If a man hits a woman does he love her?

[Lizbeth22]

So this hasn't happened to me but I have a baby with my boyfriend and sometimes i mess up and don't do what he wants like stop spoiling our 8 month old by putting him down but the thing is he cries and i feel bad so then he's like ima have to use a belt on him when he understands that he isn't the boss then he said I needed the belt too but I don't know if he will do that 😞 and if it's wrong for him to do that to me?

[comekitty]

This is very wrong. He shouldn't raise his hands to you or your sweet boy. That is called abuse. A baby that small needs you, needs to form bonds with you - you can't just leave him. They need your interaction to learn, your smile for reassurance, your arms for security. You are your sons whole world right now. He can't do for himself and depends on his parents. Yes, he's going to cry, it's the only way a baby can communicate their needs and it's not ok to hit them. I'm sorry and I hope things work out for you.

[rienna888]

Omg you have to leave girl and you can sue him for that, he’ll have to pay for child support.

[Ronald_25]

If she wants him to hit her as part of masochism to get her turned on then yes, I have hit women before as they derived sexual pleasure from it. I'd rather not do it personally, I find it disrespectful and morally wrong. Some occasional spanking is fine but I felt like I'm feeding their daddy issues, especially when they say "hit me harder daddy".

[Ronald_25]

[Ronald_25]

Thanks for the MHO 😊

[hahahmm]

Unless you just kicked a guy in the nuts or otherwise started violence on him, he shouldn't be hitting you. You kinda should set boundaries now, instead of waiting till after you're in the ER with a missing lung... violence tends to escalate: starts small but next thing you know there's a spoon stuck in your eyeball.

[Michael49]

First of all there is no such thing as spoiling an 8 month old. Soothing him is human nature and is what a mother does. And your SO needs to understand that their isn’t a boss within a family unit and that the term FATHER is earned. If he doesn't do his part then all he is, is a sperm donor.

[worldscolide]

My god think about what you're asking.. Hitting someone is violence. the fact that he talks of taking a belt to you or the child strongly indicates he is abusive. No hitting is not love.. Please get away from him before you and your child become a statistic.

[Sebass620]

Run from him, I the future he can hit you and your child and the violence isn't love under any circumstances

[Ghostykill3r]

Your significant other should never hit you, you really shouldn't hit babies or really young children either.

[SomeTrashBag]

It's wrong for him to hit you, or an infant. (some would argue children in general, but sometimes they need discipline.) You need to lay down the law, tell him he'd better not threaten you again or you'll leave him.

[Anonymous]

A man should never hit a woman. If he does he doesn't love her and probably never did. If a guy is even threatening to hit a woman it's a red flag and time to dump him.

[dillbill561]

I think he was just teasing and this story either is a little jaded or just not informing enough about what actually happened.

[Yaharro]

It's depends if he like hitting you that's a hate
If he feel guilty after that's love

[dragoblack]

Absolutely not, that is physical abuse and dangerous for you and the kid

[Anonymous]

You're stupid if you stay with him

[Protein_mate]

Wtf guy sounds like a psycho ngl

[888theGreat]

He could but why does that matter? He is dangerous