My boyfriend has a small dick. what should I do?

[Anonymous]

this is a dealbreaker for me, but I don't want to be mean

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+1 y

but his personality and appearance is perf

[jp612612]

You know, I don't know if this is a troll, but if it's not, I would say that the responses below are too harsh. I have a pretty small dick myself and I admit, it's been a dealbreaker in the past. Sex is a big part of a relationship -- it's not everything, but it does matter. There was this girl Julia that I dated once. I met her online and we got along really well via IM, emails, and phone. We'd talk and laugh, it was a great start. She had just gotten out of a relationship with this military guy who supposedly beat her and she was excited to meet someone different. Anyway, we finally go out and we have a great time. The second date, we have a great time too and it ends up back at my place where we are absolutely devouring each other. She stays the night, we have sex, and let me tell you -- it was like putting my dick in a mayonnaise jar. I could hardly feel anything which means that she couldn't feel anything either.

So, the next morning she passes on going out for brunch and I take her home. I don't hear from her again for weeks. A few weeks later, she finally texts back and we talk a little over text. She had decided to go back to her ex -- the guy that beat her. Sigh. ;-)

[Sorenome]

Get a boyfriend with a bigger dick? If your genitals doesn't fit together you are probably not "meant" to be together anyway.

I would be completely okay with it if a girl said I have a too small dick for her. I'm not expecting everyone to like it, just like I don't like everything about every girl either. If he's self-esteem is invested in his dick, that's probably a good wake up call.

But if you are sure it will destroy him, maybe better to go easy on him and make something up. But just by being honest you are not being mean.

[deraz24]

Say you're not ready/focused for a relationship and you're having second thoughts or just don't see it working out anything lol, I always think things like that should be known beforehand but I don't know how besides straight up asking.

[deraz24]

That's a hard decision weigh the pros and cons

[CreativeMumble]

If his personality is not worth staying for either, then break up with him by saying something like you're just not that into him, that your feelings just aren't there.

[Asker]

his personality Is perfect that's why i'm hesitant. he's the one I've been looking for but his dick is..

[Prettygirl666]

I say break up with him, altho u love his personality and all his dick size will be the main reason why you might end up cheating on him.

[Anonymous]

If it is a deal-breaker, leave him. Never tell him the reason though.

[Anonymous]

Well there's not much he can do about his size... It's all up to you.. If you are open minded, you might want to try something like a cock sleeve to make his penis "feel" bigger, suggest sex for positions for a small penis or do A LOT of kegels to make your vagina a bit tighter. But in the end, I think you have already made your decision. Just find a good excuse and try not to hurt his feelings...

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[ChocEyes1]

Well, if it's a dealbreaker, you know what to do, right? Break up with him. There's nothing wrong about it. Being in a relationship is not charity work. You don't have to condemn yourself to misery and an unsatisfying relationship because of other people's moralism. End it as soon as you can.

[Bucks-Fizz]

My SO has a big dick. It'd be a turn off if it was small. A small dick is useless. I'd never masturbate to a small dick either.

[SensualScribe]

He deserves better than someone that is going to break up with him based on the size of his dick. You obviously do not care about him enough to work around that and he deserves someone who will accept all of him. Break up with him. Don't know how you could tell him the truth without sounding like a bitch, though.

[Asker]

you are really triggered obviously you don't know the importance of sex in a relationship and it's not all about his dick. it's about intimacy through sex

[SensualScribe]

I do know the importance, but there are other ways to get intimacy through sex when a man has a small dick if he cannot satisfy you sexually in that way. If you need a big dick to get off though there is nothing you can do about it. It is only fair to both of you to break up with him.

[Wingedz]

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[TheFlak38]

This question for all those who say that size doesn't matters.
Size doesn't matter but when the girl sees a small dick "WTF this is so small!"
Once she sees a huge one "OMFG! WHAT A MONSTER COCK! I WANT IT ALL INSIDE ME!!!"

[Asker]

are you triggered

[TheFlak38]

No Im saying the truth.

[Mofunfour20]

Damn america! if you can't get over that then you really should break up. how you break the news as to the "why?", probably won't go well at all

[Alej27]

Thats why it is better to have an idea while dating

[paulyy_07]

Shallow much? Sorry but if you're starting to think the size of his dick is more important than his personality and actual self then you should break up with him so he can find someone who actually appreciates him. Nobody's perfect.

[paulyy_07]

And hun don't just dislike everyone's opinion who believes you're being shallow and that you should break up with him because he deserves better. You asked for our opinion and we're giving it to you xoxo

[Asker]

well you act like you really know what i'm going through thinking about breaking up with him

[paulyy_07]

Um no I don't actually, I just know that I think you should break up with him :)))

[Asker]

yes you do actually lol

[paulyy_07]

Lmao ok. Learn to accept an opinion before asking for one 😘

[Asker]

gross

[paulyy_07]

Grow up 😂😂

[bedroomdweller]

Imagine if you were married, and stayed virgin until marriage...

[NYkid27]

You should probably make up another reason if you dump him because getting dumped for having a small penis could kill his confidence

[AleDeEurope]

Then break up with him for another reason. Make up something.

[Kachatterjee]

Foreplay. Also, ensure he gets enough blood flowing into his dick. That will help him grow.

[zagor]

Get him a dick extension. Yes, they have them in adult stores!

Not sure how they work as I've never needed one...

[Anonymous]

Well try it out and see how well he uses it. He might surprise you.

[GoodLuckCharlie]

Sounds kinda shallow, but alright... you should just break up with him.

[Prettygirl666]

Because of a dick?

[GoodLuckCharlie]

@Prettygirl666 I mean, that's what the poster's said, right? It's a deal breaker? A dealbreaker is a condition that must be followed for the relationship to go on. If you're gonna say that his physical characteristic is a deal breaker, then that means you can't date him.

[BeastRB]

Make something up so he can at least keep a shred of his dignity.

[AquillaaaZaz]

Don't be a ho and accept it. Not his fault

[Anonymous]

Be glad at least he doesn't have really hairy body !
That would have sucked more

[Anonymous]

Why u want to big dick?
Its not your boyfriend fault...