How is my English bad? And you don't know who I am.
Autumn-Bunny

+1 y
@Cosytoasty some guy that likes me but is being rude because I didn't think he was attractive and I blocked him.
Autumn-Bunny

+1 y
The last insult was very confusing. Yeah I do.
Asker

+1 y
@Cosytoasty LOL I ain't even blocked
Asker

+1 y
Lol do you think everyone likes you? I never showed you sexual interest. haha. Based on that response I don't think you know who I am and you're probably confusing me with someone else
Autumn-Bunny

+1 y
I don't think everyone likes me but you remind me of someone who told me to drink bleach.

Answer 65

Asker

someone should hit you though

Answer 66

Autumn-Bunny

Oh and someone will... it'll be because I allowed him though.

Answer 67

Asker

You should allow him to make you drink bleach.

Answer 68

Autumn-Bunny

You drink it first and then if you don't die I'll think about it.

Answer 69

Asker

I'll drink it first before you drink it if you jump in front of a on going speeding bus and get hit. If you survive that, then I'll drink bleach.

Answer 70

Autumn-Bunny

I know who this is... by the way I still think you're fugly and you should stop being so pussy hurt it's embarrassing. Your English is really bad.

Answer 71

Cosytoasty

Who is dis 😂?

Answer 72

Asker

How is my English bad? And you don't know who I am.

Answer 73

Autumn-Bunny

@Cosytoasty some guy that likes me but is being rude because I didn't think he was attractive and I blocked him.

Answer 74

Autumn-Bunny

The last insult was very confusing. Yeah I do.

Answer 75

Asker

@Cosytoasty LOL I ain't even blocked

Answer 76

Asker

Lol do you think everyone likes you? I never showed you sexual interest. haha. Based on that response I don't think you know who I am and you're probably confusing me with someone else

Answer 77

Autumn-Bunny

I don't think everyone likes me but you remind me of someone who told me to drink bleach.

Answer 78

Bandit74 | 3.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

It's not worth it.

Answer 79

Blitzkrieger

Guru

Just wreck her car.

noisette91

+1 y
Lmao!!!

Answer 80

noisette91

Lmao!!!

Answer 81

Anonymous

It is NOT ok.

Is it ok to hit your girlfriend if she cheated on you?

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