What is the reason why you would break up with your gf/bf other than cheating?

You all know my reason


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  • Yay, from a relationship coach's perspective, there are two absolutely deal breakers--cheating and abuse. For me personally, there are two others:

    1) Compulsive lying
    2) Constant victims mentality

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  • 1. Them being aggressive.
    2. Them sharing details about our personal life.
    3. Them lying to me about anything.
    4. Them wanting to have a threesome.
    5. If they fall for someone else.
    6. If I happen to fall for someone else.
    7. Mental and sexual incompatibility.
    8. Me putting more effort than them.
    9. Constant fights about the EXACT same thing over and over again.
    10. If they would try to make me choose over my family and them.

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What Guys Said 23

  • Not sure. Maybe I'm just not experienced enough, but I've always been the one that was dumped.
    I assume it would be the reason I got over each one though, the way each of them just nonchalantly went about it and just ended it with little to no warning or attempt on their part to fix it, coupled with how soon they started obsessing over other guys and (while they say we're still friends) never initiate a conversation with me, it shows me that they must not take relationships with the same seriousness that I do.

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  • if the love just wasn't there anymore or if you both wanted different things in life like one wants kids and the other doesn't

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  • If i have to move away and she doesn't come with me.
    If i fall for another girl.

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    • Want that a seriously offensive joke about love?

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    • @Ragini don't mind him

    • @Ragini "When i was younger" ... everyone fucks around when they're young. Most guys between 18-24 have a new girlfriend every few months because you've got to sort through them all before you find one who you click with right?

      People eventually grow up and find someone to settle down with when they're older.

  • Them not putting in any effort anymore but expecting me to put in some.

    Also, I don't know your reason.

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    • Expecting sex before marriage is my reason for dumping his ass

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    • no I play hard to get in order to know if he likes prudish girls or not. If he does then he won't mind me staying abstinence.

    • Whatever floats your boat I suppose.

  • The only thing that is the kiss of death in any relationship I've had is that someone isn't willing to put in any effort. I took great pains not to identify a party, because I've been on both the sending and receiving end of things.

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  • If she started smoking... deal breaker!

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  • manipulating
    nagging
    not grateful.
    and many more (since I am not a mood for it now)

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  • 1.) Lack of communication
    2.) Always wanting to argue
    3.) Always moody and argumentative
    4.) Sarcastic in mean way
    5.) Lacks to show love and affection

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  • 1) Lack of empathy and too eager to start fighting/arguing.
    2) Violent/manipulative behavior.
    3) Addictions (smoking, drinking etc) after being in a relationship.
    4) If she fails to put effort into the relationship.

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  • If I could tell that at some point we were going to realise that by staying together we were going to end up not working out. I'm all for having a relationship, but I wouldn't want to waste their time.

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  • i feels no love and longer, to much diskussions, no harmony, too different oppinions about important stuff

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  • If she had to move to another city/town or if the love wasn't there anymore and felt it was time to move on.

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  • I was talking about this earlier. If she didn't like Ghostbusters (The 80's one) or Die Hard for that matter.

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  • Can't think of anything that could divide me and my wife.

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  • they're too crazy or dramatic

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  • Correction... I don't know your reason... what is it?

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  • If she's a psycho bitch lol

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  • mental incompatibility.

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  • If he/she doesn't ever listen

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  • None answer

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  • turns out to be one of the voices again

    evritem

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  • Sexual incompatibility

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  • lying about something major.. that's why you shouldn't lie at all, because small lies, make you think you can lie about bigger things

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What Girls Said 17

  • - If he would be violent
    - If he would tell me to stay away from my Family
    - If he would party TOO MUCH without telling me where he is going and getting home drunk

    These are the 3 deal breakers, and my Man is none of the above luckily, and he is extra careful because he knows i snap in a second

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  • Failing to put the time and investment into our relationship, lies about important things like big financial/personal decisions or being unwilling to take my feelings into account when I need him to hear me.

    I'd expect him to end our relationship if I did the above and refused to work on it too

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  • - Him not showing affection for me anymore, or not putting effort into the relationship, making me feel unwanted
    - Being lazy, not having ambition, wanting me to support him fully when he's not even trying to find a job/be productive
    - Being abusive, physically or verbally
    - Wanting to argue about every little thing, not being able to let go of things we've already resolved (and bringing them up in new arguments)
    - Being so busy that he doesn't have the time to see me at all
    - Moving far away (I don't do long distance relationships)
    - Having some sort of addiction (gambling, drugs, alcohol etc)
    - Lying constantly
    - Not get along with my friends and family

    Those are the main ones I think, off the top of my head, in no particular order.

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    • I remember you asked a question about breaking up with your boyfriend. Are you still together?

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    • Yes sure. Sorry.

    • I mostly ask pointless questions lol, but to answer your question me and my fiancĂ© are still together and I've never thought about breaking up with him. You can check my questions; I never asked about breaking up with anyone lol

  • Differing goals, distance, growing apart, different values, verbal or physical abuse, other types of addiction, lying, financial problems, break down in communication.

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  • If he became abusive , or started taking drugs. If we no longer loved each other

    Most things I'm sure we could overcome , we have great communication between us

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  • If they didn't give me enough attention
    Cold
    Unemotional, uncaring etc etc
    Anger issues
    Verbal/physically Abusive
    Lazy
    Being disrespectful to me and my loved ones
    Racist
    Free loader
    Only interested on sex or too focused on sex
    Didn't have plans for marrying and starting a family
    Pathological liar
    Manipulative
    Boring

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    • Also drugs
      And a bad past like spending money, drinking too much, partying a lot, promiscuity and sleeping with prostitutes/hookers and did lots of hookups, ons, fwbs.

  • Not the same view (politic, for the future, etc...)
    Beat me
    Too maniac
    Too independant
    Go out without telling me
    He can't take a decision alone, always ask me for everything

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  • 1. Thinks I am his mom and he acts like a man child
    2. He very rude all the time
    3. Perverted touches me without my consent all the time
    4. Won't take no for an answer

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  • You fell in love with someone else

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  • if we are too different. If he has too many qualities that i dislike, for example lying, stealing, addicted to drugs etc.

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  • Violence/anger issues
    Drug abuse
    Alcoholism
    Weight gain and no motivation to get healthy again

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  • Don't get along or trust issues or if not working out

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  • I don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend

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  • 1) I've LOST INTEREST
    2) HE BECOMES PUSHY
    3) I DONT FEEL NOTHING WHEN IM WITH HIM
    4) HIS DICK IS NO GOOD

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  • no respect
    being rude
    no communication

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  • no respect

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