It's not embarrassing. And you shouldn't care what they think of your virginity. Lots of them are miserable and want to take it because you're considered inferior to them. There are plenty of virgins who are your age, my age and older. You don't understand the hell that comes with people who had sex with multiple people and aren't married or have poor sex, single parents and is struggling in their marriages and relationships, besides tempted to cheat. Many men today don't value virginity as purity, but something to take and conquer in bed to boost their ego. You want a person to value you as a person and see you as you are as a virgin. Not somebody to use to say they want to take it from you.
Steadfast! Don't allow that part of you be tarnished by men who are lustful and doesn't value you because they don't value themselves.
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i feel like it should be common knowledge, that it´s not a deal breaker for most guys. i mean it might be for some fuck boy who just wants some good sex quickly. but any normal dude would feel honored if you chose him to have your first time with. it´s not a turn off. yeah the sex might not be the best he ever had but it´s still fun to be close to somebody and try your best to give each other a good time.
I don't see why woman have this in their heads... I think it's the best for her to be a virgin. It means she doesn't just sleep with anyone. I too have no xp in it... Plus, there's a less chance to extract an STD...
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girls keep asking this questions I'm gonna answer it once and for all.
virgins are BETTER.
Its always been that way and always will be.
VIRGINS ARE DOMINANT.
its like the rarest thing ever nowadaysAll the friends I talked with about this topic said they would prefer by far a virgin woman. So... I don't think so :).
In my case, well, I don't think it's relevant at all.If it was deal-anything and the guy cared at all, it'd be a deal maker over breaker almost any day under the Sun. Don't even fret about it at all/
for the nice/decent guys like me no
for the players im guessing yes
i dont want a girl with experience, i want a girl with the desire.I highly respect and value virginity in a woman.
To me it makes you much more special. It sure as hell would not be a deal breaker.
It would more likely be a deal maker.
You should not be embarrassedno, in fact it could want me to be with her even more. It is like finding a diamond up in a tree kind of rare
Yeah its a little peeturbing in the experience area but mostly i'd be exited to take a girls virginity if I were dating one who was.
Not at all.. We can both learn together.. Ain't nun wrong with a virgin woman..
It's not a deal breaker. in this day and age to me it's even more of a turn on
Not at all for me. I think a woman virgin is great.
You shouldn't worry, for there's a man out there would will welcome you as is.
no don't be embarrassed at all. Save it for someone special. it's something to feel good about rather than embarrassed. You managed to wait when others throw themselves at guys just for the ride. :P
No. It's a deal maker! Not a deal breaker. Ice always wanted the chance but I date non virgin trash.
Virgins have the reputation of being clingy. If the guy doesn't want a long term relationship he might stop it before sex.
No, and a big turn on for me coz im 22 and a virgin i know how you feel im on the same boat as you are
Lots of guys prefer virgins.
I don't think it makes any difference
I'm a virgin too, so no deal breaker.
hell no
it's no big deal
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