Personally, I could probably get over it and have little to no issues. When it comes to me, I tolerate or I can let go of quite a lot, depending on issue.
If my brothers’ women cheated on them, I’d be the closest I’ve ever been to beating up a woman. There’s little I tolerate when it comes to my brothers and family overall.
For the majority of civilization there was laws, punishments, and executions carried out due to infidelity. These were mainly created and organized by MEN.
So, do I feel men naturally want to hurt the person that cheated on them? Yes
Evidence? The last hundreds of years of civilization, whether formal or informal.
Have men lost this urge? No I think majority just lie.
Is it right to beat up a woman for cheating on you?
I let God handle people who misbehave and if your not religious, laws can do the punishing for you, my friends father cheated on his mother and even though his father earned over 90% of the income, his jilted wife who got cheated on got over 97% of all their income and property and investments in the divorce and now the cheaters children hate him and just use him for tuition money since he was a CEO and they adore their abandoned mother. Laws are designed to favour unfairly treated people and they are not perfectly applied or used, but many times they help.
I´d say no. It´s rather a question of morals and values you have. Beating up a person wouldn´t solve the problem but instead create more problem. I get though that you need a vessel to let go of your brokeness and of the hurt feelings but hurting another person isn´t a helpful way because you don´t know the full story. Like why did she cheat on him? Could it be that your brother hurt her first so that she wanted to take revenge on him? Plus it´s not helpful because it could bring you into jail and maybe destroy your life? I don´t know up laws in the US but where in Germany an act like that could destroy your life completely because it will be written into your criminal record every employer has excess to for the rest of your life. You´ll never be able to get rid of that crime. So that´s definetely not worth it to me.
In my 20yrs of experience of being an officer, No its not ok to beat a woman if she cheats on you which is the same for a woman to not cause drama if a men cheats on her, because it can ruin and sabotage your life in many ways that you cannot even imagine especially it could lead to fatal death for her or yourself as a man, serious damage that can affect them mentally or physically in the future, going to jail especially for a long time plus it could cause you to not trust the next woman or man that comes in your life which can make you into an abuser or other major issues. Learning self control now, understanding relationships, and learning yourself on how to prepared for it are keys. Its very important to learn these things now before you get involved because the consequences is not really worth it.
If a man layed a finger on me. I’d pull my weapon out. Cheating or not..
I’m not even kidding. THE MOMENT, a man lays a finger on me. I’m withdrawing my weapon. That is a promise.(•.•)
I could have cheated on him with his best friend, brother, cousin, or 2 Black Guys. If he DARES lay a finger on me.. I’m gonna have to utilize my Gun. I ain’t even playing.
I’ll do the jail time, but he LAYS A FINGER ON ME. He’s gonna be 7 feet underground.
He really tall. And he used to grab a belt or whip and would hit me and my sister senselessly, for stupid Sh—T you wouldn’t believe. All throughout our life up until 18 when we got tf Outta there. He used to threaten my mother too and make her cry alll throughout our childhood.
My sis and I have severe anxiety and , my sister even has depression. I always carry weapons now. Wether it’s taser or spray. But I prefer my guns and my knifes. I shoot regularly and do other stuff for self defense.
I am sorry you had to go through that. Just dont go around guys that give you a bad vibe. If I may say something else, you are giving advice about what guys should do and they should take steroids on the other post yet you have never had a boyfriend. Does that seem fair to you? doesn't that mean you are not yet qualified? Large percentage of girls are actually repulsed by overly muscular greedy selfish guys. Only sluts like them. They also only like sluts. Neither of them are relationship material
Yes, ther is always an urge to strike out at those who have hurt you or those that you love, but. . . what does it accomplish? It just lowers you to their level.
It’s amazing how your attitude to violence against women changes when you hear your dad beating up your mother and that sound of pain.
personally I would and have defenestrate someone hitting a girl.
unfortunately was only 2 floors up.
Yeah okay she cheated on you, exactly where is your life at risk that you need to assault someone weaker than you.
Also she would I guess (over there) be perfectly fine shooting you.
it’s a really cowardly move and pathetic.
I guess for those that do this shit, it’s a full beating for cheating, for failing to have dinner ready it’s just a punch to the face or stomach, coffee not ready, then that’s a simple backhand across her face.
This thread is full of toxicity but no, it's never okay to lay your hands on anyone violently. Although, like your feral urges, I'd like to at times. People are disgusting and some might benefit from a thrashing, though it's doubtful. Considering both men and women cheat constantly, I think that morals in general need to be better instilled in people. "Beating" somebody for any reason is only showing them and everyone else that you're a vile person that no one wants to be around and who thinks that they have a right to put their hands on you.
Obviously not. It's not right for a woman to hit a man for cheating either. Im not really sure what you're implying "If my brothers’ women cheated on them, I’d be the closest I’ve ever been to beating up a woman" But your profile picture is of you in uniform. Im glad you took your nametapes off (unlike one of your old pictures) but I'd be mindful of what you post, especially in uniform. It's kind of cringe.
I would say that is very extreme to beat up the woman that cheated. I know it can be very dependent on how it is found out, but I have heard stories where guys snapped and attacked the other person their woman was cheating with and some managed to walk away before anything else happened. Like they would have snapped if they stayed a second longer.
No it's not, there should be punishment but you shouldn't bother laying a hand on them as it will have consequences for you. Best way to hurt cheaters is to leave them behind and live an amazing life without them.
I understand the urge, when I was cheated on I wanted to but they aren't worth it, it also repeats the cycle of bad action, bad person, makes good person take bad action etc. Never worth losing your cool over someone as worthless as that.
No it's not alright she cheated on you walk away it's over WTF she's HUMAN I would want to know why and that it it's done and over you dont have to put s hand on her you dont need to scream and yell you ask why and walk away and if you're thinking her cheating on you justifies you hitting her you're wrong one hundred percent wrong
Better thing would be to sleep with her sister or mom or something. Not likely to happen though. You’d probably end up in jail or something over it and have a record. For a slut? Also remember that if you actually started beating someone up, you’d probably lose your temper and damn near kill them. It’s not like they broke something. They betrayed you in the ultimate way. So it would be very hard to control that emotion if you actually got physical.
I hit a girl ones, she slapped me hard as fuck, so i softly skapt her back. Came as a shock to her and i understand why. But in my mind i was thinking "ok she slapt me, i don't really care that she did, but what if she slapt a violent man? What if i slap her back so she will think about it next time she wants to slap someone" no one got hurt. How ever she never slapt anyone after that.
Well you can do a lot of stuff with a cheater you can be blinded by rage and hit her or break her stuff? Nope, that doesn't really make it even... it only brings the worst and weakest of you... You can not tell her that you know about her cheating and keep using, manipulating and gaslighting her until she snaps and then dump her without even a text... I think that's more fun and makes it kinda even... oh man.. Cheaters are the worst..
Anger doesn't need to lead to physicality? Just cut the person off and if anyone asks why then tell them the truth, that's punishment enough. People don't like cheaters, your in the right, so just be the bigger man.
I have been taught by everything in my life not to hurt people unless they are attacking me. My parents, zero tolerance school, rich neighborhood and my dojo. I will never express my hurt feelings with violence, I have been thoroughly conditioned to not to.
I don't think I would even waste my breath on the cheater, what am I going to gain from it? I would walk away and cut them out of my life simple as that.
Yep. He had another girl in my flat and after taking her home, come back and kicked me to the ground, broke my rib my finger and gave me a black eye.
I never spoke out in the open on here about it but your question is inappropriate to women or men who have been on the other end. Regardless of motive.
(And yes, it's perfectly okay to evict them in the middle of the night in the winter in a sleet storm. They deserve it.) (But give them a fully charged cell phone so they can call a friend and call a cab.)
I don't think so. Even if it should be okay, it is illegal and, whether right or wrong, the government has the power to punish you. Even if the law allowed it, I don't believe it is alright because, you may have made a mistake and it is not going to keep her from cheating. Instead, she will just be more careful.
I see what I see... and everyone else can see it as well, which is something you seem to care the most, and always feel insecure about
when in most if not all of your posts, the majority of people always disagree with you... you should really consider that, and think really deeply about what that could mean
if you really took a look and reviewed your posts, I am sure you would find that the ones that usually agree with you and the things you say are the... incels, the misogynists, the MGTOWS, the troglodytes, and all those inadequate, impulsive pieces of BS that roam free here at G@G
right now, just scrolling in this post, I found ONE person to agree with your mindset... and it was some blue asshat that called for murder and sacrifice of women
and THIS is your reflection, I am not saying you are like him... but this is definitely a reflection of you, you and him are more alike... than you and what a real man should be are alike
Yes its fair however its not something you can take a chance on these days so you have to maintain financial control so you can hurt them that way. Just throw her ass out. If she's really sorry make her humiliate herself and ruin herself. Demand your name tattood on her big and bold or she can move out immediately where she goes is none ya business.
Dude, it seems like "rules of engagement" is a little beyond your reach. I'm keeping this one. If you ever come to selection I'll be sure to pass it on to the psychologists.
No reason for your negative immature response. just because a question is asked weather it bothers you or not it's not your place to be reactive like a 3rd grader.. being so insulting. Honestly don't have to be so mean over a question a
@lilbadmami7 ok you enabling idiota. He's in the military. And you think it's okay that he's STILL reasoning through justification for beating a woman for any reason? There have to be VERY CLEAR LINES over which one never steps, for any reason. Like a 3rd grader? STFU. He's been hoping to go to a special unit in the army and we have psychologists observing training and interviewing candidates and if a guy doesn't know that it's never okay to beat a woman then we don't need him. Violence is an extreme measure. It's not to be considered unless there is no other choice. It's very near to death and not to be taken lightly. HE needs to be very clear in his mind that "beating a woman" is never justified. Eliminate the threat. Respond to lethal force within the laws of land warfare. All action starts with a thought. Re-action is guided by past thought. Soldiers need to be as clear as possible in this. You are out of your depth.
Nope. The laws will still take action against you. I'll recommend kicking them out of the house, unfair division of items after break up and dont give them a single dime of yours. Much more constructive.
