How to know if a guy you’re talking to has other options?

[Anonymous]

What are the signs?

[slatyb]

We all have other options. So what? The question is whether he's willing to forego them to be with you.

[slatyb]

Do you really want to be with a guy that no other woman wants?

[Asker]

I’m the woman no man wants

[JinxTheMinx]

Is hot and cold with you, doesn’t give you enough daily attention, is always “busy” gives short answers to your questions, never texts you first, follows a LOT of women on social media, disappears for no reason (to tend to other women)

[Asker]

Mmm yes…. He took two days to respond and he said he was “very busy “ then asked if I were off (work)…

But I actually did ask him in subtle ways if he we’re talking to others… I asked him if we’re having any luck with others (not in a negative way).. but he just avoided it and said “let me know when you want to meet face to face “

[JinxTheMinx]

Taking two days to respond is a huge red flag most people now a days are glued to their devices. Sounds to me like he wants to meet in person before getting emotionally invested in you. Maybe to see if you two get along well or to make sure he’s attracted to you.

[Asker]

Yeah I agree but he ghosted me after the date so i guess he wasn’t

[laly520]

not giving u enough time/attention
mostly busy texting other girls
doesn't listen to u all time or doesn't care to know more about u

[Squatting_Slav]

If he seems confident and busy

[Asker]

Yes … possibly both

But he dumped me so ig he had options

[Squatting_Slav]

With men with options you ever got to set yourself out from the rest of his options aha

[Asker]

I did by being “unstable “… he said he would usually block or ghost

[Asker]

But after our date he did ghost 🥹

[In_Trance]

assume everyone is talking to someone else