Guys don't usually keep our options 'open', hell, I'd say that's more of a girls thing to do. Sure, a guy may be interested in you only for sex or something, but he's not going to bother going on dates, just so he can go on dates. We're not afraid of being single, being single is completely ok, it means we're free to go out and talk to whoever we want.
If a guy doesn't want to make things official, he's not interested in you enough for a relationship. It's as simple as that. He'll see you every now and then, but he's not going to commit to you.
If he started dating you within a week or two after ending his last relationship, then he is probably that kind of person.
If not, then I don't know how else you could tell.
There's really no way to tell for sure. But one sign you might not be the "main chick" is if he never takes you out on the weekend. If all your dates are on Wednesday, Thursday, etc but never Friday or Saturday (or never at night) then there's probably someone else.
Me and my boyfriend talked about it since he was a bit of a player before me and I wanted to make sure he was serious. So maybe talk to him about it
it will probably take a long time to figure out either or
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