Being single especially at an older age is a sign that you are not a compatible mate. That you have failed multiple times at relationships and that is a red flag to beware before involving yourself with a person like that.
It’s not looked down upon. In fact your friends who marry young and have kids young are bad decision makers. During the years of young adulthood. You will have many relationships of misconception. Meaning you think you love them but don’t or “fall out of love” so they say. Is it really wise to make those big decisions with somebody when both parties are still mature and developing? No. Wait as long as you can.
Because most people are dependent instead of independent if you can live alone and figure you out then if anything ever should happen it be easier to accept someone into your life and be complete.
Maybe im 31 and have dyslexia... altho I like the compliment so I shall stay quiet and smile politely screaming for more behind my single dramatic tear
People determine there self worth by having people rate them or by how many like they get on selfies, instead of judging people by the content of their character to paraphrase Martin Luther King
I am single and alwways had been single my whole entire life. I never had boyfriends or even date ever so I dont know what feels like having a boyfriend, but even though I like to be single it won't hurt me to at least try to experimen and experience t what it feels like to date someone.
I don't know.. but I don't care either.. I'm happy with my single life I can change this whenever I want but for real being single is very much less hectic than being in a relationship..
yayyy! So when and where should I come to grab my double cheese burst farmhouse pizza with extra paprika which will definitely make a hole in your purse? lmaoo
I don't think it's looked down upon, it just seems people can't understand how someone could be happy being single, probably because they themselves hate being alone so they think everyone else hates being alone too.
It incites the thought that you can have long relationship and you're single for a reason or so society bullshit like that, don't force anything to fit in, specially to social standard to be taken
I think the majority of people don't really care whether you're single or not. If anything they might just wonder if you're "lonely" or something like that.
that`s avery good question probably the best i encountered so far here. i always wondered why , also , presuming people who ask are not arrogant and having a fabulous impression about themselves,
I think that sometimes people don't always realise that life is sometimes more about the journies than the destinations. I've had many lovers but that doesn't mean I ended my journey each time I met them. I kept going. So I guess that everyone wants life to be perfect but it's difficult to accept the imperfection required in getting there gurlfrien.
Loneliness is good. People are more in control of their own lives... plus they have more time to think about other things. Women are a distraction... lol
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In my honest opinion, I believe being single is the best! I'll rather be single than in a boring, unhappy relationship.
Some people just don't understand this and until you have someone, they won't let you be.
Being single especially at an older age is a sign that you are not a compatible mate. That you have failed multiple times at relationships and that is a red flag to beware before involving yourself with a person like that.
Because people wrongly assume that no one is single by choice.
im single by choice >:( , not my choice, but its still a choice.
It’s not looked down upon. In fact your friends who marry young and have kids young are bad decision makers. During the years of young adulthood. You will have many relationships of misconception. Meaning you think you love them but don’t or “fall out of love” so they say. Is it really wise to make those big decisions with somebody when both parties are still mature and developing? No. Wait as long as you can.
Because most people are dependent instead of independent if you can live alone and figure you out then if anything ever should happen it be easier to accept someone into your life and be complete.
Being married is a capstone of adulthood. If you’re single, it’s as if you’re not fulfilling your purpose
Because no loves themselves anymore, and we have no self worth
13 talking about people lacking self worth. Scary intelligence.
Maybe im 31 and have dyslexia... altho I like the compliment so I shall stay quiet and smile politely screaming for more behind my single dramatic tear
Wellllll doesn't take away from my joy. 🙂
Heuheuheu
Now I've gotta know. Whose intelligence is this the 13 year old or the 31 year old.
Lel, guess u'll have to stick around figure that out 😏
Im too old to be sticking around a 13 year old. Commenting young intelligence is fine. Steady Interaction even I do not condone.
I meant stick around on the app... there's no harm in comment wars.
But I'm not 13 lel, don't worry, I won't send u to jail 😂
True. However I can not so enjoy the app and spread your opinion. Have fun.
People determine there self worth by having people rate them or by how many like they get on selfies, instead of judging people by the content of their character to paraphrase Martin Luther King
I am single and alwways had been single my whole entire life. I never had boyfriends or even date ever so I dont know what feels like having a boyfriend, but even though I like to be single it won't hurt me to at least try to experimen and experience t what it feels like to date someone.
Because most people think that finding a partner, means you are succesful
I don't know.. but I don't care either.. I'm happy with my single life I can change this whenever I want but for real being single is very much less hectic than being in a relationship..
at least you don't have to buy costly gifts for your Valentine
#SaveValentinesMoneyForPIZZASandMOREPIZZASSS
@Halucinator True.. I can go shopping all by myself and spend that money on my own shoes and my own pizza lol
and if you're kind enough, you can also buy a pizza for a really nice guy here. His name is Halucinator I guess😜
@Halucinator haha.. yeah sure
yayyy! So when and where should I come to grab my double cheese burst farmhouse pizza with extra paprika which will definitely make a hole in your purse? lmaoo
I don't think it's looked down upon, it just seems people can't understand how someone could be happy being single, probably because they themselves hate being alone so they think everyone else hates being alone too.
It incites the thought that you can have long relationship and you're single for a reason or so society bullshit like that, don't force anything to fit in, specially to social standard to be taken
I think the majority of people don't really care whether you're single or not. If anything they might just wonder if you're "lonely" or something like that.
that`s avery good question
probably the best i encountered so far here.
i always wondered why , also , presuming people who ask are not arrogant and having a fabulous impression about themselves,
I don't look down on single people. My guess is they think it speaks about their qualities to attract and keep someone.
I think that sometimes people don't always realise that life is sometimes more about the journies than the destinations.
I've had many lovers but that doesn't mean I ended my journey each time I met them. I kept going.
So I guess that everyone wants life to be perfect but it's difficult to accept the imperfection required in getting there gurlfrien.
Loneliness is good. People are more in control of their own lives... plus they have more time to think about other things. Women are a distraction... lol
amen brother
Hahaha
The older you are and you're still single then people start to question if you're ever starting a family i guess
Not really. I absolutely love being single, more than being in a relationship. Especially now that I barely have time to even sleep
Because it is assumed that if you're single you're lonely and sad