Are you bothered if your girlfriend has stretch marks?

[Anonymous]

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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Lust is the confusing element of relationships which many women fail to understand when it comes to men and is often mistaken for love. Men fall in lust quickly but love is earned and acquired in time.

Love is what allows us to see past the flaws, skin deep or otherwise, in our partner of choice and is the reason why your stretch marks won’t matter in the end…

Lust, and the absence of it upon discovery of something they may consider unattractive, is what allows men to stand up and walk out on the individual they previously proclaimed attraction for.

Revealing your “flaws” early in a relationship may scare away a few men but the real men, the men who will matter to you as you age in life, those are the ones who look past the skin deep elements which superficially define us and will see you for who you really are. Those are the men that matter.

If you can’t find someone who is willing to look past your flaws then you’re simply not looking hard enough because they exist in plenty.

Just remember, for as many flaws as you wish someone else to overlook about you, they likely have an equal amount or more, even if someone seems perfect on the outside.

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[camerongaskarth]

Stretch marks are simply are, if from pregnancy, that a woman has given society the gift of another life. If from anything else they are a sign that she has lived and had experiences - either good or bad. For a "male" to be bothered by them means that he is far from yet being a man and he needs to stick with girls that have not had any kind of life experience. It totally goes to reflect on his maturity and personally, if I was a woman dating this boy, I would prolly dismiss him as a boy and move on to a man more deserving. Just my opinion but it's from the heart.

[Leoon]

I dont like all of my stretch marks but I thinks most guys dont really care about it. Also guys are just like us, so some of them have stretch marks too!
But I think is funny how I find some stretch marks more "pretty" or "acceptable" than others. For example strechmarks on the ass or thighs are ok but the ones my stomach or boobs are not at all. I think it must come from the fact that nowadays curves are ok as long as they are "good" curves, meaning having fat only in the ass and boobs and still managing to have a freaking flat stomach ahahaha. (Disclaimer : I know some really really blessed woman have this body type, Im not saying it doesn't exist, just sayin I dont think most of us do)

[bang678]

Stretch marks are part of life. Both men and womem tend to get stretch marks during puberty simply because of growth spurts. Women are more prone during pubery because suddenly our bodies are taking a "womanly" form. I grew 3 to 4 bra cup sizes and just a year or two during puberty, so yeah my breasts have stretch marks. Also some people are simply more genetically predisposed to them. I don't think they're a big deal at all.

[Adrianna9203]

When I was 15 years old I was so stressed, I saw my imperfections as if they were bigger than they really were, like something that everyone would point out. Now I have 26 and I have lost all my insecurities, now I understand that how you look doesn’t define you, and that everyone have insecurities too but sometimes they chose to ignore them

[Pink2000]

I got hella stretch marks. I don’t think my boyfriend cares. I also have stomach fat and he likes to squeeze it.

[Asker]

Ohh, you have the best boyfriend

[Prof_Don]

More cushion for the pushin ;-)

[Pink2000]

@Prof_Don lol that’s right

[Bindos]

Not at all really, honestly i think its a small thing which almost no guy realises or really cares about much but the media put stupid amounts of attention on. Its stuff like stretch marks and spots that make someone unique right? These so called imperfections are what makes people different and maybe even quirky. It feels like today almost everyone tries to fit in this “perfect” box, but honestly its the small thins that make someone unique and special and without sounding odd these things rather than being negative can make a girl cute and special and irreplaceable

[Charleslvajr]

My wife's stretch marks were earned. We have a wonderful son that came with those. They're marks of her dedication to our family and I love her for them.

[hasrett]

This is so cute.

[EllieVOL28]

Awwww

[r4ngeF]

Change question to:

Are you bothered if your lady isn't a human?

And for a real answer:

I'd treat her stretched marks as if Michelangelo sculpted or engraved them.
Anything that makes her feel more beautiful than what she already thinks.

[azzntittiz]

And this is why you're my dream husband. Come put your babies in me.

[r4ngeF]

@azzntittiz
if i could only teleport myself to ur ovaries...

[azzntittiz]

Hop on a plane and let's make beautiful babies.

[UnknownReflection]

No.

There is nothing wrong nor special about stretch marks. Stretch marks are a natural occurrence caused by variable reasons such as; Pregnancy; Growth; and weight loss etc. . .

Matures and grown up people would understand this. Those who can not define the function of stretch mark and behave inappropriately are immature who live in a bubble rather than reality.

In reality; stretch marks are part of human life. A natural mechanism who occurs upon us without our choice as part of the nature of our existences. Many people can get stretch marks in different levels due different reasons. There is nothing wrong with them. We are not perfect creatures and we never meant to be. Stretch marks aren't bad nor a flaw unless we force it to be.

Good Luck.

[cinderelli]

Almost all girls have little bit of stretch marks.. not because of pregnancy or weight loss.. most have them because of puberty.. so if anyone doesn't know these facts they're just ignorant and not worth being with anyway..
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if you look closely, you'll find stretch marks on her butt too..

[Immortal_God_King]

Stretch marks, and where they're located, are about as telling as looking at a girl's mother to see if she'll blow up into a fat. Most people who have them have them from having gotten fat, but lost the weight.

And we all know what magic a wedding ring does to a woman's waistline. If she already used to be a fat, it'll just happen faster.

So, no, it wouldn't bother me, because no woman with stretch marks would be my girlfriend. Oh, I might let her THINK she's my girlfriend if I feel like fucking her, sure. But she wouldn't be, and her replacement would be lined up if I wasn't already fucking her too.

[Pyrofox]

Nope, just annoy her more likely by tracing them and make her blush by also calling her beautiful and remind her its a sign of her maturing and growing to where she is at. As well point out there is nothing to be ashamed of as its just something that everyone has to go through at some point. Almost like growing up.

[Thomas96]

My girlfriend has stretch marks I just find they add to her beauty. I love her for who she is. Not like she will ever believe me but I tell her everyday.

[BabyBirdy]

Almost everyone has stretch marks- even the tiniest people (you can think puberty for that). Almost everyone has a growth spurt at some point in which your skin can’t keep up.
Of course, everyone gets them in different places. I’ve only seen a few people with really bad stretch marks unless you have those then it’s usually unnoticeable.

I see a lot of men then in their armpit are, groin, and hips and butt. Doesn’t turn me off or on- they’re there & I don’t even pay any mind to them

[ICantthinkofa]

Good point, Just to add for men stretch marks are also found sometimes on the lower back from their growth spurt (s)

[Tobie]

Not at all, I usually learn to love every detail of their body. I usually have my own odeas of what I want my ideal girl to look lile, but once I've fallen in love with someone, it's like everything about her becomes the new perfect, because she's mine and I know there are certain things about me that she has acceptep.

[tamilans555]

It doesn't bother me at all. I love my girlfriend's stretch marks because they are unique and nobody's body is perfect. Any guy that is disgusted by them will have a real wake up call when he ages past 40 and starts getting them too.

[melanieeeB]

I never understand why strecht marks should be a problem, girl they are normal as fuck also I personally actually really honestly like them, I feel like a woman with them (obviously not only cause of them, but they are with a reason) makes me human

[maiave]

I’ve never understood the fuss about them. Naturally, I personally don’t have them even though I maybe will in a couple of years, so I’m maybe not one to talk, but why do people make such a big deal about them? Never have I ever went “oh, I’m so glad I don’t have stretch marks!” They’re not even ugly, they’re just there, I don’t even notice them. People are seriously ashamed for not having “perfect skin”.

[Political_dude]

Nope. Stress marks are natural. Due to technology, I'd rather date girl with stretch marks. Because it proves that her body is real, without implants. (implants are ugly af) and if someone sends photo with stretch marks then it means it isn't Photoshoped hence not fake

https://youtu.be/tvTRZJ-4EyI

[bente2]

Someone with implants would actually have more stretch marks.

[Political_dude]

@bente2 thanks for enlightening me. :)
Here's my source: (Humble, Kendrick Lamar)
'I'm so fuckin' sick and tired of the Photoshop
Show me somethin' natural like afro on Richard Pryor
Show me somethin' natural like ass with some stretchmarks'

I don't have enough knowledge to have an argument. If you say so, I consider your argument true

[bente2]

Oh i don’t wish to argue haha. I just came here to say that. Stretch marks are created when the skin stretches, and when implants are placed the skin must stretch.

I think what kendrick lamar meant is that stretch marks can be rid of by expensive skin care etc. Good choice of somg tho.

[Political_dude]

@bente2 thank you :) . I did Google about it and now I've one more question.
https://www.webmd.com/beauty/breast-enlargement
This article says 'the surgeon places an implant in the breast. An implant is a soft silicone shell filled with silicone gel or saline (salt water).'

I understand skin is stretched but what happens when that implant explodes?
(This is silly ik)

[bente2]

If it explodes, that person needs to seek immediate medical help because that’s very dangerous. You could possibly die from those fluids.

[Political_dude]

@bente2 that's scary.

[Political_dude]

@bente2 thanks for mho

[SterlingSilver1202]

Stretch marks are just human tiger stripes and are awesome

[cheesePancake]

Lmao that's literally what I say when someone ask me about stretch marks?

[SterlingSilver1202]

Then you're an awesome Tiger

[thechosen]

Not at all... but im bothered if my girlfriend is bothered by her own stretchtmarks... nothing more un- attractive than someone whos insecure and points out their own imperfections... we all have imperfections... its normal. Its not normal to think you are ugly or less worthy if you have flaws

[Zendrya]

I don't care about my boyfriends stretch marks and he doesn't care about mine

[Greenbeen3]

Sounds nice

[Anonymous]

I had them since I was 16 even though I had never gained weight. The doctor at that time said they can happen during your teens without any known cause but they are harmless. Later in life I went through periods of being overweight, losing, putting back on, etc.
Some guys were cool and just loved me for who I was, some guys were critical of my weight. None of them ever said anything about my stretch marks - I guess none of them cared about them.

[Anon-ymous1]

Depends. If the rest of her overall is still fit/slim/hot and she has a nice proportion/body ratio, like chest-to-hips are good and all that, then no we usually don't care much. Would depend how many of them there were I guess, but it's usually okay with us if overall she's hot.

But if she has a bunch because she's chunky or chubby, then that's a no go.

[The-Three]

So she would have to be really hot for stretch marks to be fine?

[Anon-ymous1]

@The-Three
Define "really" hot. She'd have to be hot enough for us to be attracted to her, yeah.

The downvotes are amusing, but fake Internet points don't change real-life truth. I don't really understand why people (only girls, apparently) think it will.

[The-Three]

But you said in your comment she had to be fit / slim / hot, not just attractive. Cause i'm attractive and I'm not fit/slim.

[Anon-ymous1]

@The-Three
That's generally what "attractive" means.

[PhillipDead]

Nope. doesn't make a difference honestly. I dont date a girl, get to the point where Im seeing her naked and then say "Oh, you have stretch marks? We can't date anymore, thats disgusting. Good bue"