How do you know a guy is bullshitting?

[Anonymous]

A guy I wasn't serious about just ended it with me and my ego is a little hurt lol. I never initiated texts bc I wanted him to take the lead. I never called either and he said he doesn't like talking on the phone. I had to encourage him to take me out bc he wanted to Netflix and chill and I was against that so I made a suggestion for a restaurant and we had planned a date today. He just texted me saying he met someone else and he likes the connection they've established. I don't believe him, I just think he's a cheap ass but how do you tell someone's lying? I told him I had other plans and to take care. I really do, I have a lot of errands and was going to cancel if I couldn't make it. How do you know the bullshit?

[InfoBot]

It could just be that he was only looking for a hookup, hence the Netflix and chill suggestion (which is often just an excuse to get someone alone). Either way, you don't know for sure if he's lying so no amount of speculation will give you the truth. Only he can tell you the truth and he likely won't if he hasn't already.

Forget him, there are plenty more fish in the sea.

[Asker]

He wanted the Netflix and chill but then he was scared to have me over. I wasn't interested bc he was too cowardly

[InfoBot]

Maybe he had insecurities, body insecurities, etc. People often don't tell the full truth about how they actually look and they only send old photos of when they were in better shape.

[Asker]

He was insecure. His ex cheated and he was looking for someone as insecure as him

[InfoBot]

Sounds like you've dodged a bullet then, lol. You don't need someone that needs breast feeding and tucking in at night.

[Anshul07]

He is asshole.. dump him in garbage.
Don't give him shit.
Increase your ego girl😂😂😂
All the best for it😂😂😂

[americas_sweetheartx]

Honestly I would call him a cheap ass. He obviously won't change. we can't tell if he's lying or not through text but just fuck him.

[Asker]

Yes fuck him!

[Buckzor]

Seems he wasn't interested in a connection.

[Asker]

He wanted someone stuck on his nuts, literally lmao

[Nahid1234]

Leave him then.

[americas_sweetheartx]

They aren't together

[Asker]

that's not answering the question

[Nahid1234]

Girls are so afraid to leave a guy. Guys can leave a girl quickly

[Asker]

Nobody is together crazy

[Nahid1234]

Yes I’m a crazy psycho boy

[Nahid1234]

😊😊