What are signs you're someone's Plan B?

What are signs someone is only interested enough for you to be a Plan B, but you're not a priority?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • When they don't make time for you. A big thing too is if they only talk to you like at night when they're bored, that means that they had nothing better to do and wanted some entertainment. If they really like you, they'll talk to you during the day too, they'll make time for you. Starting a conversation with, "I'm bored" is a bad sign too.

    Also, if a person doesn't ask you questions about yourself, that's not a good sign either. Most the time that means that they aren't actually interested in you or they just don't really give a shit

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Most Helpful Guy

  • You can tell when she is constantly changing. If she’s all in to you one day then the next she’s basically ignoring you that’s a bad sign if it keeps happening. If she keeps mentioning a guy or if she keeps making lame excuses to keep from seeing you.

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What Girls Said 12

  • She only talks to you on certain days (e. g. the weekend) and then during the week she ignores you or tells you she’s busy (this can be true but still).

    She talks to many guys / flirts with them and usually does the same to you. This is normal behavior; females usually want to see which of these guys to pick from (sounds bad I know, but it’s true).

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  • If you are thinking that you might be her plan B... you probably are. Trust your gut with this. If you'd like to continue dating her it's best to only commit as much as she's doing herself and don't get too emotionally early on

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    • What about not dating at all?

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    • @es20490446e thats's the best idea xd But I know sometimes you're in a situation where it's hard to let the other person go away even if you know it isn't right

    • What I do is giving plenty of opportunities before that, but once they are over they are over.

      Once there it's obvious that the other person won't be changing their perspective.

  • I don't necessarily have plan b when I am already into someone. Maybe it hurts me more that way since I've invested my time only unto plan A then it backfired. When I find out I am second choice, I lose interest.

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  • The person would not put 100% into the relationship. If you are someone's one and only - then they'd do anything for you, plan future with you, never look around for another partner.

    But if you are someone's plan B, they would constantly feel hesitant to commit, never put 100%, make excuses - that they are busy and can't see you, be on lookout for another partner or even cheat/talk to someone else.

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  • If someone truly cares then they will make time not excuses.

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  • When I have a B tattooed on my forehead

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  • I'm always plan B 😔

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  • I heard someone say that for women relationship is a priority while for men is not.
    I don't think it's realistic to expect that a guy would drop everything to see you whenever you say so. People have lives and I respect that.
    If he asks you about yourself and seems like he cares, you are not an option or Plan B.
    Although, I know a girl who has been a side chick for years and he always made her feel like she was number one so you just never know

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  • he's mostly interested in you, but if he shows Little interest or barely you're plan B

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  • When it's been 3 years and we remain somewhere in between friends and lovers. And no, we're not friends with benefits.

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  • A lot of these answers guys have given you are silly, some people do have busy lives (and that's a good thing) but you'll generally get a gut feeling if you're a plan B, its best to just give as much as you get in that situation, but basically she'll only be interested in your oh when it benefits her if you're a plan B. If she's there for you even when she doesn't have to be then she's interested - but don't get to clingy and forget that people do actually have lives to manage too because that will just ruin things that could work out well down the line.

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  • You know all her attention is not for you only, she makes excuses to not see you.

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    • You just keep being you and as you know your heart is being squeezed hard... you hold back by playing the fool despite already having the knowledge of the situation and try not to let personal feelings or misjudgment deter the honest desires as well as the beautiful thoughts you truly hold for her... deal with the frustration.. the other physical, mental and spiritual storms with all ya got until that moment acceptance of having to just face of letting it ride drains the hope n joy out of ya... cuz its never easy to walk away. Sucks. Someone has to play the fool. And if your already gonna be the fool you try to do it with self dignity in the most discreetly and respected way possible.

What Guys Said 12

  • They will avoid making plans very far in advance.

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  • That little voice in your head keeps nagging at you with hints like, "you are being used"...

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  • You're plan B if you think you are. If you don't feel like the main man, drop her.

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  • When she keeps you around and likes you and wants to keep your interest and teases you but has a boyfirend she likes aswell

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  • I don't know but I'dd like to know.

    for me the plan B should be the girls I find hot but act like I am not worth their time

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  • Her ex was OBVIOUSLY, like not even a competition, more attractive than you.
    Off and on communication.
    None of her friends have heard about you despite calling, texting, chatting with her for months.
    You are 'friends,' 'bros,' 'buddies' despite having fucked her like 8 times. Takes her sweet ass time getting back to you.
    Always busy on X days, or X times, yooooou don't call her, she'll call you mk sweetie? <3

    In this day and age its best to assume you are every girls plan B until the divorce. Then you have proof.

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  • How to spot Abee, my question exactly. Sound alike but really aren't

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  • When you get messages hours later

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  • They constantly appear and disappear.

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  • When they do not pay attention to you.

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  • Not returning calls/messages. Breaking dates at last minute. Rumors from others.. Please don't put up with that treatment!

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