As me and my boyf are still quite new in our relationship, he's not gotten around to telling her he has a girlfriend. Before I met him, he was single for 2 years.
So I'm torn. I've told him I don't feel comfortable with him staying over at his friend's house, and everytime they meet up they get really drunk. On the other hand, I don't want to stop him from seeing his friend... he doesn't have many. Am I being unreasonable to think this way?
So here's an update and some more context. He sees this girl every 4 - 5 months or so and can go long periods without speaking - hence why she doesn't know about me. 1/3
He has now told the girl about me, and as I'm keen to meet his friends (as I said, he doesn't have many), we're now both going up to see her for a weekend I'm not working. 2/3
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