How far do you go on a first date? (Page 2)

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How far do you go on a first date?

Anonymous · Answer

a kiss (depends)

Usually that is the norm.

but then again me and my girlfriend of 4 years (proposing this summer) had sex on our first date. People are different. You should do whatever you are comfortable with.

CarpetDenim · Answer

I don't even make it out my front door. Guess that's why I've never been on a date.

omegofthepack · Answer

Um I guess it would depend on how it goes I would have to draw the line 2nd base on principle call me old fashioned to a degree

miia389 · Answer

Maybe maybe 3rd base. But that's very rare. Most likely just making out or kissing if it was really good date and I can feel chemistry

unknown-creature · Answer

If you are a talking about what I would try with the girl maybe I will try to hug her, nothing else, but this depends on how is the girl, if she feels the same way as I do then we could go farther.

cherryphi82 · Answer

Maybe a kiss on the cheek. But likely just a hug or handshake. The only way I'd ever do more on a first date is if we'd already been talking two months.

Pirate_bunny · Answer

Depending on the length of the date, time of day, but usually a kiss is enough for the first date.

rachelrockstheblock · Answer

I've been married for a while but if i like a guy id give it up

LeadSquirrel · Answer

I like to use the first date as a way to see how the person acts in public, their personality, and converse. But I tend to go with the flow.

Royelda · Answer

It's a first date we go nowhere than talk and get to know each other.

katiesmuff · Answer

I went as far as I felt comfortable with and yes there was sometimes sex.

googlees · Answer

I can get to the doorway of the restaurant, but cannot actually go in. Or the escalator if the restaurant is in a mall

shazz78 · Answer

As far as both of us are comfortable. It's exciting to fool around on a first date especially when it happens unexpectedly.

thisguyzack · Answer

I go by my gut. Why think so hard, just do what feels RIGHT. Love isn't a game. There is no cheat codes.

just_tired · Answer

Only had the one, we kissed. I probably wouldn't go as far as having sex, but I could be wrong. Haven't been in the situation.

Eclipso · Answer

Depends on how long I've been talkin with the other person, conversation contents, and of course what type of chemistry we have.

doglover77 · Answer

There's one guy I had sex with within hours of the first time hanging out. I knew him from high school and had a severe crush on him. Other than that I wouldn't even hold hands with a stranger.

Anonymous · Answer

I have had a kiss at most, and not initiated by me but by the guy, only once. They say I am an intimidating person so people don't know how far they should go, and I am kind of shy to kiss or have sex or initiate any on the first date.

melanieeeB · Answer

Depends on the guy and how well we go along, maybe just talking, just a kiss, making out or sex before the first date lol

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Just talking over coffee or dinner and get to know one another.

JoJoBizzaro · Answer

Depends really. I am never in a rush- let things go naturally I say. Most I have done is kissed on date 1, but I haven't had any first dates since my current fiance, and all previous were in high school.

Namkrow · Answer

I'd walk her home if it was nearby. Wouldn't go for a kiss, I'm not good at that and there's really no way of knowing what she wants unless she comes right out and says it. In that case, I might go for a kiss.

lovebug093 · Answer

I thank him and a hug and kiss and that's about it.

passinby · Answer

I drove 3 hrs once and she had one shot at it if she wanted it.

Moonchild714 · Answer

It varies based on the date. At least a kiss goodnight. If there is chemistry very possible sex.

lastchancemotel · Answer

It depends on the woman and what I'm planning for in the long run

TclaytonIi · Answer

I go as far as to the end of the block... then I got to get back in the house cause my mom said so...

LifeEqualsLove · Answer

I don't like that I've kissed and then some on first dates. I feel like now I wish I'd had built more of a connection before doing anything.

mrkdvsn · Answer

If I could go back in time and do it all over again, I would've concentrated on just getting to know her, and perhaps sharing some past experiences we've had in our lives.

badgalg · Answer

Never went on date. But Maybe a cute little kiss at most

MigzyCaPWN · Answer

I'd give it all of it up on the first date. Provided I was wine and dined first and treated with respect lol

Want2Know2 · Answer

I definitely hug when meeting and leaving, a kiss on the lips is a no.

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

Into the van, down by the river. Come to think of it, there aren't really any second dates with me.

Manu520 · Answer

Probably just a hug or a kiss on forehead if I am really comfortable with her and if she make me feel like her most important property.

Jmcmanning · Answer

Usually I am not interested in the guy enough to go that far. It's a guy by guy basis.

issabelle · Answer

a simple kiss is as far as i have gone and as far as i will ever go i dont see the point in going any further then that i mean its just the first date

sbnalenon · Answer

Depends upon the guy and how relaxed & secure I'm with him

CandacePerry · Answer

Never had sex. My date night is Tuesday 6-8 depending on.

devilman666 · Answer

Probably no further than kissing unless I really really like the girl.

jellyroo · Answer

Depends entirely on the chemistry I have with my date. Could be anything from just a hug to sex.

performerwannabe · Answer

I wouldn't even kiss on the first date unless I knew the person before that and for a long while

idkwhatidk · Answer

After a first date, a hug is the furthest I'll go whether or not I want to continue seeing them.

PrivateGurl1234 · Answer

Being kissed but if it goes further I’m happy with that!

Solias · Answer

I don't care how far a first date goes the only way I wouldn't want a second date is if she's an inexcusable bitch or if she's a fence posts

Lastrada · Answer

It depends. All the way with the right person (she’s sexually liberated and knows I’m a gentleman lover), or just a hug if it’s uncertain.

deanlarouche · Answer

Depends on how fare she wants to go. I always leave that upto her. If she says no then I respect her for it

savalisk · Answer

Around a 30km radius. Unless you live near a family member, then I'd travel to the other end of the state.

pecansam · Answer

Been in a relationship 6_8times and never went out on a date , I am very poor actually I take that back I had a girl take ME out on a date once but it turned out she only wanted to fuck

ZeussLightningBolt · Answer

No further then the next town

monkeynutts · Answer

Ironically not far enough anymore, I don't do one night stands anymore, I turned a girl down who might have wanted sex. Some people don't handle honesty very well.

jamgrl1990 · Answer

Not that far. No kissing at all. I dont know him enough if it is the first date

Anonymous · Answer

I sucked a guys cock on first date... Normally dont do that he was too not. that was last year im still seeing him

ImagineSketchy · Answer

Never been on a 1st date. I wouldn't know the first thing about dating.

Kreneman · Answer

It really depends on the person especially on what they're comfortable with.

someguykev · Answer

All the way with protection, no sense in beating around the bush

DollySummers · Answer

I am planning on not dating until my career life is dealt with

Brokenstoneheart · Answer

I never go far... I normally go back home after 35 miles

Jessington · Answer

Just chat have a laugh and get to know eachother. I don't rush.

stifler1979 · Answer

As far as their Mum if she was hot and no-one minded.

MEH2018 · Answer

I've gone all the way  But usually just a hug and maybe a small kiss

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