What is the reason why you would break up with your gf/bf other than cheating?

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You all know my reason

lumos · Accepted Answer

- Him not showing affection for me anymore, or not putting effort into the relationship, making me feel unwanted
- Being lazy, not having ambition, wanting me to support him fully when he's not even trying to find a job/be productive
- Being abusive, physically or verbally
- Wanting to argue about every little thing, not being able to let go of things we've already resolved (and bringing them up in new arguments)
- Being so busy that he doesn't have the time to see me at all
- Moving far away (I don't do long distance relationships)
- Having some sort of addiction (gambling, drugs, alcohol etc)
- Lying constantly
- Not get along with my friends and family

Those are the main ones I think, off the top of my head, in no particular order.

Account · Accepted Answer

1. Them being aggressive.
2. Them sharing details about our personal life.
3. Them lying to me about anything.
4. Them wanting to have a threesome.
5. If they fall for someone else.
6. If I happen to fall for someone else.
7. Mental and sexual incompatibility.
8. Me putting more effort than them.
9. Constant fights about the EXACT same thing over and over again.
10. If they would try to make me choose over my family and them.

datgirl · Accepted Answer

If they didn't give me enough attention
Cold
Unemotional, uncaring etc etc
Anger issues
Verbal/physically Abusive
Lazy
Being disrespectful to me and my loved ones
Racist
Free loader
Only interested on sex or too focused on sex
Didn't have plans for marrying and starting a family
Pathological liar
Manipulative
Boring

natured · Accepted Answer

- If he would be violent
- If he would tell me to stay away from my Family
- If he would party TOO MUCH without telling me where he is going and getting home drunk

These are the 3 deal breakers, and my Man is none of the above luckily, and he is extra careful because he knows i snap in a second

Zumbido · Accepted Answer

Not sure. Maybe I'm just not experienced enough, but I've always been the one that was dumped.
I assume it would be the reason I got over each one though, the way each of them just nonchalantly went about it and just ended it with little to no warning or attempt on their part to fix it, coupled with how soon they started obsessing over other guys and (while they say we're still friends) never initiate a conversation with me, it shows me that they must not take relationships with the same seriousness that I do.

MazeOfLove · Accepted Answer

Yay, from a relationship coach's perspective, there are two absolutely deal breakers--cheating and abuse. For me personally, there are two others:  1) Compulsive lying  2) Constant victims mentality

Wonderer89 · Answer

Failing to put the time and investment into our relationship, lies about important things like big financial/personal decisions or being unwilling to take my feelings into account when I need him to hear me.

I'd expect him to end our relationship if I did the above and refused to work on it too

Streamhopper · Answer

The only thing that is the kiss of death in any relationship I've had is that someone isn't willing to put in any effort. I took great pains not to identify a party, because I've been on both the sending and receiving end of things.

MlleCake · Answer

Differing goals, distance, growing apart, different values, verbal or physical abuse, other types of addiction, lying, financial problems, break down in communication.

NatashaJ · Answer

1. Thinks I am his mom and he acts like a man child 2. He very rude all the time 3. Perverted touches me without my consent all the time  4. Won't take no for an answer

Fitness-Fanatic · Answer

If he became abusive , or started taking drugs. If we no longer loved each other  Most things I'm sure we could overcome , we have great communication between us

ThisDudeHere · Answer

Them not putting in any effort anymore but expecting me to put in some. Also, I don't know your reason.

alice55 · Answer

Not the same view (politic, for the future, etc...) Beat me Too maniac  Too independant Go out without telling me He can't take a decision alone, always ask me for everything

Finnick · Answer

If I could tell that at some point we were going to realise that by staying together we were going to end up not working out. I'm all for having a relationship, but I wouldn't want to waste their time.

victoriameliegray · Answer

if we are too different. If he has too many qualities that i dislike, for example lying, stealing, addicted to drugs etc.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

1.) Lack of communication  2.) Always wanting to argue  3.) Always moody and argumentative 4.) Sarcastic in mean way 5.) Lacks to show love and affection

Imhotep99 · Answer

1) Lack of empathy and too eager to start fighting/arguing.
2) Violent/manipulative behavior.
3) Addictions (smoking, drinking etc) after being in a relationship.
4) If she fails to put effort into the relationship.

Glen68 · Answer

if the love just wasn't there anymore or if you both wanted different things in life like one wants kids and the other doesn't

willwhitez · Answer

Can't think of anything that could divide me and my wife.

rgb008 · Answer

Violence/anger issues Drug abuse Alcoholism  Weight gain and no motivation to get healthy again

Christinerose · Answer

Don't get along or trust issues or if not working out

realperson02 · Answer

manipulating  nagging  not grateful.  and many more (since I am not a mood for it now)

art84 · Answer

If she had to move to another city/town or if the love wasn't there anymore and felt it was time to move on.

BPTDK · Answer

Correction... I don't know your reason... what is it?

taimee · Answer

1) I've LOST INTEREST 2) HE BECOMES PUSHY 3) I DONT FEEL NOTHING WHEN IM WITH HIM 4) HIS DICK IS NO GOOD

Seppel · Answer

i feels no love and longer, to much diskussions, no harmony, too different oppinions about important stuff

Silver158 · Answer

I was talking about this earlier. If she didn't like Ghostbusters (The 80's one) or Die Hard for that matter.

Anonymous · Answer

lying about something major.. that's why you shouldn't lie at all, because small lies, make you think you can lie about bigger things

Cosytoasty · Answer

If i have to move away and she doesn't come with me.  If i fall for another girl.

sideboobbob · Answer

If she started smoking... deal breaker!

catelyntje · Answer

You fell in love with someone else

Kitten967 · Answer

Abuse

JessetheTerrible · Answer

If he/she doesn't ever listen

iwanttodie69 · Answer

turns out to be one of the voices again evritem

dolemite68 · Answer

they're too crazy or dramatic

Bleepasaurus_RexEwww · Answer

I don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend

Anonymous · Answer

Sexual incompatibility

Zacarias · Answer

If she's a psycho bitch lol

Razal · Answer

mental incompatibility.

Anonymous · Answer

no respect being rude no communication

useruser · Answer

None answer

Anonymous · Answer

no respect

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