My male best friend caressed my butt in his sleep?

[Anonymous]

So I (female) was staying at my male best friend's house for like 2 days and we were alone, we've been having fun, cooking stuff etc (btw I have a boyfriend and my friend was never interested in me as in more than friends in our 4 years of friendship). So first day we go to sleep (we slept in the same bed, a big one) and when we woke up next morning Sean tells me he woke up in the middle of the night and realized he was caressing my hair. He was like wtf so he stopped, I hadn't realized a thing as I was sleeping. Next night we go to sleep and I wake up in the middle of the night because someone *Sean* was caressing my butt! A lot! I didn't move cause I was shocked but he quickly stopped, turned away, and slept more. I am thinking, could he be doing it in his sleep and then he woke up, realized it, stop, and went to bed, feeling awkward or was it something more? Never had a friend of mine caressed my whole butt and upper thighs so much, but as I woke up and it was for less than a minute I suspect he was sleeping and realized it then. What should I do? I didn't tell my bf because he'd never let me go hang out with my best friend

[horus925]

Its simple. Youve freindzoned him. He wants to be with you so he does what you want him to. Being so close to you has sturred up his desires and his subconsious doesn't give a crap if he shouldn't express himself like that. Remember it isn't him if he was asleep to what he was doing so dont blame him. He couldnt help it even if he tried.

[Asker]

Hmm I don't think I've friendzoned him since I knew him longer than my bf, well if we're talking about now yes I've friendzoned him xD but he never else showed me anything similar, but yeah I don't blame him if it was in his sleep, thanks! :)

[horus925]

Yeah im not saying that youve freindzoned him on purpose. It happens out on knowere. But yeah he has feelings for you. Just talk to him qnd be open minded and what ever you do, if it tyrns out ge does really like you, Dont Freak Out!

[Asker]

Hahaha ok I won't, I'll try as calm as I can, gonna be awkward xP

[icantwait]

Hmm, well I have sexsomnia. Will not even bother telling you all the weird things that have happened because of it. Sometimes people just do weird stuff in their sleep so maybe nothing to even bother with.

Doesn't seem like he was just trying to cop a feel since you state he's never had any attractions to you

[Asker]

Yes, he never had, I don't believe he's had I mean. However the next morning after that he started massaging me kiiinda sensually but I guess I'm just overthinking it, thanks :P :)

[parisfox]

It sounds like he was doing it out of control... whether it was doing it in his sleep or subconsciously doing it. Either way I think it's important and good that he stopped himself. I would stop sleeping in the same bed as him tho, especially since you have a bf...

[Asker]

Yes, ofc, just to clarify though, we're like siblings, my bf knows it that's why we shared a bed, it wasn't romantic in any way, like at the end of a sleep over when you just crash (sleep so hard, one over the other) not romantic type. :P

[Katy16]

Maybe he's subconsciously doing it as he's sleeping? Since he stops when he wakes up it doesn't sound intentional, but I don't think you guys should keep sharing a bed

[Asker]

Yess xD my thought haha

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I don't think your fair to your bf sleeping in same bed as your male friend gives ill feelings
sure he was caressing your hair he is trying to get some off of you he isn't no dummy
wow some of the people in this world makes me Smh

[Asker]

I'm fair to my bf alright. He knows I hang out with my best friend, even if it happens to be a guy, he knew I was sleeping at his house and I never cheated on him or anything nor I plan to, I love him the most, I was just having fun with my friend and then this happened. by the way is say the same bed but it's really big and we actually sleep on opposite edges. Just cause that room has the air conditioning.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Oh wow smh

[Asker]

What does smh even mean?

[truthbeknown]

Maybe you have a really hot ass, and he just can't help himself, maybe he hasn't had any in a while. Best friend or not, I would allow my gf/wife to sleep in a bed with another man. Just saying.

[Asker]

My bf has girls best friends and I know what it's like xD I'm not doing it again though (even though my man knows I don't feel anything for my friends and I'm crazy for him xD) but yeah, not again after that, thnx! ^^

[truthbeknown]

I can't believe some guy down voted my opinion?

[Asker]

Ahahahaha, sorry just too funny xD your opinion was good

[p0rtis26]

OH YEAH I do this alllllll the time in my sleep. Right it was in his sleep. That is a tough one. MAybe you should talk to Sean.