In my personal experience, it's because a lot of men today don't want what I wanted. Always talk about how cute I am and that nonsense that I don't even care about. Back then, I wanted a life partner, a marriage partner. But they wanted sex and to get into my pants. Why should I participate in modern dating when I hate it? There are many reasons why such a person is single. Many of times got told:
1. Too Boring
2. Too Different
3. Too weird
4. They assume I'm crazy
5. They assume I think I'm better than somebody
6. They assume nobody likes me anyway
7. They think I'm crazy for being single for so long
8. They think I'm religious
9. Or that I'm not really interested. Now I'm officially not.
It's not just from secular men, it's from so-called religious guys too. Nobody bothers to talk to me. And even if I bother to talk to them, once some people try to get to know me. They run. And then even mock me, bully me, and even try to get other people to go against me. If they found out I'm not 'cool', they don't want anything to do with me. Not that I was trying to impress anybody anyway. Then they only approach me when I dress 'nice'. Or they find out I have other talents and try to be my 'friend. Any other times they pretend I don't exist. I get too many fake people. I grew tired of it. I needed a deep meaningful relationship. And all they wanted was some sick crap from porn and R and even xxx rated movies. I'm not about that. They know that, and they stay away from me. In turn, it makes me look bad. I cannot speak for other women. But I can only speak for myself. I chose celibacy for a reason. Not just because of all of that. But because I'm not also sick. I cannot handle all of that stress and then further damage my health on of an account of some guy because he can't get his act together and grow up. In this case, most men push women or scare them away. In turn, some sadly end up pushing other men away. I personally believe that if men start treating women better, it will show other women that they don't have to be domineering towards men. At the same time, those who do attract men need's to clean up their attitudes and be worthy of a real man. Other than that, those who love the most usually end up alone for a very long time or forever. Earthly pleasures can never compensate for a lonely heart or a lonely mind. Some of us rather die alone than to be used and get told what we desire, which is a man's heart, is too much. Some don't ask for much.
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I'm not "gorgeous" but I've had so many adults ask me why I don't have a boyfriend and they';l be like "you're so pretty", "so sweet", "so mature"... And the truth is, I had been struggling with my self esteem, my physical health, and setting some standards for my myself. I've just recently started entertaining male attention again and people will joke that I've wasted a couple years while I took that time healing myself. I was happy single too.
Honestly, what's my love life to anybody but me and my partners?
Again, I'm not gorgeous but for girls who are.. let them live and stop assuming that they're somehow unworthy, it's petty and ignorant.
I didn't read comments so I don't know if I tell you something you already heard.
Pretty girls are girls, they have crushes on other people. But this crushes probably are taken or not interested. But this girl don't want any other man. So they stay single and try to convince her crush to be with him.
Or maybe she don't want a boyfriend right now. Maybe she want to finish collage or have something else to do with her free time.
And of course, if girl is beautiful she want for her another pretty boy, so it's not like that she don't want to be single, just she didn't find a perfect man yet. ;p
probably the most likely reason is because confidence gives everyone the realization that they can make it alone. When you do that, your 'need' for companionship turns into a 'want.' If sexy girls could find the perfect guy for them, they'd commit in a heart beat. But they know they don't have to settle for anyone less. So they don't.
Not that everyone else has to settle for anyone less, but they feel like they 'need' to because they lack the confidence to walk away from things they don't want.
It's really all about confidence. This is why there are some hot girls who are with guys so far below them it drives every guy within a mile radius completely nuts. It's absolutely possible to be hot and not have confidence. Usually childhood trauma is responsible for that sort of thing, though. This is the sort of girl most guys leer over - hot but doesn't know it, would be the way we'd describe such a girl. We don't admit it to ourselves, but that insecurity gives us the impression that we could easily get into her pants by simply expressing how good they looked on her. And they do look good. They do..
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1. Asexual
2. Loves attention from multiple men
3. Has money and thinks men want to take it away from her
4. Lesbian
5. Doesn't want children
6. Can't have children
7. She's a nun
8. Positive for AIDS
9. Parents had a horrible divorce
10. Horrible prior dating experiences
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Because she actually has a penis and she's gone MGTOW.
1. enjoy being single
2. weary about men taking advantage of them
3. weary about men who only look at their appearance
4. they are not ready
5. Beautiful but has no character
6. No one is brave enough to approach them directly
7. Looking for the right manWaiting on a guy who can touch more than her body.
She wants a guy who can touch her soul and her heart. Not just sees her beauty in appearance but sees her inner beauty.
She wants a guy whose mind is beautiful and sees her creativity as beautiful. So they can carry on conversation. She's been hurt before so she's cautious. She's looking for a diamond in the rough. She's got her mind made up. She wants to be a wife and a mom not just a girlfriend. She doesn't want her time wasted or waste some one elsesMen are monsters sent from hell to destroy us and make us insane because they are afraid of losing her, they play games.
Also spend most of the relationship trying to make you feel like the unworthy one, or keeps trying to impress you even after they've got you which is exhausting and cringy.
Many beautiful women get ugly after they settle down anyway because men makes is ugly.
When people assume that I have a man because of my looks, I always ask them if they think I'd look this hot and young for my age if I did.She is comfortable with herself, in her own skin and simply hasn't met anyone who has blown her away. She may also have her sights set on another focus of her life and realizes being in a relationship doesn't validate her.
Or Maybe she just wants to do what she wants, when she wants & owe not a soul an explanation. Sometimes it's ok to be selfish!She's thinks she's too good for people usually I find. The old up their own arse routine. Either that they're so vain they only fancy themselves and hence others of the same sex but try and act straight. Guys do it too. I see guys walking about in tight clothes, perfectly quiffed hair and dandified to hell. They got a girl in tow, both looking miserable and not talking and I know he's as bent as a fishing hook and she puts up with it coz she's so up herself she doesn't mind as long as they both look like celebs walking down the road. I try and not laugh walking past. People at pathetic these days
Cuz she's been harassed by all the heartless womanizing assholes in life so thinks ALL men are like that. In the end the good guys that would actually appreciate her charm are thrown to the dirt and emotionally abused too. Do then she is looked at as a stuck up bitch in the end. Then people treat her like a stuck up bitch and she complains cuz she's always single... Yeah
Lol I've been told by 20 guys that I'm really pretty and I've rejected all 5 of the guys that have had a crush on me, not because I'm just fishing for compliments and I want all eyes on me or because I want girls to be jealous of me. Simply because I'm too shy to communicate with men, especially when they're really good looking and when they have a super nice personality. I hate myself but I can't control it. I'm scared that they're gonna judge me and I always find a way to hate my most unnoticeable flaws. It sucks haha. I'm actually a really fun and goofy person but I can't show it to people other than my really close friends because anxiety.
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I can think of three reasons.
1) There are some guys who think that pretty girls are stuck up, that they're full of themselves, so they don't want to put forth the effort.
2) Maybe they are getting a lot of male attention and they want a break.
3) Some guys might see them and think "wow, she's WAY too gorgeous to be single." And then they won't approach her and ask her out. This is the one I used to fall into. 1- Bad Voice
If her sound is hard to listen and you’re struggling to talk to her, simply you can’t be with her. Communication is the number 1 thing in life and remember people communicate with talking not fucking.
2- A Total Empty Person
If a woman has no sense of humour, doesn’t understand what you’re telling, not so very smart (polite way to express idiot), doesn’t know what’s going on earth etcetc. Remember no men would want to fuck an flat, empty wallJust cause someone is gorgeous and single doesn't mean something is wrong with them. They could be single cause they just want to be single or waiting to meet someone but focusing on themselves and other things. I know that seems crazy but it's true, there's a good looking guy I work with who's single cause he just wants to be right now.
Most people think it would be because of money, sexuality, freedom, people think they already have a boyfriend, but there are other reasons too. Sometimes its because they just really want a genuine guy and can't find him amongst the crowd. Sometimes its because they're actually super shy and sometimes its because its not important to them.
A "gorgeous girl" is a "girl" nevertheless. She has life of her own to decide whether to choose to be single or no. The way I see it - if she hasn't found anyone worthy, she'd be single. That's as plain & simple. After all, no one would like make random choices or experiment on oneself just because you are single, right. Cheers. 😇 💕
She wins enough money to get what she wants and doesn't need a guy to feel happy?
I mean, unless she wants a baby, then yeah, she could get a guy... or just go to a sperm bank.
Now at days, a girl doesn't really NEED a guy, but heck, sometimes is fun having a partner in crime on your adventures.Honestly i think the pretty, sophisticated girls get a lot LESS attention. I think they are put on an 'untouchable pedestal' and men just presume they have no chance. I have known some GORGEOUS girls to never get approached. I can only put it down to this :)
She might not think she's gorgeous. She might have dated guys in the past that made her feel like she was unworthy and she's tired of feeling that way. Maybe she just wants to be single and enjoy that status for a bit while longer.
One of my good friends is stunning, she got out of a very toxic relationship and right now is learning how to love herself.I don't consider myself gorgeous in the slightest but I was hurt really bad and now I never want anyone to get close to me again.
Too busy with the hustle and bustle of life
Been hurt by too many guys to care anymore
doesn't need sex
Waiting on the right man to change her mind about being single
Maybe she just wants to take a damn break ok there's nothing wrong with being single get over it she's not interestedAre u gorgeous? And single?
... girl... u knw we get the extra attention, free stuff... nice dates - - - being pampered----- blah blah blah... but at the end of the day we still crave that special someone at night... but when that happens fuck it !!! Dress up. , be sexy , Rock it !!!
We stay single because THE SINGLE LIFE CAN BE AMAZEBALLSChoose to stay or involuntarily stay single? If she chooses to, could be any number of reasons. Maybe she doesn't have the time or maybe she prefers open relationships. If she is involuntarily single, well, should be she is very picky or isn't very friendly.
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