Leave or stay with him?

[Blaaam87]

My ex that I have gave now 3 chances with still remains on keeping his best friend who is a single woman in the picture. We got into a argument last night and he answers her phone call and talks with her. I was not around but I asked him about it. He was mad at her a couple weeks and told me he promised he would never talk with her again to save our relationship and have it go well since it has always been a issue for us. We got into a argument and she happens to call him during it and they talk he claims. I’m not comfortable with another woman calling and texting my boyfriend. He said she isn’t going any where and they are just friends. I’m not opposed of opposite sex friendships while in a relationship… let alone best friend who is female and single. Should I leave him or deal with it?

[Yaharro]

I mean look if he over doing talk's like hours and hours with his friend
You should warn him because it's not good for healthy relationship if he still not listed then it's basically mean he is More interested in his friend

[Pterodon]

It won’t ever change so you have a decision

[Blaaam87]

Why is he picking her over me I feel?
Why can’t woman friend say hey … respect her and let’s not talk or she tell him she isn’t gonna contact him because he should respect me? I don’t understand

[Pterodon]

It’s simple. He doesn’t give a fuck about your feelings

[Blaaam87]

Do you think it’s wrong what he doing here?

[Pterodon]

Of course but it won’t ever change so what are you going to do?

[Blaaam87]

Idk… just really sad right now. Have no idea what I should do. He said I’m keeping us from being happy.

[Pterodon]

You only have two choices. Stay knowing nothing will change or leave and that’s the only two choices you have

[Blaaam87]

Ok, thanks Pterodon

[Uptowngirl88]

You're 34 years old. What do you think?