We are both in university and naturally I know people go to university to experience new things and meet new people but the thing is, is that she wants to sleep with a man of a different race to experiment and have the experience, we live in a majority white town so seeing different cultures participating is a new experience compared to your typical white bread town, i was totally against this but tbh she has a way of convincing people and now I feel really guilty about the whole thing telling me that I'm controlling her, I honestly was raised by my mother to respect women and to always listen and be nice to women no matter what, (I was raised by a single mother so I didn't have a father figure but male father figures aren't needed considering my mother loves me with all her heart and in my opinion raised me to be a respectful and confident guy and was able to do so without a man, so i understand where she is coming from and after I felt really guilty and i honestly actually felt like sexist, I'm a little bit scared right now because I don't want to be controlling or telling a woman what to do but at the same time I feel hurt that my girlfriend wants to sleep with another guy, can anyone please help me, I'm sorry if I came across as being controlling but I don't know what to do 😞😞😞. I asked this question in another forum but people called me slurs which made me angry but I want to get G@G opinion because I know that people here are much more understanding, thank you and i appreciate your time.
Most Helpful Girl
Please respect yourself and don't be a cuck. She's in a relationship with YOU, if she had intentions of sleeping around she should have made it known prior, so she has to right to fuck around without consequence.3
Most Helpful Guy
Look if she wants to experiment or sew her oats great... just break up with her and let her do it. I don't know any man that would allow this to happen. I pray to god this is a real question too lol1