Men, do you sincerely think that women over 30 are "undesirable"? (Page 2)

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Just wanted to get a scope of what society thinks. I was told by an ex that no one would ever marry me after I hit 30.

Pyrofox · Answer

Well if thats your mindset that your never going to do something then it definitely won't. I'd say learn to keep more of an optimistic mindset. And before you know it you could find some one who is just perfect.

DodgersGM · Answer

Women do *not* become undesirable in their 30s. He was just saying that to you to lower your self-worth.

mattai787 · Answer

No way!!! A woman who is smart, passionate about her work and if we get along well!!! I wouldn't care much if she is 32.. But yeah a girl who is about 36 for me would be a no -no because of the age gap.
But if I was older, then hell why not?

TheFunkyThumb · Answer

Connection is more important to me than age. I just turned 30 and if I had to pick between a 23 year old and a 35 year old who were equally attractive to me I'd pick the one i had a better connection to

FinalVow · Answer

please your ex is a total moron. it isn't matter of ever but who. after you hit 30 you become a bit more picky (not in a bad way) and so do guys. It just takes you finding the right person.

Creamofthecrop2255 · Answer

I'm 39 years old, I have 21 year olds that hit on me sometimes. I'm not trying to sound egotistical, I am an attractive male and look to be about 30 to 33 years old. I have found over time that women over 30 are much more desirable because they're smarter, they're experienced, and they know what they want.

Amir-Rima · Answer

our age is just a number with out any special meaning. A young boy/Girl in 20s could be as disappointed as the one who is 80 s and the 80 s could be as energetic and optimistic as 20s. SO don't waste our time by this number. I think it would be better to focus on some other criteria like how they act regardless to their age!!!

Ezra5808 · Answer

I think women in their thirties are very desirable. It's actually my dating preference. Your ex is an asshole by the way.

Anonymous · Answer

I think I'm reaching an age where the range I'm interested in dating isn't going up. I'm 26 but don't want to date over 24yo people. Plus that makes sense to me personally: Given the complications that arise with older women as mothers, if you're going to develop a relationship naturally (albeit still kinda fast) then she'd need to be around 24 to pop all the kids out by the time she began to move into that risky zone to be a mother in.

AthleticMom · Answer

FYI Friend from pro model mother moved to a college town when married, age ~32 and those guys would follow her all over town!

Jjpayne · Answer

She looks pretty good right? I feel like I know her from somewhere...

raney150 · Answer

Personally, I like to date close to my age, which is 25. So I'd date someone in their early 30's now. Once I get older I'd be willing to date older women.

Ayer93 · Answer

If there was a 30 year old attracted to me and physically attractive by my standards I would hands down go for them. Maturity and composure are extremely attractive qualities that generally come as a package with those aged 30 and up.

madgoat · Answer

At my age, 30s look youthful yet more mature and solvent. But they're going to want kids.
20s are too young and are going to want to play around.
If I were 20 something, I would think differently perhaps but I'm glad I'm not.

Weapon77 · Answer

Right now, yes, but I am only 22. When I am 30 I will think 30 year old women are the best lol Your ex is just trying to hurt you, probably bitter or jealous.

stfu314 · Answer

Yes and no. I don't rule out a woman cause she is in her 30's but yes in general younger women are more attractive, and are less likely to have children. Which is a bigger "undesirable" for a man usually.

davidrees · Answer

Your ex is a tool, women in their 30s are as fantastic as any other woman, although the life experience has brought them confidence, which is incredibly attractive.

SanePerson · Answer

Already married someone 5 years younger than me (I'm 29). It makes sense when you really think about it. We have a huge amount of time to figure out if we want kids. If she were older, this would not be the case.

Vasco423 · Answer

My aunt married after 40. Your friend knows nothing about life. It does get harder for women to get married after a certain age but definitely not impossible

jakeforfun · Answer

I haven't been with a woman under 30 in 10 years. I was with a 34 year old about 6 months ago. I actually prefer a more mature, experienced woman. One that's adult, and knows how to have fun of all kinds.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

You need to see such a statement in connection with the person who makes it.
From me, you would hear s'thing like: Below 40 is a no-go for a relationship. They are not on my (individual evolution) level.
Once again, it is all relative

anohR · Answer

I am on my mid 30's, single and I hope I still look "desirable" to some 😏

DianaWest · Answer

Wow, and i was the one defending men, saying to all women that they weren't as shallow as they thought. Man was I wrong.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Of course women over 30 are desirable. Self confidence, experience, they know who they are and what they want. Your ex is an idiot, don't listen to anything he ever told you

acooke-13 · Answer

Not at all, who your attracted too grows with your age, so if your 35, your gonna find people around that age attractive

Astoriana · Answer

Man, the incels are out en masse today... bitching about how all women are sluts. Jealous, are we, boys?

grace_lynn · Answer

I think if you continue to take care of your self into your 30s you become hotter because most tend to let go do to kids work ex.

AynonOMouse · Answer

To begin a new relationship with and build a family, then yes, women over 30 are undesirable to me. Same goes for the younger ones if they already have kids by someone else.

Dinnye001 · Answer

Many women don't exactly age well and don't know how to handle it. As a rule of thumb, it is better to fish from 20 to 29 as long as it is possible than to be with a woman who is single at 30. The tables really turn at that time.

Philyouup · Answer

A girl doesn't become a woman until her 30's. All the "ick" and "gross" statements go away. they become less inhibited and more comfortable with themselves. Best sex I ever had, was with woman over 30 .

passinby · Answer

I have dated 36 when I was 20, but I am not the marrying kind.

avakarolinaava · Answer

i haven't any idea. im 30 so...

Pamina · Answer

I don't feel undesirable at all. In fact, most men who show interest in me are under 30.

BiggerNotBetter · Answer

The best age for a woman, IMHO, is 40. She still retains her beauty, but she knows how to do some things to keep her man happy.

LordChaoticX · Answer

"Older women, make beautiful lovers because they just know how to treat a man I have been around some and I have discovered that older women, make beautiful lovers".

jessture · Answer

Women lose their market power in their 30s, and men gain it. Being a man in my 30s is like being a woman in her 20s, I get so much attention from women that I barely have to try.

Shanxo · Answer

Well obviously men/women your age would be interested in you. I know a couple that got married at ages 70. Age is just a number, love is love.

Intraluminal · Answer

In terms of dating you're fine. In terms of getting married? I don't know the exact statistics, but the rate goes down pretty quickly after age 30, and by 40 is miniscule.

pervertedjester · Answer

If anything it's the opposite. The problem is by that age they've already married so unless I want to break someone up I still gotta date a woman in her late 20s.

Johnbson · Answer

Adding this opinion to say you should word your questions better to make it an "either/or" rather than a question that I would answer yes to both.

ThisAndThat · Answer

I picked women in their 20's and the reason is most women over 30, they either have kids, they're divorced or both. Not to mention most have been with every tom dick and harry.

sadkitty101 · Answer

my nanna is 70 and after my grandad died 7 years later she was dating again and they are married for 5 years now and they’re super happy <3

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

Usually fat, has kids already, divorced twice, starting to sag, less energy than women in their 20's, shitty opinions about men after getting pumped and dumped since she can't choose decent men to sleep with.

Anonymous · Answer

What rubbish! At 30, you are really beginning to know what life is all about! I am sure that women over 30 are less likely to stray. I would say you would be extremely desirable!

ImagineSketchy · Answer

If I were in my 30s, I would be find with women in their 30s, but since I'm not, i prefer them in their 20s because that's my age range.

MlleCake · Answer

I have had three serious marriage proposals in my late 30s/early 40s.

HerOverThere · Answer

I have more men hit on me now that in my 20s & I'm 31

AK140 · Answer

Definitely not! I've always dated women in their 30s -40-s. Now, I'm dating a 55. Normally it's the best sex I ever have with women this age. So, I start to really fancy women when they hit 30.

Malik00 · Answer

It really depends on how well they take care of themselves. If they are over 30 and look like they are still in high school i would be all over that. If they were 30 and looked like they were 45 then probably not.

DANGO88 · Answer

Never felt better in my life and felt so desirable as now that I’m 32

Celtero · Answer

Older women are simply not as physically attractive.

doflamingo457 · Answer

as a guy that's always been seconds, and sloopy seconds and picked last I would never settle with women who don't attract me or rejected me beofre and now want to date past my heydays fuck youuuuuuuuuuu whowho

Miristheiss · Answer

A hot 20 year old would be a very attractive woman in her 30's as well.

Decentguy · Answer

depends on the woman actually, Most of the above 30's women are really too weird, but some of them are really mature and interesting too

Curmudgeon · Answer

I'm 50, of course not. As for younger men, one word: Cougars.

Deydey12345 · Answer

Men would jump on anything. But it's true that they prefer the youngest one (20 yo)

raspberry0416 · Answer

That's not true in my experience. I've never been married and men in their thirties are interested in dating me.

weaponsdude · Answer

Women older than thirty make it hard to resist their advances. They know what they want and go after it.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm attracted to women in their 30's, but I've found that if they've been single for a long time, they're most likely undesirable to marry. Not because of their age, but because their personality eventually runs men off.

TonyRyanAgain · Answer

Lmao. That's dumb. You're never really "undesirable". Good thing he's your ex.

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