This guy compliments me at church a lot. He has also been giving me hints that he likes me. We did a duet once and he said we could gaze into each other's eyes from across the room. That surprised me. He compliments me everytime he hears me sing a solo. I gave him my number in a Christmas card but he hasn't called me. He seems nervous around me... can't look me in the eyes when he's talking to me. He is either looking at the floor or he looks away and is looking around. He always looks back at me though. He has complimented things that I have made... like a crochet scarf (gingerbread men), and crochet top (pink). He has complimented me on a pink dress (I like the pink.) and complimented me on a red dress (I like your red dress). He stares at me sometimes too when I'm not looking. He came in and sat by me in Sunday School once and he kept moving around in his seat... crossing and uncrossing his legs, touching his hair, dusting off his jacket, fixing his jacket. He also was breathing a little deeper. He asked if I was busy once but didn't make a move. I added him on fb and he immediately accepted. I told him we missed him at church, that he can chat with me in the chat if he wants to. I don't mind... and to have a good week.. one Sunday he wasn't there recently. He said thanks! he missed being there. He won't be there today either so have a good couple of weeks. I said you too! Then I said I hoped he wasn't stressing or anything and that I hadn't said anything before now becase I didn't know if he was busy or not. I didn't want to bother him. Then I said I know that he's nervous and I wanted to let him know that it's okay and he can talk to me. He didn't say anything back to that. If you compliment a girl on her clothes.. do you like her, her body, or both? Or do you just like her clothes? I don't have much experience. Help?
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Mostly it's the body being complemented in an acceptable social way but sometimes just the right dress enhances even that and is the catalyst for the first or more complements.
For me it was this C-D cup blonde green eyed gal that got the most complements from me with that fabulous yellow/white striped dress that hugged her breasts "just right" but made her look stunning all over.
The rest of church-guys mannerisms telegraph his erotic daydreams about you, afraid you'll understand these "tells" and be scared away too soon.0