If a man cheats on his girlfriend, is it okay if she hits him?

[ChefPapiChulo]

nothing serious, just a few scratches or a kick in the nuts.

Updates

+1 y

literally nothing terrible, just like a punch to the nose.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Going physical is another level. It's like rage quitting the logic and maybe it's better to just quit the relationship. Physical attacks are similar to ad hominem attacks... it's just meant to hurt and doesn't help anything other than the one doing the harm. It's that moment you realize who the real looser is and it's all because they just can't walk away.

[Anonymous]

If a man cheats then he should be put in his place. She should be able to make him feel as miserable as he has made her. She should punish him. Being cheated on causes such a horrible feeling, emotions you have never felt like that before. You experience such a range of emotions too. It’s hard to process it and can often result in violence.

But a woman should never use violence no, she should use her words.

[ChefPapiChulo]

that was terrifying to read.

[Opinion Owner]

How so baha

[ChefPapiChulo]

@CelineBV what about this one?

[shadowowner]

And how should a man react to a woman that cheated? Remember, everyone cheats.

[CelineBV]

No it's not ok to hit people if it's not in real self-defense.

[CelineBV]

I just saw your update and my answer remains the same. It's still not ok to hit people.

[CallmeTheKnight]

No. No matter the circumstances unless it's self defense, especially from abuse, hitting someone is not acceptable.
People have the power to get up and walk away from people that clearly are morally weak or have no commitment. Striking them is just another problem bound to happen. Imagine if he were to act in self defense... It wouldn't be pretty for her.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I kicked my ex boyfriend in the balls because I found out he cheated on me. We were in bed just finishing up having sexy time when his phone rang and I saw the caller id “Jessica (my side b*tch)” and I confronted him about it right then and there. We got into a heated argument but I knew he was lying and I was furious! Well, he was standing butt naked right in front of me, legs wide open, his large nuts just dangling invitingly, I lost control of all my emotions and did a snap kick right to his fat plums — they were really big targets and I hit them dead on! He instantly fell to the ground, curled up cradling his big aching balls and said “ohhh my nuts, you f*cking b*tch” before he started to throw up soon after.
I don’t regret or have sympathy for hitting him down there. He was a dumb arrogant muscle-head jock who is a player. I found out later he was indeed cheating on me! I honestly think he got the punishment he deserved…a good old kick in the nuts!

[qwert1234]

No. It's assault. Just leave and cry on someone's shoulder.

[qwert1234]

Still my answer on the update.

[Anonymous]

If a woman cheats on her boyfriend, is it okay if he punches her?

Nothing serious, just a few loose teeth or a split lip.

[ChefPapiChulo]

wow pal why would you say something like that?

[Opinion Owner]

To make a point about the absurdity of your question.

[Anonymous]

Sure, if it's something small like a kick in the nuts or a punch to the nose.

[jahaims]

Yeah. Cheaters are human garbage.

[boobliker]

no hitting just dump him

[HazyDaze63]

Absolutely not.

[888theGreat]

only if it is you