Should I let my boyfriend stay with his female friend for the weekend? (Page 2)

Question

My boyfriend has a female friend that he knew from college. She lives about 2 hours away. Anyway, they often catch up every couple of months and he goes down to visit her. Something which he's always done before he met me. There's been no history between them, and he helped her though a bad break up. He's always said they've just been friends. Anyway, she's recently been in touch and asked if he wanted to come down for a weekend this month. I work some weekends so it's impossible for me to get time off.  As me and my boyf are still quite new in our relationship, he's not gotten around to telling her he has a girlfriend. Before I met him, he was single for 2 years.  So I'm torn. I've told him I don't feel comfortable with him staying over at his friend's house, and everytime they meet up they get really drunk. On the other hand, I don't want to stop him from seeing his friend... he doesn't have many. Am I being unreasonable to think this way?

vekin · Answer

if you let him meet her it shows you trust him and maybe he will reward this trust in some way

Nahid1234 · Answer

If you do trust him then yes and you can talk and text with him often if you want to.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. He can use a little strange from an old acquaintance. You should feel free to pick up some random guy for a hookup as well.

Vivaldi · Answer

I have no girlfriend but she has more than one? This is not fair.

BeautifulPromisesx · Answer

If you're dumb then yes

Purrfectionice · Answer

Absolutely not girl! Wth?

Marinepilot · Answer

I'd never allow this. Leave him if he does.

emerald77 · Answer

If you don't feel comfortable then tell him so.

Intraluminal · Answer

It's fine IF he tells her he's with you.

catelyntje · Answer

I wouldn't do it if I were you

BobbyC65 · Answer

Try to get the weekend off and go with him.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah probably. Otherwise he might bang her

Ahmed_Sy15x · Answer

Come on now, you know it will lead to sex.

meganthemenace · Answer

Nope, never unless you wanna be like a stepmom.

Anonymous · Answer

Let him video tape it.

Should I let my boyfriend stay with his female friend for the weekend? (Page 2)

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