As with many fetishes, not everyone is into them, and they have that right. The question you need to ask yourself is, is there anything in this fetish that could meet *his* needs. Think about what he likes and that turns him on, and see what aspect of DDlg would meet that desire.
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It's possible he's just really not the right guy for you.
If he's not at all turned on by being dominant, I think... it's never going to really work.
If he finds it a turn on but feels really awkward about it, or guilty, that could be worked through.
Why didn’t you bring it up with him sooner if it was that important for you? It’s not unreasonable to have kinks you need in a relationship, but it’s also completely fine that he doesn’t share them.
It’s just incompatibility
Either accept your boyfriend isn't into it and move on or leave him if it's more important to you than your relationship.
Maybe you can come to a compromise or at least try it out together, he might come to really like it
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Well a couple of ways this can play out.
maybe he doesn’t know how to be a dom. Or is afraid of what could happen or has happened.
if he isn’t willing to even try, that’s really a bad sign. Also, if this is a core thing for you, he needs to know that. Will you be satisfied without this? Will you resent him or worse down the road? Relationships are about compromise.
I would layout the minimum you could tolerate and then ask him to try to take small steps for you. Lay it all out and be clear. Reinforce the positive he does, coach on the negative. The male ego is very, very fragile.
explain it’s not about abuse or stigma but trust and giving yourself to him completely and allowing yourself a place to explore those driving needs.
I am a dominant but I never desired it in bedroom. My wife expressed her desires to me in a cautious slow way. Dropping hints etc. she is absolutely thrilled. We are equals in all things. I was afraid of hurting her or being a bad guy. When I figured out I was fulfilling her the light went on.Move on. When it comes to these specific sexual "orientations", you can´t make someone into something they´re not. You do him a favour by letting him go and ofc for yourself too. Guys know if they want that so if he says "no" then it´s no use.
I feel too lazy to look up what THIS fictional abbreviation (one of dozens) stands for. If he does not want it, then most likely because he does not want it. Whatever it is. I cannot see a conflict here, unless this ''TNT-what'' has something to do with HARIBO gold bears of course. Your guy may feel similar confusion. Give him a rest.
If its not his thing obviously your can't drag him into it. But nor can you deny your own desires either. Ye should, if you haven't already, have a chat about a way to compromise. Could be a few solutions... some more risque than others.
So you really want to do it but he doesn't. Maybe he's not the right one you just need a good daddy to take good care of you. I like the list of things you have
Is this a serious, long lasting relationship? If yes, you should be able to give anything up to keep things going (with limits, of course).
Sounds like you need to find a Daddy and not a boyfriend then little one
Then you’re not sexually compatible so you have a decision
Leave his Azz and get that Azz over here I'm your new DADDY now!
Say YES DADDY YOU ARE I WILL BE YOUR little TOYWhat's DDLG?
I've never heard of it before? can you explain it to me please?he's not up for it. whats the big deal? plenty of fish in the sea
Seriously consider your options why give up something u love for a guys who clearly dosnt care
If you're a little then I think you need to have a daddy to take care of you baby girl.
I hope you got what you needed.
So many other daddies out there for you princess
what does DDLG mean
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